Zhao Ke and Song Wenrui sat under the eaves of her house, each with a stick of bud rice, nibbling.

Just after the autumn equinox, the early bud rice has just been broken down, it is the freshest time, the big iron pot is boiled out, and a bite is fragrant and glutinous and sweet.

Song Wenrui shared his journey with Zhao Ke.

Whether it is resentment towards Song Mingjie, jealousy of Song Zhuo, or new attitude towards Wang Yinghui, Zhao Ke listens patiently.

"I told my mother that I have to take care of my body, I can take better care of her when I grow up, I will be able to study and have a good time, so that she will not be able to endure hardship, and she will be younger and more beautiful than Song Zhuo's mother in the future."

Song Wenrui smiled and said, "My mother is very happy. ”

People weigh the pros and cons.

Any relationship, out of the left and right of feelings, calmly examine, will be much easier to deal with.

But this step is often extremely difficult to cross.

Wei Ruyue is like this, and so is Song Wenrui.

There are different stages of people's needs, Song Wenrui has strong emotional needs, Wang Yinghui is his only relative, he needs his relatives too much, he is too afraid of losing his relatives, so their mother-son relationship is dominated by Wang Yinghui.

Today, Wang Yinghui is still the "only" relative in his bloodline, and mother and son will still depend on each other for a long time in the future, but Song Wenrui reversed his thinking and found that the person who is really afraid of losing and eager to control is his mother, and the emotional supply and demand relationship between mother and son will be rearranged.

Zhao Ke thought that he might still need a definite result.

Zheng Meizhu's family of four arrived home the day before and divorced Song Mingjie the next day.

The Song family paid Song Wenrui 1,000 yuan, the family was all hollowed out, and the wedding room belonged to Zheng Meizhu, which had nothing to do with him, even if he remembered it, he knew that he would not be able to ask for it.

Song Mingjie has a family and is in a hurry to divorce, but he has a long heart, and verbally says that it is not okay not to pay child support, and there must be an agreement.

Zheng Meizhu already knew what her father was doing, and she didn't want to negotiate child support with him, as long as she got the custody of the two children and divorced smoothly, she signed an agreement that "guaranteed" both parties.

Song Mingjie pretended to regret the relationship between them for so many years, and happily applied for a divorce certificate.

Then in less than half a month, he married his new wife.

The new wife is twenty-nine years old, her parents are both working, there are several brothers, all of them have jobs, and the eldest brother is still a small leader, just looking at how much the family conditions are not bad for the Zheng family, it is normal to be able to give 300 yuan to Song Mingjie.

Before getting married, the Song family's parents and Song Mingjie were very complacent, and Song Mingjie was able to find such a good family without Zheng Meizhu.

But the day after the two got married, the new wife revealed her true nature.

Song's mother asked her new daughter-in-law to cook breakfast for the family.

"Make breakfast?! Laughing to death, why should I do it, I didn't come to your house to be a nanny when I married him. The new wife commanded, "I'm hungry, do it!" ”

The Song family was shocked.

Song's mother scolded her, and the new wife slapped her when she went up.

Song Mingjie got angry and taught her a lesson.

The new wife ran back to her parents' house directly, summoned her mother's brother, and beat Song Mingjie.

Song Mingjie wants a divorce, and of course the new wife's family does not allow it.

So, the days of the Song family's chickens flying and dogs jumping began.

The new wife has an extremely bad temper, doesn't do any housework, and spends all the money she earns on herself, never thinks about the family or her husband, and is an extremely selfish character.

Song's mother cooked, and the new wife picked and choose, thinking that this and that, and as soon as she put off her chopsticks after eating, she went out to play in beautiful clothes.

The whole Song family had to support her, the housework of Song's mother was done, and she had to wash her daughter-in-law's clothes.

She took Song Mingjie's salary, burned her hair, bought clothes, bought cosmetics, ate and drank, didn't give it? If they don't give it, they will make trouble for the whole family, and after the family is finished, they will make trouble in the family yard, and if they are not satisfied, they will go to the unit to make trouble.

The Song family wanted to cry without tears, but later learned that she had a marriage before, and the other party's conditions were very good, and she couldn't stand her after marriage, so she divorced forcefully in less than three months.

After that, her mother's family asked someone to introduce a few objects, and those few families heard about her style from people they knew, but they didn't succeed, and then no one introduced her to anyone.

She is in her mother's house, and her mother's family is also annoying.

And what the Song family will never know is that Zheng's father pulled the strings, and the two sides hit it off, helping her "find" Song Mingjie, a long-term meal ticket with a stable job, no other burdens, and a long-term meal ticket that her mother's family can suppress, how could they divorce again.

Is it 300 dollars for nothing?

They have to be locked up.

Song Wenrui's reaction was very flat when he found out, his father had a new family and lived a "happy" life, and their mother and son were relieved.

Song Wenrui is now a happy primary school student whose mother is not in good health and occasionally has some small troubles, but has money to grow up slowly.

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Zhao Pingping came back later than expected.

Not long after the Zheng family left, Zhao Pingping called back to the commune and told Zhao Ke a message: the provincial capital should be trained and raised with local characteristics, and it planned to expand the scale of the original meat factory, make a reputation for meat products in the province, and export them to the province.

Zhao Ke was not surprised by the news.

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p; The country wants to develop the economy, not only the aquaculture industry, all walks of life are ready to go, who first seizes the opportunity, who can occupy a place in the future.

