Chapter 9 The Situation of Another Difficult Family

Teacher Yao said: "There is a more typical poor family in Xiaolaiguo's village, this family was put in a cell for the male owner stealing one of someone else's farming cows, and the hostess was not mentally normal. The two children of this family are out of school, and they are very young, with no one to take care of them, and they wander around all day long, causing trouble. The people of the village hated the two children. The biggest problem of these two children now is that they have learned to lie, steal, destroy public and private property, smoke low-quality cigarettes, participate in fights and brawls at a young age, and almost all the bad things in society are almost all learned by them. ”

Director Zhou Tangrong didn't ask: "Teacher Yao, as far as you know, the children in this family are in a free-range situation, is there any possibility of saving them now?" ”

After thinking about it, Mr. Yao said: "Director Zhou, I personally think that the main problem in this family lies in the father of the child, I have long understood some of the situation of these two children in this family, and the eldest son I have taught for a few years, and they are still relatively smart. It's just a pity that since their father was locked up, no one in the village was willing to help take care of the two young children, which led to the situation of these two children 'fending for themselves'. ”

Yang Jiewen also followed up and asked: "Teacher Yao, according to what you say, these two children can actually be saved, as long as there is such a possibility, we need to help them, the object and purpose of our rescue is to extend a helping hand to these families living in helpless and difficult situations, and help them get out of their daily difficulties." Especially for families with such young children, we need to focus on pairing up to help. ”

Teacher Yao continued, "You are new to the village, and you don't know some of the actual situation in this village. Compared with Maple Grove Valley, this village is much backward in terms of ideology and concepts. The villagers are concerned about their own private affairs, and few of them will show empathy. This is also the main factor that everyone in this village is self-endangered, indifferent, and very backward in terms of ideology. ”

Yang Jiewen said with some indignation: "Everyone in this village is selfish, is it true that the village cadres in this village are also at this level?" It's incredible. ”

Teacher Yao said helplessly: "Village cadres are also human beings, and they also have unspeakable hardships, they can't even take care of their own families, and they can still expect them to care about others, which is unrealistic." ”

When Zhou Tangrong heard this, he said: "In this way, the cultural level of the cadres in this village must be very low, right?" They themselves cannot escape poverty in their lives, and they really cannot be counted on. ”

Manager Song Yang, one of the members of the delegation, said: "From the situation of our visit all day, what impressed me the most is that some villagers here are indeed very backward in thinking, their lives are relatively monotonous, and their human feelings are weak, resulting in their conservative and selfish behavior, afraid of trouble and responsibility, and almost forgetting their proper sympathy, and their human feelings are sophisticated and fragile." Perhaps the root cause is mainly due to the lack of information to the outside world, the general low level of culture, not much contact with the outside world, and the low perception of things, and these shortcomings are constantly and slowly magnifying at the same time, which is really a misfortune and sorrow. ”

Teacher Yao nodded in agreement and said: "Yes, cognitively, the people here are indeed a little hindsight, mainly because they are very worried that their original things will not be able to be protected. But the more afraid you are of losing, the easier it is to lose, in fact, you can't keep the things that are easy to lose. But they don't understand that, they don't understand what the real meaning of their daily lives is. The lost direction in the confusion is getting worse and worse. ”

Director Zhou Tangrong said with concern: "This is a common drawback in these backward places, but no one can eliminate their concepts from their bones for a while, and this kind of ignorance, backwardness and ignorance will exist for a while." We are not only thinking about how to provide them with material help, but also how to emancipate their minds and rebirth them is another very difficult task. ”

Wang Xinyi has always specialized in silk foreign trade business, his experience is very rich, to speak from the heart, he has a deep sense of the original ecological living environment here. He said: "We can't ask too much of them at the moment, because they are all primitive and backward living patterns. But everyone should believe that the villagers here must have kindness and kindness in their bones. It's just that every family is burdened by the sense of crisis in life, and there are still people in the village who are not covered with clothes and food. No one has yet to escape the fear and threat of poverty, which has led to everyone becoming selfish. This is a primitive sense of self-protection, we are beyond reproach, we still need to have an in-depth discussion on their help, prescribe the right medicine, change their thinking and concepts in order to make achievements. ”

"Compared to the general environment here, the strength of our people is still too small, and the role is too weak and weak. But we can't be discouraged, since we are all here, we need to have a strong perseverance and firm determination to move forward, since we have chosen this kind of love to pass on the fire of the people, even if they are the smallest and most insignificant, they also have positive practical significance. Personally, I will always have this confidence in the determination to pass on these 'sparks' until it ignites a raging fire. Yang Jiewen continued: "So, tonight, we still need to discuss a lot of issues, especially for the discussion of the two children's problems just now, how to solve them and implement them still need to work together." ”

Some village cadres came to say that dinner had been prepared, although it was simple, but everyone finally ate a meal of hot and baked rice, and this meal was also paid by the help group before the villagers should accept it. After eating, Mr. Yao went to discuss with the village cadres about settling down for the night. Everyone is tired, and it is unrealistic to walk to Maple Valley School tonight to board at the school. It's just that this is indeed a big problem for the local village cadres, but the biggest difficulty is still to be solved immediately. The village cadres then gathered all the cadres together to discuss the matter, and in the end, everyone had no choice but to disperse the guests to the cadres' homes to stay there.

Yang Jiewen was taken away by the village women's director. The women's director doesn't look very old, but she has a good temper. At that time, she was the one who had the most quarrel with the village secretary.

Yang Jiewen didn't know why this village cadre's thinking was so backward. If she could realize that these entrepreneurs from coastal cities were taking huge risks to help the poor residents of their villages, would she still be so pushy? Then, such a woman director is a completely unqualified village cadre.

Yang Jiewen walked with her, she was really uneasy in her heart, she was disgusted with her in her heart, but on the surface she looked very happy, looking very happy.