Chapter Ninety-Four: Like a Thief
In the 729 park, everyone has different ways of dealing with pressure, the most choices are to go to the past and present lives and the casino, and the rest I have seen inexplicably yelling at the wall, lying on the bed and crying wolves, and drinking too much silly fun......
And me.
I chose the one that was different from everyone else.
I choose to steal other people's happiness like a thief.
"You've finally messaged me back, are you okay?"
"Did they hit you?"
"Can the hundreds of dollars transferred to you every week guarantee that you won't be beaten?"
The guy confessed to the girl.
When I saw this from the chat logs between the two of them, I could understand why he was telling the truth.
Because the guy wanted to protect this girl, he must know that the 'client' he didn't cut off would be taken over by someone else, and he was even more afraid that this girl would be in prison after being taken over by someone else.
"I'm sorry, I'll have to be honest with you, I'm a liar."
"Scammers who specialize in scamming girls out of money through web chat."
"Don't look for me in the future, and don't trust any strangers."
"Actually, I didn't mean to lie to you, I was forced to do it...... I ......"
The guy said everything about himself, and he typed a small composition full of mobile phone screens.
He said that he was a rural kid and that he just wanted to make money when he went abroad.
He also talked about what happened after coming to this park, including being beaten for the first time a few days ago.
I know, I know the reason why the guy told this girl, he just wanted to prove that he was the same person as the other party.
Do you know why you need to prove it?
Because the girls told the truth again and again, it put a lot of pressure on him!
The girl didn't hang him like a licking dog, and made it clear at the beginning that it was impossible for the two of them;
People didn't expect him to become a wallet, and they got 520 and 1314 every holiday;
She just regarded the guy as an emotional sustenance in a bland conversation, and shared the happy and unhappy things in her life.
But she didn't know that this was called a 'trap' in our 'fine chatter'.
We will induce your desire to share through constant communication and sharing, and when you start sharing, keep asking about the whole process and deeply participate in it.
At this time, your behavior will become your habit, your habit will become your sustenance, your sustenance will make you take out your phone and open the chat box whenever you are not busy, and even, finally, the moment you wander at work, the moment you go to the toilet, and even want to see if the person on the other end of the network has sent you a message all the time.
It's not love, it's psychology.
What you share is not life, but polite feedback to others when they share their life.
It's like when someone smiles and says 'hello', but any normal person will smile and nod or respond with a 'hello'.
Later, when I returned to China, I heard that some people called this thing 'PUA', and I responded with great disdain: "Isn't this just a 'demand trap' based on people's mental patterns?" P What UA, this thing is left over from playing many years ago. ”
But the guy was in this mode, and he couldn't bear to knife this girl.
He deleted her.
It was as if he had made up his mind to cut off contact.
I'm sure the guy thinks in his heart, and there's no deception.
However, there is also a saying in psychology called the 'abandoned cat effect'.
The original meaning of the abandoned cat effect is that when a cat is abandoned by its owner, it will become very well-behaved when it is adopted by the next owner.
In our case, this means that when the other party has completely become psychologically dependent on you, but can't make up your mind to spend money, you have to decisively delete the other party's green bubble on the grounds of 'distrust', and the clear result is 'since you don't trust me, we don't have any need to get along'.
Think about how girls feel at this time?
The sustenance that had just become a reliance instantly deleted himself......
Before that, you may have talked to him about how shameless the unit leader is; how idiotic a colleague is; It is even possible to say how much your parents don't understand you.
At least in your world and his world, you seem to treat everyone as a bad person.
However, at this moment, the world you and he formed together collapsed.
At that time, the girl will be like the guy is in contact with her, almost crazy to find it. After all, she invested a lot of emotions as a bet, how could she lose so easily?
Yes, that's the most outrageous part of scams.
It is also where the abandoned cat effect comes into play.
Those girls would use the 'message' of the 'plus person' to show that they were not distrustful at the time, but just wanted to be more cautious......
When the news of the stone sinking into the sea wears out the patience, the 'add friends' message sent will become 'Okay, I can't invest money!' ’。
Your mood at the time was definitely not 'I'm going to be with him,' but 'I really don't want to be annoyed, so be it!'" Even if you still have doubts about this matter in your heart, you will be disturbed by emotions and unable to think.
The girl the guy contacted was.
He'd already deleted the girl.
All I saw was a conversation between the girl after the girl's 'friend addition application' was approved through the green bubble.
The two of them are like a couple who are really in love, the man says, 'I can handle it', and the woman explains, 'I just want to help you, can't I?' 'Same.
After the guy explained all the current situation to him, the girl actually began to take the initiative to give the guy money.
At first it was five hundred, then two or three hundred, and recently it has become one or two hundred, and sometimes, only one hundred.
I can already see that the girl's life is struggling. It can be seen that although this girl said 'we can't do it', her actual actions prove that she has fallen into it and can't extricate herself.
I seemed to see the guy receiving the money, he must have clicked on the red envelope, and lowered his head alone, with a bitter face and didn't know what to say.
Because this only 100 yuan can save him from being beaten in Building 2, but this 100 yuan can completely crush a person's personality in a moment.
Hi.
At this moment, I turned off the guy's chat history, when has it been, I can still think of personality in my mind, here, I don't even count as a person, and I still have a personality.
When, when, when.
There was a knock on the door of my office, and the old pig was lying outside the door looking in through the crack in the glass.
"Enter!"
After I finished shouting, the old pig walked in proudly, didn't even say a word, sat on the chair, and put his feet directly on the desk table.
He's never been so arrogant to me.
At that moment, I raised my head, smiled grimly and asked, "Is this a good thing?" ”
Sou.
The old pig immediately withdrew his feet and looked at me in surprise: "Lao Xu, how do you know?" ”
"It's no good that you dare to come into my house and put your feet on the table?"
"Do you not know how Ah Yong died, or why did you not have the knife?"
The old pig was a lot more obedient: "Brother." ”
This is the first time he called me brother: "I'm here to send you a lot of money, for nothing!" ”
(End of chapter)