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Qiao's father had already agreed a long time ago, and when they arrived at the hotel, Qiao's mother and Qiao's father were dressed in clean and tidy clothes, sitting behind the table early and waiting.
Shen Hengzhou smiled and carried a lot of gifts, including bird's nest, milk powder, in short, what is expensive.
Officially, like a son-in-law coming to the door.
Qiao Yunchu was uneasy, and he didn't know what earth-shattering words his parents would say at the dinner table.
"Uncle and aunt." Shen Hengzhou happily greeted the two of them.
"Let's do it."
Qiao Yunchu and Shen Hengzhou sat down together.
Qiao's father and Qiao's mother glanced at each other, "You two are not young anymore, should you think about marriage?" ”
Qiao Yunchu knew that her parents had a dinner, and she must have wanted to talk about it.
Fortunately, he greeted Shen Hengzhou in advance and asked him not to say anything about the marriage proposal.
"We're definitely thinking about getting married, but we're both going to keep in touch with each other now, and we're not in a hurry because we've always had too much going on before. Too little time together. Shen Hengzhou said with a smile.
If he could, Shen Hengzhou, he couldn't marry Qiao Yunchu right now.
It's a pity that the two of them haven't been approved by Shen Hengzhou's father yet, and they don't have more detailed plans for the future, they all have to do a good job.
Qiao's mother said: "Auntie is not urging you, but the age of the two of you, I really don't want to, if it is on the head, please wait until you are 30 years old, it will be difficult to have children in the future, isn't it?" ”
"Mom, don't say any more." Qiao Yunchu interrupted her mother's words.
"If the purpose of today's dinner is just to say that, I. If that happens, then the two of us are leaving now. ”
"What are you talking about, you kid? The family finally got together and said some things and left. The little father was also a little unhappy, thinking that his daughter had refuted her face in front of her future son-in-law.
Qiao Yunchu felt suffocated, so he just picked up the coat on the table and left.
Shen Hengzhou said goodbye to his father and mother very politely.
"I'll go first, and my uncle and aunt will eat together next time they have a chance."
Shen Hengzhou chased Qiao Yunchu out of the door.
Qiao Yunchu had a very poor heart, and he was strictly disciplined by his parents since he was a child.
is unhappy and disgusted, especially after he becomes an adult, her parents still dictate her various decisions, including where to study, what kind of clothes to wear, what kind of boyfriend to find, and plan for her in every detail. Never think about whether he likes it or not?
Qiao Yunchu is a good girl on the surface, but he is actually a rebellious person to the bones, so these plans were not done according to his parents' plans at all, he chose the major he liked, the country he liked, and the man he liked, and he was never willing to compromise and wronged himself for his parents.
"You're not happy?"
Qiao Yunchu put his hands in his pockets, looked at the gray sky, and his eyes were full of helplessness: "Yes, I'm very unhappy, the words of the two of them make me sick, if the two of them are not my parents, I may go up and give them two a slap." ”
Qiao Yunchu has always had a grudge against his parents.
Especially after her parents messed up the mandarin duck spectrum and made him almost suffer from the bad guys, she wanted to alienate her parents more and more.
"From now on, I hope that we don't tell them anything about it again, and you don't see them privately, and if he looks for you, you will put it all down."
"Isn't it a bit bad for my father-in-law and mother-in-law to treat the future like this?"
"Do you like the two of them?" Qiao Yunchu's question was sharp and straightforward.
"You don't like it, if it weren't for the fact that we're lovers, you wouldn't even look at the two of them."
"By the same token, I wouldn't like your dad either."
Qiao Yunchu hates intimate relationships very much, especially hates an intimate relationship, all the love houses and black houses carried behind it, which are fatal to others, she can't do it, and she doesn't want others to ask her to do it.
Shen Hengzhou felt that Qiao Yunchu really went back to the feeling he had when he first fell in love with him.
Self-reliant, have their own opinions, and will not change themselves because of the external environment.
"I know you've always been a fan of dealing with these things, but there's one thing I want to make sure of you now, that you don't regret agreeing to my proposal, do you?"
Qiao Yunchu was a little hesitant, he really didn't regret the marriage proposal, but he must be cautious about getting married, although the fiancée is only one word worse than the real couple, but in actual operation, it is 108,000 miles behind.
Compared with husband and wife, unmarried couples are more attractive to Qiao Yunchu, they are the only one of each other, and it also represents the intimacy of the two, but the two can be separated from the two families. Maintain the independence of the two people.
Contemporary marriage often erodes a woman's independence.
Transform a woman from a self-reliant, thoughtful and goal-oriented woman to a demented woman who only knows family, husband, man, children, and in-laws.
"I don't regret it, I love being your fiancée."
"I hope you will be my wife in the future." Shen Hengzhou said.
