Chapter 0151: The Chen Family
Speaking of which, getting married and marrying is indeed enough to affect the fate of the woman's life.
Especially like Tao Xiaoqian before, the parents of both sides gave a baby kiss, and they also exchanged tokens with each other, which is actually already decided, just wait for the age to get married directly.
The orders of the parents, the words of the matchmaker, the rules are set, and they have all kinds of effects.
After the marriage, whether the woman takes the initiative to withdraw from the marriage, or the man takes the initiative to withdraw from the marriage, this pot will basically be deducted from the woman's head.
If the man comes up with some so-called evidence during this period, such as jealousy, indiscretion, etc., with the help of the spread of gossip, the matter will be expanded, it will be absolutely unfavorable to the woman, enough to force the woman to death.
Even with it, the woman's family will also be affected by such a withdrawal, and the reputation of the family, even the people of the same village, will be affected, and the consequences will be serious.
This kind of pressure is not something that any woman can withstand.
In the previous life, Tao Xiaoqian didn't have much knowledge at all, and it was only after recognizing this reason that she finally ended up with such a tragic end.
But this time, Tao Xiaoqian had already seen it, and she had enough psychological endurance and enough ability to deal with these associated problems.
At the beginning, the detoxification treatment for Tao Ruifu was an excellent opportunity to help her reverse a lot of reputation.
Of course, Wang Zhenqi took Wen Qingxuan directly to the door to withdraw from his relatives, which bullied the Tao family's family in the backing village, which also made the people in the backing village extremely resentful of Wang Zhenqi's approach, and they had more sympathy for Tao Xiaoqian, so that Tao Xiaoqian could better deal with these follow-up problems.
And this time, as long as these wild boars are brought back to the village and the people in the village are given a point, then the Tao family's living conditions have been greatly improved, and it will be easier to accept, and her reputation can also be completely reversed.
The villagers in the backing villages are kind-hearted, but those outdated concepts will also affect some of their ideas unconsciously.
It is already very rare that the villagers of the backing village can tolerate Tao Xiaoqian like this, and they don't care too much about Tao Xiaoqian and Wang Zhenqi's divorce.
However, when the news of the Wang family's exile spread, sympathy for the weak began to have some effect.
Although the villagers in the backing village can still maintain an objective and calm attitude, look at these issues more comprehensively, and see Tao Xiaoqian's resignation, some knee-jerk psychological reactions will still affect them.
At this time, Tao Xiaoqian hopes to be able to handle the relationship between their family and the villagers, completely solve these hidden dangers, and completely solve the things that happened to the Wang family, so as not to let these affect her life again.
The Wang family has been exiled to Beizhen, and there is a high probability that they will not return to Yulin County in this life, and as long as the matter is forgotten, no one will mention it again.
This time, the wild boar that can hit this litter is enough, and some will be distributed in the village, so that everyone in the village can get some, such a thing is not a matter for Tao Xiaoqian.
If she wants to eat more game, she can go up the mountain to hunt later.
In exchange for this wild boar in exchange for a complete change in the village's perception of her things, Tao Xiaoqian could afford it.
And this time, after saying these things to his eldest brother Tao Ruiliang, Tao Xiaoqian did not tell them all.
But what can be said, Tao Xiaoqian also told the truth part of the truth to the eldest brother Tao Ruiliang.
Without knowledge, she can't escape the shackles of some concepts at all, and the end is not good.
If you want to open it, you will naturally be able to live more easily.
Noticing the worried and distressed appearance of the eldest brother Tao Ruiliang, Tao Xiaoqian shook his head and continued: "Big brother, the matter has passed, I will no longer be affected by those influences, and I will naturally be able to live a better life." ”
"Wang Zhenqi was exiled and left Yulin County, and these things can be regarded as completely over."
"That way, I don't have to be affected by this anymore."
After a pause, Tao Xiaoqian's brows furrowed slightly, and he continued to his eldest brother Tao Ruiliang: "It's just that, eldest brother, if I do this, it may affect my family." ”
Hearing what my sister Tao Xiaoqian said, I knew that my sister had discovered that Wang Zhenqi had been sleeping in the willow a long time ago, and she was not a good match, but because of the life of her parents, because the baby could not be changed, her sister Tao Xiaoqian could only be so aggrieved, and she endured until the last time she dissolved the relationship between the baby's parents, Tao Ruiliang became more and more distressed about her sister Tao Xiaoqian.
Looking at his sister who had adjusted and was no longer affected by the Wang family, Tao Ruiliang sighed softly and said guiltily: "Coriander, the eldest brother is also responsible for these things. ”
"At the beginning, I saw that you had something on your mind, but I didn't care about you better, which made you so unhappy."
"Coriander, since you can see it, then you don't have to worry about anything in the future."
"When our brothers go to Hanchen Academy to learn their skills, they will definitely protect you better in the future, and they will also find a husband who really loves you for you."
For the eldest brother Tao Ruiliang to say this, Tao Xiaoqian couldn't help twitching the corners of her mouth.
It's just that Tao Xiaoqian still said with a smile: "Big brother, this marriage event, I will definitely need to ask you to help me with my eyes at that time." ”
"It's just that this time, you're going to study at Hanchen Academy, do you want to talk to Sister Yuping first?"
"If you go to Hanchen Academy, then whether your family affairs will be held as scheduled, or will they be postponed for some time, you have to think about these things carefully."
Tao Ruiliang has already made a marriage, the woman is Chen Yuping of the Chen family, a very good girl, and Tao Ruiliang is a pro-plum sweetheart, the Tao family is very satisfied with this family business, and they are preparing to get married.
But if Tao Ruiliang is going to study at Hanchen Academy, this is a big deal, and the impact is not small, if you discuss these things with the Chen family first, it will be better after all.
Tao Xiaoqian directly used this incident to divert their previous topic, and gained the upper hand in the conversation between her and her eldest brother Tao Ruiliang.
For the sister-in-law who is about to pass the door, Tao Xiaoqian has always been very respectful, and the relationship is very good.
By the time the arrangements for the family were clear, Tao Xiaoqian had already thought of a way to help the family improve their living conditions.
It's just that how to implement these plans, Tao Xiaoqian still needs to think about it clearly.
Before that, Tao Xiaoqian still needs to be low-key, and arrange the big brother and their affairs first.