Although doing this by yourself will bring a lot of trouble, it is better to hide it from Xiaozhang in the name of your good.

If you don't know, naturally there won't be so much to do.

There will be no unhappiness and no quarrels.

But Jiang Yan still feels that he should maintain information exchange with his girlfriend.

First of all, he had a similar experience before.

Because of a completely avoidable misunderstanding, he and his girlfriend had a cold war for a whole week, and even laid the fuse in advance for the subsequent breakup.

It was a very uncomfortable and annoying feeling.

So in the next few relationships, he always said something and avoided misunderstandings as much as possible.

Although this is easy for Xiao Zhang to think that he is riding his face: obviously he went to the amusement park with other girls, and he pretended to make a phone call to report to me?

Is it true that I don't have a temper?

Can't you just say no?

But Jiang Yan had actually told Zhang Ruonan about it as early as the night when Tian Xiwei sent out the invitation, and she agreed to it generously and open-mindedly at that time.

As for whether it is true consent or false consent...

Jiang Yan didn't think much about it, and he didn't care.

He is not a father after all, so naturally he will not make some fatherly speeches and operations that are easy to make people feel good about themselves, but in fact treat the other party as their vassals.

After all, figuring out your girlfriend's true thoughts is really a complicated thing, sometimes you need to listen to it in reverse, and sometimes you need to follow her words.

The decision made was not in line with his girlfriend's mind, and she had to be scolded by her, saying that she didn't care about her at all.

Jiang Yan had been involved in a quarrel with his ex-girlfriend before, so he was too lazy to think about it now, and he didn't want to think about it much.

Since you agreed, then I'll go.

If you don't agree, then I'll say no.

It's as simple as that.

He has already put the choice in Xiao Zhang's hands, she only needs to make the choice that best suits her heart.

It's a pity she didn't.

So if Xiao Zhang will be unhappy or hurt because of this, then Jiang Yan can only apologize to her with great sincerity.

I'm not the perfect boyfriend, there's no doubt about it.

I also have a lot of shortcomings, but they are just covered up by my excellent appearance and cheerful personality.

But if there is a next time, Xiao Zhang should make the choice that best meets your inner expectations.

Secondly, since he has chosen the path of being an actor, it is impossible to cut off contact with other members of the opposite sex.

A drama has to be filmed for at least two or three months, and in this period of time, the hero and heroine get along day and night, and there will be some catalysis of intimate scenes.

If it's hard to accept even an amusement park, then seeing him and other girls fall in love in a TV series, I'm afraid I'll only experience the feeling of a thousand cuts in my heart.

It's not just fans in the fan circle who need desensitization.

In fact, everyone needs desensitization.

There is a big difference between artists and ordinary people when they fall in love, and it is unrealistic and unreasonable to use the behavioral standards of ordinary people when they fall in love.

Amateurs who are not in the same circle fall in love with artists, and the pressure they need to bear will only be greater.

If you are cranky and suspicious every day, after a long time, you may even have mental problems.

Ren Jialun's wife goes to the crew every day to visit the class, isn't she worried that Ren Jialun and the actress will fall in love because of the play?

So he doesn't want Xiao Zhang to spend every day in jealousy in the future, she also has her own life to live, and she can't be full of thinking about what her boyfriend is doing.

It's like playing a single-player game eight times, and even though you still can't beat it, you definitely know what you do early in the game that will benefit you in the future.

I only care about my own early stage and then talk about it, completely ignoring whether I can play in the later stage?

Jiang Yan didn't like that.

He thinks more about the future than about the present.

But at the end of the day, these are the words that are in his best interest and from his standpoint.

What does Xiao Zhang himself think.

And what the third party from God's perspective thinks.

Unknown.

"What is this? Do you want to break up with me? Zhang Ruonan turned his head and looked out the window, pretending to be calm and calm, while burying his face naturally in the crook of his arm.

Although her voice was already a little unsteady, the girl still tried to pretend to be as relaxed and indifferent as possible.

"Because my attitude towards Ling today makes you unhappy? But I'm also temperamental! I'm going to be unhappy if you and the other girls go to the amusement park! ”

"Is what I just said like a breakup declaration? Why do you ask me if I want to break up as soon as I come up? Jiang Yan asked with a somewhat stunned smile: "Is the atmosphere just now too serious, in contrast to my usual smiling appearance?" ”

"Didn't you boast of being in love eight times? Why can't you even handle this little thing? ”

The girl holding the milk tea took a deep breath, and then slowly exhaled it all from her nose, and it was difficult not to feel caring for her soft and weak pitiful appearance.

"Either don't go, or don't tell me, the two correct answers are all ruled out for you, is it okay?"

"The number of times you fall in love can only mean that a person is experienced in chasing girls, but it doesn't mean that he is also good at how to stabilize and maintain a relationship."

Jiang Yan tilted his head to think of a suitable explanation.

"You can think of men who have been in love a lot as heroes who are very strong in the early stage of a game, they are very good at opening the game, but they are very weak in the late game, so they can only cool off in the first half of the game, and as soon as the strong period is over, they will immediately move on to the next game."

"It's a pity that in fast-paced real life, there is not so much time left for the late heroes to develop slowly, so instead of betting that the later stage will take over the game, it is better to only cool the early stage." Jiang Yan shrugged helplessly.

"And even if I don't tell you, if so many people in the amusement park meet someone who knows me, and post the photo on the Internet, won't it be even more embarrassing when you see it?"

"Then you can't help but go?"

"I asked your opinion in advance, Xiao Zhang, you said that I could go." Jiang Yan replied calmly.

"Do you listen to everything I say? If I tell you not to go, you really don't go? Don't you have any thoughts in your heart, thinking that I am too controlling, and I have to take care of everything? Zhang Ruonan was silent for a long time, and said in a calm tone that she actually had some questions in her heart.

"Of course I won't listen to everything you say, but if it's just about going to an amusement park with other girls, I'll listen to you, and I won't have any ideas, provided you tell what you really think."

Perhaps because of the influence of the previous failed relationships, Jiang Yan attaches great importance to the trait of honesty.

And not only he himself is very honest.

He also likes his kind who have this trait.