Chapter 342: Love Is Not the Whole of Life

"But if I go to study abroad, we will be separated, the counselor said, this difference is as short as three years, as long as five years."

Song Yi clenched Xu Fanghua's hand, "Fanghua, before, I finally survived those three years, but at that time we were still in China, and now, if you go to study abroad, how do you want me to spend those three to five years abroad alone?" ”

The pain of being separated from his lover, like being eaten by insects day and night, the pain that erodes the bones, Song Yi is unwilling to endure it anymore.

"I know, Ah Yi, I don't want to be separated from you either."

"Ah Yi, I know that you love me very much, even more than yourself, but Ah Yi, love is not life, or the whole of life."

"When love becomes the whole of life or life, it is undoubtedly a dangerous thing."

"It's easy to get paranoid."

"Ah Yi, I love you, as your wife, I hope your life is not just me, I hope your life is enriched, in addition to my wife, there is also a family, and a career that you love and chase."

"Ah Yi, I don't want to see you give up so much for me."

"In that case, I'll be distressed."

"In your heart, there is only me, of course I am happy."

"But I hope your life can be more exciting and meaningful, and I also like you in the field of medicine, in the career you love, and save lives."

"Ah Yi, do you know what I mean?"

Xu Fanghua wants to express only one meaning, that is, no matter when, don't treat love or family affection, or a certain thing, or a certain person as the whole of life.

That would be terrible.

In case this person is not there, or something happens, or something else happens.

Then this person who regards her as his life, will not his faith collapse, and even his life will completely lose its meaning, and he may not even have the courage to live.

Xu Fanghua knew that perhaps it was the separation of those three years and the lack of contact that made Song Yi feel insecure and value her above all else.

At the beginning, Song Yi had her in her eyes, and she was naturally happy.

But slowly, she felt that people's lives should not be like this.

Xu Fanghua loves Song Yi, so she doesn't want to see Song Yi like this.

She hopes that Song Yi's life will be rich and exciting, and when she is old, she will look back on her life and see that she is not only a lifelong lover by her side, but also has achieved something in the career she loves.

Of course, Xu Fanghua was reluctant to part with Song Yi.

Three or five years, a foreign country.

It was undoubtedly torturous.

In fact, she also wanted to selfishly follow Song Yi's thoughts and leave him behind.

But you can stay behind.

She knows that Song Yi's future achievement may be to be a doctor in a city hospital.

She wasn't saying it wasn't good.

But she felt that Song Yi should not be like this.

He is not an ordinary person, and his future should be higher achievements.

Therefore, even if she is reluctant, this time, she has to choose to let go temporarily.

Song Yi thought carefully about Xu Fanghua's words, thinking about it, his eyes turned red unconsciously, and tears fell.

Song Yi doesn't like to cry.

In front of Xu Fanghua, he rarely cried.

But this time......

He couldn't hold back.

After thinking about it carefully, he knew that Fanghua was for his good and completely for his sake.

He was moved by Fanghua's plan.

At the same time, I also feel that I am indeed inferior to Xu Fanghua in terms of ideological height.

He only focuses on the love and love in front of him, but Xu Fanghua sees a higher, deeper and farther future.

Xu Fanghua stepped forward and hugged Song Yi directly.

Song Yi, who was sitting, wrapped his hands around Xu Fanghua's waist and buried his face in her arms.

Xu Fanghua's hand gently patted his back and soothed.

Neither spoke.

There was only Song Yi's quiet crying in the room.

After a while, Song Yi's emotions finally calmed down.

"Okay, Fanghua, I promise you, I'll study abroad."

"yes, okay." Xu Fanghua touched Song Yi's head, and where the latter couldn't see, his eyes were already red.

How could Xu Fanghua be completely willing to make this decision.

She is reluctant to love people.

"Ah Yi, I like what Ning Ning said before, that is, they are for a better reunion."

"And even if we go abroad, even if we can't call, we can write letters."

"Ah Yi, as long as our love is still there, time and space are not a problem."

Song Yi raised his head, his expression was a little aggrieved, "Aren't you afraid that I will take a fancy to any female foreigner abroad?" People say that girls in China are very beautiful with blonde hair and blue eyes, so you are not afraid of ......"

Xu Fanghua covered her face and laughed, "Of course I'm not afraid." ”

"I'm so good, how can my family Ah Yi look down on others."

"My family Ah Yi is a student who went abroad at public expense, and he must have studied hard when he went abroad, and when the time comes, he will return to China with a valuable wealth of knowledge to benefit the country and the people."

Song Yi: That's right.

went abroad, without Fanghua by his side, he was alone, and the only thing he could do was to study and study again.

Try to finish the knowledge as soon as possible, or learn more, and strive to return to China as soon as possible.

In fact, what he said just now was just a joke.

He himself will definitely be able to stick to his heart.

But he was afraid that there would be some young boys who would behave in front of Fanghua at that time.

At the beginning, when Fanghua first came to Beijing University, many male classmates confessed to her.

Even if Fanghua said that she was married, they didn't give up.

In the end, it was he who personally stood by Fanghua's side, and those people reined in.

But he knows that some people are just restrained in their behavior, and their minds are still thinking about seizing the opportunity to move.

So, he grabbed the corner of Xu Fanghua's clothes and said, "Fanghua, I'm going abroad, you can't accept those young people, otherwise I will be sad." ”

Xu Fanghua didn't expect Song Yi to be worried about this, and she couldn't laugh or cry.

"Song Yi, what do you think, I'm a married person, a married woman, and I won't do that kind of thing that violates morality."

"So, don't think nonsense, since it's decided, prepare for studying abroad."

Song Yi: "...... Okay. ”

Song Yi felt that he had to go back and ask the counselor if there was any more convenient way to contact him after he went abroad.

Also, how long can I go home after going abroad?

I can't, I can't come back once in three or five years.

……

Song Yi thought a lot, and his counselor definitely couldn't imagine that this Song Yi, before he went abroad to study, began to think about returning to China during the holidays, how reluctant he was to his wife, or how worried his wife was being taken away by other young people.

I'm sick, there is only one shift for the time being in the early hours of this morning, and there is still one shift waiting for tomorrow morning. Continue to ask for tickets, I feel that there have been fewer tickets recently~ Little cuties, the tickets in your hands, hurry up and smash them for me.