Chapter 35: Why Don't Someone Like You Haven't Had a Girlfriend Yet?
In general, the formation of Stockholm syndrome is quite complex, with roughly four stages.
Fear, fear, sympathy, help.
Zheng Yao experienced a great fear blow at the beginning, and then gradually degenerated from fear to fear under the comfort of time.
But at this time, Yang Mier called Yu Ze herself and asked Yu Ze and Zheng Yao to reconcile, she thought that the bell must be tied to the bell.
Yu Ze readily agreed to come forward, and took the initiative to apologize and comfort Zheng Yao.
It seems that everything is going well, but the key is that Yu Ze's means of comfort are wrong!
He is Zheng Yao, who is condescending and comforts with an almost dominant position, treating Zheng Yao as a frightened child.
A strong woman like Zheng Yao has a strong psychological defense, especially under the rules of modern society, everyone pays attention to the rules, especially for the upper class, the rules are very important, so it is almost difficult to destroy her psychological defense bottom line.
But once the strong defense is destroyed, just like the Maginot Line, the enemy can drive straight in, and easily grasp Zheng Yao's psychological fluctuations and spiritual will.
Yang Mi'er is not stupid, on the contrary, she is very smart, and if she is not smart, she will not be able to get to this position, after suddenly realizing that Zheng Yao's mental state is even worse, she did not point this out impulsively, and said with a smile: "I understand, Sister Yao, you have been working hard all day and night, just recently, just take a good rest, women can't be too tired, pay attention to maintenance." ”
Speaking of which, Yang Mier couldn't help but feel sad, women are different from men, they are easy to age, men are still in their forties, as long as they are willing to maintain and insist on exercising, they are still as chic as ever. But women don't say that they are in their forties, after thirty, the whole person will age visibly with the naked eye, even if the big star has medical beauty, maintenance, and lens beauty, he still can't resist the ruthless passage of time.
You can deceive others, but you can't deceive yourself.
But women, why do they pay so much attention to their looks?
Yang Mier didn't understand it at first, but later understood, because this is essentially a patriarchal society, women attach importance to their appearance, and in order to maintain their appearance, they do everything to fight against the laws of nature, in fact, to please men. It seems that men and women are equal, but in fact there is not, maybe the real equality, women who don't care about their faces, only in the era of half a century ago, such as her grandmother.
"I know."
Zheng Yao's eyes flickered, as if she had seen through Yang Mi'er's thoughts, she didn't argue, and nodded slowly: "You also pay attention to rest, you are much more tired than me." ”
She also touched the faint crow's feet at the corners of Yang Mier's eyes.
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Yu Ze, who came out of the villa, was in a pretty good mood and thought he had solved a problem.
He is very kind in his heart, except for the first time he used mental suppression, which targeted a thief who stole the battery car, the second time he used mental suppression, it was against Zheng Yao. But at that time, he deliberately reduced the intensity of the special function, thinking that it was a scary prank around the corner, but he didn't expect that there was still such a terrifying power, and a city beauty in her forties was almost scared into depression.
This made him a little worried about the thief's mental state......
After all, when targeting the thief, he himself was frightened by the rebound side effects of mental suppression, and he didn't know if the thief's mental will was strong, and whether he would be scared into autism.
This kind of worry stayed in his heart for less than a second, and then he shook off his worry and walked back to his rented community.
He had already told the landlord in advance that he was going to quit the rent after the end of this month, and when he returned to the community, he rested and fell asleep, and when he got up at night, he went out to look for food.
"Lao Chen, I'm here!"
Yu Ze walked into the barbecue restaurant and happily greeted Lao Chen, who was carrying beer.
What is strange is that this time Lao Chen did not persuade Yu Ze to eat less barbecue, but happily pulled him and whispered: "You came just in time." ”
"What's wrong?"
Yu Ze also wanted to tell Lao Chen that he was going to quit the lease, but he took the lead in the topic.
"My daughter is back, I'll be over later."
Lao Chen's mysterious appearance, Yu Ze thought that he had something big about it.
"That's it?"
"What do you mean by that?"
Lao Chen was very dissatisfied, his eyes widened, like the dark circles of a giant panda: "Don't you know if this is a good opportunity?" My daughter is ......."
"It's not quite right, Lao Chen, you don't know me well enough."
"I know you well enough, you have twice seen righteousness and bravery, and in terms of courage and ability, ordinary people are far from being able to compare."
Lao Chen is more satisfied with Yu Ze is more and more, as the saying goes, the mother-in-law looks at her son-in-law, and the more she looks at her son-in-law, the more she likes it, and the more she looks at her son-in-law, the more she looks at it, the more it is an eyesore. I didn't expect it to be placed here by Lao Chen, and it was the other way around.
But not necessarily, maybe Lao Chen's wife is also very satisfied with Yu Ze? But Lao Chen and his wife have been divorced for more than ten years, and they may not come.
"Hey, don't praise me, how can I be so good."
Yu Ze waved his hand, he couldn't refuse Lao Chen's kindness, but sometimes this kind of kindness would be in line with the wishes of the parties if they didn't see it.
"Look, I've found another merit in you," Lao Chen lit a cigarette, "and that's modesty!" ”
"If you say that, I find that I do have a lot of strengths."
Yu Ze thought about it and nodded in acknowledgement.
"Why doesn't someone as good as you have a girlfriend? It's absolutely unfair, I'm going to have to help you. ”
Lao Chen said solemnly.
A few strong men who were eating barbecue on the table next to them probably recognized Yu Ze's heroes who had acted bravely a few days ago, and after listening to Lao Chen's words, he laughed, and one of the bald uncles touched his head and said, "It turns out that the young man doesn't have a girlfriend yet?" That's great, my daughter just broke up, why don't I introduce you to you? ”
As he spoke, he really took out his phone.
"Zhang Wu, don't mess around, I'll be there first!"
Lao Chen scolded angrily.
"Look at what you said, just because you arrived first doesn't mean that your daughter is suitable, my daughter is very good."
The bald uncle scolded back dissatisfied.
"As the saying goes, a daughter is like a father, you look like this, where can the daughter see well?"
Lao Chen was disdainful.
"What, you're handsome, aren't you? I see you like this, and your daughter can't look good? ”
The bald uncle was furious, and as soon as the words fell, a voice sounded next to him.
"Dad, what's wrong?"
"Xiao Ai, you're here!"
Lao Chen was overjoyed, proudly pulled the woman who was at a loss outside the door into the barbecue restaurant, and introduced everyone ostentatiously: "Look, this is my daughter, is it excellent?" ”
Lao Chen's daughter Chen Aiai, who is 1.65 meters tall, is already good for a girl, with a small round face, black-framed glasses, a playful ponytail, a white T-shirt and corseted jeans and sneakers, giving people an impression that is not amazing, but it belongs to the durable type.