It is impossible for the Zhao Cun'er Brigade to give up agriculture and specialize in pig raising.

In fact, it is impossible for any brigade in the country to abandon agriculture at present.

Before the complete mechanization, the current Zhao Cun'er brigade raised 100 pigs, which was already the highest volume that could be withstood at the moment, and it was not capable of expanding the scale.

If you want to seize the opportunity, you must not keep it or be stingy.

Zhao Ke's ambition is not in a Zhao Cun'er brigade, she wants more people to get rich, and the strength of the Zhao Cun'er brigade is not enough, so she gathers the strength of the entire Shuangshan Commune, and has the opportunity to intervene, she must insert it, and strive to make pig raising another industrial pillar in addition to the agriculture of Shuangshan Commune.

To this end, Zhao Ke went to the county pig farm, and then went to the provincial capital, and cooperated with the county pig farm, with the county pig farm, Zhao Cun'er brigade and nearly 400 pigs in the county, and got a pig supply contract with the meat factory.

According to the contract, according to the maturity period of the next pig, the number of pigs they must deliver in the middle of the next year must reach 1,000, and the number of pigs in Shuangshan Commune must reach 400 before there will be a follow-up contract.

When the contract is taken down, it is a meeting.

The first thing Zhao Ke did when he returned to the village was to ask Zhao Pingping if he could participate.

Zhao Pingping told her categorically: "Yes." ”

Zhao Ke said: "Then you go back and prepare, and communicate with your family." ”

Uncle Zhao Liushu and his wife learned that Zhao Pingping had just come back and had not given birth for a few days, and was going to the commune for a meeting, and they were very opposed.

Luo Hongxia avoided her son-in-law Ma Sheng, who was working outside, and persuaded her: "You have such a big belly, it is important to raise a fetus, what should you do if you are tired?" ”

Zhao Pingping said: "Haven't the women in the village always been proud of being pregnant and still going to the ground, and I'm not doing manual work in the field, why do you think I can't do it?" ”

Luo Hongxia was stunned for a moment, and said helplessly: "Husband and wife can't live like this, after walking for so long, they finally come back, and they have to leave, even if your man supports you, you have to consider the mood of him and your in-laws, right?" ”

"It's not the same thing, isn't it endless in the future?" Zhao Jianfa also said, "Ma Sheng is alone at home with his father-in-law and mother-in-law, what do outsiders think, what does he think in his heart, isn't it really an upside down?" Besides, no matter how strong you are, you can't always have no time when you are separated from your husband, can this day be long? ”

Zhao Pingping looked at the hard-working man outside, was silent for a while, and still insisted: "I have to go." ”

"Why are you so stubborn?"

Zhao Pingping asked rhetorically: "How can you not be stubborn?" ”

Why didn't Zhao Ke directly understand her and let her raise a baby at home?

Zhao Pingping went out with a flat stomach, and it has been seven months since she came back to her stomach, during which she studied alone in the capital, of course, it was very hard, the family was very worried, and she also mentioned that she would come back if she couldn't do it, but the congenital conditions could not be changed, if she quit the training because she was pregnant, or another person delayed the training time, or because she was pregnant, she was naturally lazy, what impression would she leave on others?

Women have to stay at home, women are not as convenient as men, women can't......

The slogan "Women can hold up half the sky", do women really hold up half the sky?

In this training, there were only three women, Zhao Pingping found out that she was pregnant and decided to complete the training against all odds, and the other two female comrades gave her a lot of help, because the three of them walked across the single-plank bridge with people before they went to the capital.

It is already difficult for women to move forward, and if they are given a rare opportunity, and then retreat for their own reasons, isn't that cutting off the way behind other women?

Zhao Pingping can't be so selfish.

"Sister Pingping, don't be so heavy, as if we have a lot of responsibility on our shoulders, and put pressure on ourselves in vain."

Zhao Ke learned her thoughts and said with a smile: "Women must balance the family, it is the pressure and discrimination on women at the social level, but pressure and discrimination are not only for women, think about it from another angle, if work is an examination paper, family is another subject examination paper, the most familiar and understanding man is one of the problems, choose to overcome it or choose to cross over, the purpose is to score." ”

"And the purpose of getting good results in the exam is to continue to step into the next better stage of life, and the extra points obtained by the additional questions are an unexpected joy."

"Everyone is answering questions, and the requirements for us are higher, isn't it creating opportunities for us to sharpen, make us more resilient, more comprehensive, more comfortable in life and work, and get more opportunities in the future?"

"You also need a solid support to help you keep moving forward, stubbornness is necessary, there is not only one way to solve the problem, there is always a way to reconcile, whether you go home soft and soft, coax, or explain the stakes clearly, praise and encourage him to progress together...... Go and say to do it, there is no figure that you can't let go, it's better than leaving regrets later. ”

Whether it is a stone thrown over or a stepping stone that has existed for a long time, Zhao Ke has to use it to pave the road, but the road is not only to rush, but also to see the scenery along the way without bumping.

The leader mentality especially affects those who follow them.

On the road of growth, people will inevitably feel unfair because of their understanding of the world.

Zhao Ke has always moved forward with a positive, optimistic and relaxed attitude, working hard, getting the happiness of gaining, not getting, there is brave happiness, even if you don't want to work hard, there is also lazy happiness.

Everyone's answer sheet in life is different, no matter how bad it is, there are still paper scores. ：，m..，.