Leng Ruoshuang paused: "Your grandmother asked the mother-in-pearl to pick out some books that have been circulated outside and tell you, but not to let you follow the above practice." ”

"You know, there is only one possibility for such a pale young lady, and that is probably really stupid. Do you know who wrote these books? On the surface, it is written the loyalty of love, how did love come about? The lady of a wealthy and powerful family...... Even if it's not a concubine, it's a concubine, it's also a leading lady, or a stepfamily, don't think about being a concubine, even if it's a good concubine, if you're a sister, Sister Ya, your starting point is already much better than your aunt, don't be a concubine. Sister Yi, tell me about the difference with your two sisters. ”

Xiao Yiyi stood up, saluted first, and then said: "Two sisters, according to the law, the relationship between a man's wife and concubine is based on the wife, the wife is not allowed to abandon at will, and the wife has the right to dispose of the concubine. Then talk about the stepmother, that is, to fill the house, secondly, the stepmother is not good, if there are only children, it is preferred. Subsequently, in the side room, Shi Nong Industry and Commerce, only Shi was qualified to marry a few women, and the Shang all said that this was a common room. Then, for a concubine, a good concubine, a girl from a serious family, and a poor family background. Then, the concubine, the concubine is the lowest rank of concubine, and will serve the guests. There is also a room, and the room is nameless and undivided, and it is treated as a maid. The last is the outer room, the outer room is the most despised, and it is also nameless and undivided, and it has to bear the infamy, and the children born in the outer room have no inheritance rights, and whether it will be recognized depends on whether the lady in the main room is willing or not. ”

After Xiao Yiyi finished speaking, she looked at her mother brightly, and Leng Ruoshuang motioned for her to sit down: "As a mother-in-law, I have never treated you harshly before. But it didn't teach you much. You have all remembered it for me, hired as a wife, and run as a concubine. What is a concubine? Concubine, plaything ear! Not only can the concubine not be corrected, but also the main room, if not, the price is three years for the man. As a woman, it is more difficult to live, a small world, it is difficult to go out, and you must have more self-respect and self-love. Elopement is not a beautiful love story, when you see your beloved man, you will not be in a touching love with your spring breeze for a while, this is all men have no virtue and no character, and women are rude and not self-respecting! Don't blame others for looking down on you. ”

"This story is just an unattainable dream for a poor scholar, and the identity of the concubine of the Prime Minister's Mansion, let alone being a princess for the prince, it is also okay to marry the emperor as a queen. I shouldn't have let you be too disappointed in the relationship between men and women, but you are women, and men have the right to demand that you are all his own body and mind, and women have no rights. As a woman, be sober, a woman is timid, you can't say it! ”

"Throughout the history books, there are only a handful of examples of true love. The phoenix that is regarded as a good story by the world ends with a white head yin. Wen Jun has two intentions, so he decided to break up. For thousands of years, there has only been one Pan Yang, how low the probability is, and how long the time is. Not to mention whether there is Pan Anren or not, even if there is, are you Yang Rongji? Let's just say that now, the enviable Mrs. Pingyaohou, whose husband made a promise when he married her, that his children would only come out of the lady's womb. Therefore, even if there is a concubine, Mrs. Pingyao Hou is very proud. He also said that the wife of the waiter of the Ministry of Rites is also an enviable, because she is the only one who has a name in her husband's back house, although she has a room, in the eyes of men, it is harmless, and even thinks that he really loves his wife, so he is unwilling to carry the woman back. ”

"Girls, polish your eyes, you won't be as comfortable getting married as you are now, it's the second reincarnation. When choosing a son-in-law, you must choose someone with good character, then, even if you don't love you, you will be responsible. Love and non-love must be put behind character. ”

Leng Ruoshuang took a sip of sour plum juice, the taste in her mouth stimulated her, and she looked at her three daughters: "You have a deep understanding of this, what is it like to be an irresponsible man, it is obvious, I don't want you and I don't want your mother, but you can also force your own mother." Brother Yan'er's biological mother hit the pillar in front of him, and hoped that he could take care of Brother Yan with his guilt, don't ignore it. But your father was not moved for a moment. ”

The three girls have been in dire straits during this time, and they are very touching.

Leng Ruoshuang continued: "Don't envy Miss Chu, Miss Chu is stupid to fall into such love, she is a fool." If you think about it, he can abandon his wife who has been with him for more than ten years for a true love who has not been with him for more than a year, and call his father's child for more than ten years, how terrible is this, once he doesn't love it...... How miserable the end should be, don't stare at the love under your nose, this thing is scarce and doesn't seem to have appeared. ”

"Sister Ruo'er, your face is too good, start tomorrow, retouch your face more, reduce going out, don't be targeted as a concubine. Remember, your father is dead, his reputation has been ruined, your brother or brother has no fame, our family is a paper tiger, there is not much capital to protect you, you have to learn to protect yourself. ”

Xiao Ruoruo's round little face turned pale, and she hurriedly saluted: "Thank you mother for your advice." ”

Leng Ruoshuang stood up and put the shawl on her body: "Among sisters, you must support each other, become each other's dependence, and become your own dependence. One is prosperous, and one is lost. The reputation of one of you is bad, not only affects yourself, but also affects your sisters, the girls of your kindred, and your sons and daughters. Now that you have said that, when you go down, think separately, if you are a man, how do you make a woman fall in love with you. ”

"Yes, Mother!"

The three little ones saluted in unison.

On the way, Xiaowei said, "Madam, will it be too early?" ”

Leng Ruoshuang shook her head: "It's not early, the girl is already soft in her heart." After saying that, it's easy to forget, they have just experienced panic, they are afraid of being confused with the road ahead, and they should listen to it at this time. But I was negligent, just in time, to see my mother. ”

Xiaowei teased: "Madame is now running into the princess's yard from time to time. Didn't the old princess already save you from the morning and dusk? ”

Leng Ruoshuang just said: "It's not particularly busy now, it's her business to avoid it or not, whether it should be or shouldn't be my business, and now, I also like to chat with her." I, the county lord of the Earl, was given by my mother, and the ingenuity of resolving this crisis is not something that ordinary people are willing to give. ”

The new mother-in-law needs to know more.

A maid stood in the corner, her eyebrows lowered, Xiaowei saw this and walked up, talking to her, Leng Ruoshuang didn't wait for Xiaowei, and went to Changyan's courtyard.

After Cuiyi reported it, she went in.

In my memory, the mother-in-law who always set rules for her is probably because she has changed a person, so her whole temperament has changed greatly, mysterious and calm, but she is a little arrogant.

Leng Ruoshuang sat down after saluting, and folded her hands on her laps: "Mother, if my sister is thirteen years old, does my mother have any ideas about her marriage?" ”

Changyan just said: "It's good for you to call the shots." ”

Leng Ruoshuang's eyes are very good, Changyan went back and forth a few times to the memories given by the system, and found that she was really a very powerful woman.