138 Rejoice in what pleases her
Cui Lingxin's heart suddenly ignited confidence because of Shen Qingji's words, maybe she could try again.
"Qingji, ...... you" Cui Lingxin paused for a moment, and then asked with some embarrassment, "How do you feel about Wei Yu now?" ”
She was afraid that Shen Qingzhen still liked Wei Yu, and Wei Yu also liked her, if so, then no matter how hard he tried, it would be useless.
Shen Qingzhen smiled frankly: "Cousin Wei, I just treat him as an ordinary relative, although we had a marriage contract before, but it was also before, don't get me wrong!" ”
Seeing Shen Qingji's such a frank appearance, Cui Ling's heart suddenly relaxed.
She said the indescribable girlish feelings in her heart: "Actually, I have always liked Wei Yu. ”
"Really? You're a good match! ”
Shen Qingzhen raised his hands in favor of her.
Cui Lingxin asked: "Do you really think so?" ”
Shen Qingzhen immediately nodded: "Of course! You are a talented man and a talented girl, of course you are very compatible! Sister Cui, you are very good, don't doubt it! ”
Cui Lingxin was praised by her, and couldn't help but smile, "Where can you say such an exaggeration, no matter how good I am, I can't compare to a man!" ”
Men can enter the house and have a good career, and no matter how good a woman is, in this era, the value of a woman is only reflected in the inner house, and a woman can only teach her husband and children to take care of the inner house for the man and become a vassal of the man.
Shen Qingzhen didn't think so: "We women can actually compare to men!" Men have what men can do, and women have things that women can do, and women cannot be denied outright. ”
Cui Lingxin still said: "However, no matter how good a woman is, she still can't compare to a man." ”
"How can it not be compared? Can their men have children? Can't you? Men are also born of women, so women are said in this way, and women are respected by everyone. ”
Childbirth involves human inheritance, and some men suppress women on the one hand, and need women on the other, which is really hypocritical.
Shen Qingzhen said: "We don't need to feel inferior to men because we are women, men and women are actually not more noble and inferior than others, they all have their own values, what men can do, women can also do it, just like the martial queen of the previous dynasty, isn't she also a woman?" Men are allowed to enter the court, and women are also allowed to enter the court. ”
"But how easy is it for a woman to enter the court?" Cui Lingxin was surprised that Shen Qingjian said such earth-shattering remarks, but she couldn't help but feel that there was some truth, but in this world, it is too difficult for women to do these things.
Shen Qingzhen smiled and said: "Of course, I don't mean that women must be better than men, I think that regardless of men and women, live what you want in your heart, that's enough, you shouldn't be bound by the world, Empress Wu has high ambitions, and she also lives such a wonderful life, which is good, but my ambition is to live a relaxed and happy life, which is enough." ”
Her ambition is to retire to be a salted fish and live happily and comfortably.
"You're right!"
Cui Ling felt that although Shen Qingzhen had not read many sage books, and the remarks he said would definitely be disgraced by those masters and cultivators, but these words were very reasonable?
It's good to live comfortably and live the way you want to be, whether your ambitions are high or low.
What are her aspirations?
She was raised by the family rules since she was a child, and she never dared to think about it or do more.
The parents of the family just want to train her to become a famous lady and talented woman, and then marry a good man who is the right person, consolidate the family power, and then spend her life with her husband and children.
In fact, most women in this world spend their lives like this, she didn't seem to feel anything wrong in the past, and she felt that there was nothing wrong with getting married and having children, and there was nothing wrong with husband and children.
But now she feels that this does not seem to be her ambition in life.
She should have something else to do besides getting married and having children.
"Qingji, do you do business because you like it?"
Shen Qingzhen shook his head: "I don't like it much, it's just that I have money in business!" Money can solve a lot of things, and I can enjoy a happy and comfortable life! ”
Cui Lingxin nodded, the woman from the big family she knew, but no one had ever said that she had a serial number of money, which would make people feel that they were in the market.
But there is nothing wrong with liking money night, most people in the world can't do without money, but they, the women of the world, have never been short of money, so they don't value money, and at the same time, they are proud of it, and criticize those who like money, which is of course wrong.
After Cui Lingxin talked to Shen Qingji, she suddenly thought about a lot of things, although she didn't think about it for a while, but it also benefited her a lot.
Shen Qingzhen couldn't help but say: "In fact, most women can't compare to men, it's just because women and men in this world are not on the same starting line, men can go to school and study since they were young, but most women regard women's lack of talent as the purpose of virtue, men can study and enter the court as officials, even if women study, they can only teach children at home to assist Fujun, if men and women are truly equal, maybe who is strong and who is weak!" ”
Shen Qingzhen is a traverser, so he has such avant-garde ideas.
Cui Lingxin agreed very much: "You are right, most women in this world are not able to study, this has opened the gap between men and women from the very beginning, if women read reasonably, they may not be worse than men!" ”
Cui Lingxin suddenly thought of something, and a flame suddenly ignited in her heart, which couldn't help but make her feel that everything she had longed for in the past ten years was wrong.
She shouldn't just take getting married too seriously, in life, she still has to have what she really wants to do, and find her own value from it, so as not to feel that time is wasted.
"I still have something to do, I'll say goodbye first, let's get back another day!"
Cui Ling was a little anxious, and wanted to plan what she was thinking about immediately, but those who were confused because of love were instantly put aside.
Shen Qingzhen watched Cui Lingxin leave eagerly, and had some doubts in his heart, wondering if Cui Lingxin had really ignited hope for Wei Yu after saying so much.
It should be, right?
She was so anxious, maybe she wanted to express her heart to Wei Yu.
Shen Qingzhen thought so, and felt that the guidance and matchmaking that he had racked his brains for so many days had finally worked.
It's finally time to take a break.
Shen Qingzhen lay on the rocking chair, stretching to enjoy this comfortable and relaxing moment, with a shallow and satisfied smile on his face, like a delicate flower stretching out, without a sharp edge, but so beautiful that people feel comfortable and can't help but look at it.
After Zhou Nan finished doing some things, he stood not far away, watching the girl lying on the chair and staggering, as if he had something happy, and a shallow smile on his face made him fascinated and wanted to get closer.
The young lady is happy, and he can't help but be a little happy, if he likes someone, maybe he will be happy because she likes it.
(End of chapter)