"If there's one thing you want to be sure, if I say I don't want to have children, can you accept that?"
Dink is nothing new, trendy couples have been Dink family for more than 20 years.
The older Qiao Yunchu gets, the more he finds that he has no interest in children at all. Especially when her mother mentioned at the dinner table just now that she should give birth as soon as possible, this incident made Qiao Yunchu feel extremely disgusted.
Shen Hengzhou thought for a moment: "I love you as a person, not your womb, as long as the two of us will be like children, it is not a necessity in our lives, we can have cats, dogs, and other kinds of pets." ”
"I'm so happy, you can think like that, understand me so much, but can your father think this way, understand me so much?"
"If your dad can accept it, then I want the two of us to get married immediately but not to have a wedding."
Shen Hengzhou felt that his father probably had no way to accept it, there was no grandson, but there was no need to tell him about this matter now, and it would be said when the two of them got married in the future, and the big deal would be adopted from the outside as an heir.
"You don't need to think about whether he can accept the matter of the two of us Dinks? As long as the two of us are married, he has to accept it, and he has to accept it if he doesn't accept it, there is no difference. ”
"Actually, it's ridiculous to think about it now, the two of us have been in love for several years before, and now we've been together for so long, we haven't talked about our views on marriage, I'm a little worried now, like what the online post said, some couples refer to wine and meat couples, it's good to fall in love, but when you're really ready to get married, the two sides can't talk about it, and even conflicts are frequent."
Shen Hengzhou really felt that what his girlfriend said today was a little inexplicable, but it could also be seen from these words that Qiao Yunchu was afraid of marriage, so he wanted to appease Qiao Yunchu as much as possible now, instead of letting her fall into greater anxiety.
He coaxed Qiao Yunchu to go home and it was too cold outside, and white gas would come out of their mouths when they spoke.
Wait until the person comes home and warms up. He took Qiao Yunchu's hand and said, "You can rest assured, when you want to buy something, you can also mention any marriage requirements, whether it is personality or living habits, I will try to be close to your requirements, but during this period." We should leave a positive state of preparation for marriage, and the two of us should not put the marriage on and off again and again, but we will put it on the agenda and put it on my father's side, and I will definitely take you to impress him, who has always believed no one. ”
"After he got sick, he had very little control over everything, and he shouldn't have much opposition to the two of us, whose group will fall into my hands sooner or later, I won't blame you at that time, and there will be no one else, dare to blame you for your heartbreak, just let him go."
Shen Hengzhou's affectionate expression. Qiao Yunchu doesn't know why he became so anxious, is this the so-called premarital anxiety? Anyway, when he thinks about getting married now, and when he hears others say that he wants to get married and have children, he will involuntarily think of many cases in his life, and he has never been careful before. If you think about it again today, you can realize one or two truths from it.
"Okay, okay, there's no rush on things, and I won't force you, so you should do this? Come at your own pace, shall we rest first today? ”
Qiao Yunchu nodded and went to bed, his mobile phone was turned off, and he didn't plan to answer anyone's calls.
In the hotel, Qiao's father and Qiao's mother did not leave for a long time.
They ordered a table of dishes, but none of them moved their chopsticks. Qiao Yunchu's departure made the two of them very sad, and Qiao's mother couldn't help crying, he knew that his daughter had always been dissatisfied with him, and why was he blind in the first place, introducing such a bad person to his daughter.
They didn't understand now that the so-called pair of mandarin ducks was just a fuse, and the deeper reason behind it was that they really controlled Qiao Yunchu's life too strictly.
"Old Joe, you said that the child is only the two of us who are so cold now, what can we do in the future?"
Qiao's father kept his head down and kept silent, and he also felt very sad and sad.
This dinner originally wanted to talk about the two of them in front of Shen Hengzhou, and at the same time, he also used the momentum of his mother's family to support Qiao Yunchu, but now it seems that everything is in vain.
Qiao Yunchu and Shen Hengzhou were lying on the double bed, and Shen Hengzhou held Qiao Yunchu tightly in his arms.
"You're straining too hard. I can't sleep. ”
"I'm really reluctant to let go of you."
"Yunchu, I'll ......" Shen Hengzhou's hand went all the way down.
"I'm not in the mood today, and I don't have family planning tools at home, so let's talk about it next time."
Shen Hengzhou hadn't eaten meat for a long time and months, and today he finally came back to lie in the warm quilt with his girlfriend, but he couldn't do anything.
"No, then I'll go downstairs and buy a box."
"No, let's get back to it."
There is a 24-hour convenience store outside the community, which is very convenient, but Qiao Yunchu, the clerk or something, is too familiar.
Shen Hengzhou often comes to this community to look for him, and the two of them are often together, and they don't shy away from people, presumably the people at the convenience store already know the relationship between the two of them, and now they run out to buy it in the middle of the night, which is embarrassing.