Not only did Shen Huai want to know the answer, but the audience was also very confused and puzzled.

No matter how you look at it, she shouldn't choose Shen Huai as a heartwarming guest!

Looking at Shen Huai, who was bright-eyed and high-spirited, Chen Wangshu smiled and said, "Then I have to wait until this date is over, and then I will decide whether to tell you or not!" ”

"Actually, it doesn't matter if you say it or not!"

Shen Huai didn't care too much, shrugged his shoulders and said, "After all, with my character and appearance, it's not surprising that anyone likes me." ”

Chen Wangshu was silent for a moment, sighed lightly and said, "Let's explain it then......"

This sigh is very quintessential, and the audience is amused.

[Huaizi is thick-skinned, and he can be bulletproof! ] 】

[It seems that there is a hidden secret, I knew that things would not be so simple. 】

[Chen Wangshu is very helpless, is it coercion by Shen Huai? ] 】

[Eh, I think I've watched this anime...... Let's not talk about it, I'm going to open a computer. 】

……

The two chatted and waited for the restaurant to be served.

Shen Huai also took this opportunity to look at Chen Wangshu carefully.

The standard duck egg face is white and smooth, the smart eyes are bright like autumn water, the high nose bridge, and the red lips that are not big or small [contain] must be very comfortable.

When smiling, the eyes are like eyebrows, the corners of the lips are curved, and when you are not smiling, you are also like a smile, coupled with a slender and graceful posture, an elegant and noble temperament, and a gentle and generous demeanor......

It's no wonder that some people use 'clever smiles and beautiful eyes' to describe her.

Chen Wangshu glanced at Shen Huai and asked softly, "I understand what you mean by letting others reflect and find their own reasons just now."

Do you want to express that you should affirm your self-worth, not be arrogant, and have the courage to question others? ”

Shen Huai laughed and said: "It's not so complicated, just don't wronged yourself, you have to throw the pot to others." ”

This overly straightforward explanation made Chen Wangshu a little speechless.

There are also all kinds of joyful complaints on the barrage.

[Huaizi is very upright, can you say this casually in the show! ] 】

[Haha, I'm going to be laughed to death, Chen Wangshu's expression is so funny. 】

[Shen Huairen is a bit of a scumbag, but at least he doesn't pretend to be a scumbag, which praises him. 】

[I agree with this, although I am a little selfish, but my heart is very cool! ] 】

After a moment of silence, Chen Wangshu asked softly, "Then under what circumstances do you think you will choose to take the blame yourself?" ”

Everyone was a little puzzled by Chen Wangshu's question.

If you can shake the pot, ordinary people will not choose to carry it yourself, let alone Shen Huai, a person with a temperament.

Unless the other party is someone she loves deeply or a relative, does she want to express that?

Shen Huai pondered for a moment and chuckled, "This situation is relatively rare."

As the saying goes, people don't die for themselves, and selfish human nature determines that everyone's thoughts and actions will subconsciously benefit themselves.

Therefore, if the pot can be shaken, it will be shaken, and whoever loves to carry it will carry it, we are not rare.

However, at certain times, such as when we ask for help, we must learn to take the blame ourselves! ”

"What's going on?" Chen Wangshu looked at Shen Huai intently, and his gesture of listening quietly could easily provoke others' desire to talk.

Shen Huai pondered for a moment and said softly, "Do you remember the defibrillator incident in March this year?"

At that time, an elderly man had a sudden asthma, and after his family called 120, they found that there was an ambulance nearby to pick up other patients!

So the family offered to borrow a defibrillator, but the doctor refused to borrow it.

After the video broke out, the doctor was reprimanded verbally and finally suspended from his job......"

"Yes, I know!" Chen Wangshu nodded and replied.

At the beginning, this matter made a big fuss, and it was even on the hot search.

Almost every netizen was indignant and angrily denounced the doctor's cold-bloodedness and ruthlessness.

Obviously, as long as he lent the defibrillator, he could save the old man, but he was conformist and didn't know how to be flexible, which eventually led to the death of the old man.

It's just that this matter, what does it have to do with what Shen Huai said about learning to take the blame yourself!

When the audience heard Shen Huai mention this matter, they still felt indignant and their chests were blocked.

A fresh life, but it can't withstand the rigid rules, it is indeed a little uneasy.

Shen Huai shook his head with a smile, his expression was a little meaningful: "Logically speaking, this doctor is indeed not humane enough, has no humanistic care, and is too indifferent.

But legally speaking, he is not at fault, he just abides by the rules and regulations of the hospital, and is not directly responsible......"

Chen Wangshu frowned, and just wanted to speak, but was interrupted by Shen Huai.

"I'm not excusing this doctor, it's just that after borrowing, the patient in the car has an accident, who will bear the responsibility.

Or after this defibrillator was lent out, it didn't save the asthma old man in the end, will his family rely on him?

These were the reasons for his eventual refusal.

Obviously, the ambulance stopped there and didn't leave, and the family and passers-by kept asking if they could borrow a defibrillator.

But I didn't even think about why the ambulance didn't drive away!

If you don't take it yourself as the bad guy first, do you have to wait for others to break the rules and take unnecessary responsibility to help you! ”

As soon as the words fell, the audience in front of the screen was instantly stunned!

Yes, you can take it yourself as a bad person, so why should the doctor take on that too heavy responsibility.

It's not that he doesn't want to help, maybe he needs the job, maybe he's afraid to take responsibility for something, maybe he's out of all kinds of scruples......

But as a family member, you can, and even necessary, to take on this responsibility!

[Yes, human life is at stake, just go and get it at this time! ] 】

[Why didn't I think of it, isn't this another kind of stereotypical conformity!] 】

[Huaizi still has something, friends who watched the live broadcast room know it! ] 】

[Convincing, there is a feeling of opening up! ] 】

[I'm the front desk of the hotel, someone always comes to the hotel to catch people, according to the regulations, you must not disclose the room number, but you can come in and see it yourself, we won't stop it, after all, everyone wants to see the excitement and chat about the gossip ......]

[, I learned what I learned, I said that last time the bank did a credit loan, the loan officer kept asking me for a business license, I said no, he said you can have ...... It turned out that I was asked to make a fake and give it to him! 】

【Rub! I'm enlightened! 】

Chen Wangshu was also stunned when he heard this, and then showed a look of appreciation and amazement: "Amazing, this angle of yours is indeed thought-provoking!" ”

"Actually, these are obvious truths, but we haven't thought about it deeply!" Shen Huai looked calm and silently pretended to be forced.

You don't have it, and I do!

"Well, you have a point!"

Chen Wangshu pondered for a moment, nodded and said: "People rarely discover their ignorance because they are immersed in a highly homogeneous environment, and their beliefs are constantly self-justified and strengthened, and there are few contradictory voices......"

Shen Huai didn't expect Chen Wangshu to be able to say such a thing, and he suddenly sighed.

Many times, he was able to see the essence of many things because of the huge memories that came from his dreams.

And Chen Wangshu, when he was only in his twenties, was able to have this kind of understanding of life, which is indeed amazing!