He Mingyu can see that the eldest sister doesn't want to divorce at all, she keeps talking and crying, just to let others help her persuade Wu Yixin back.

Zhao Xiangwan's silence made He Meiyu realize something, and looked at Zhao Xiangwan nervously: "I, I just want to hear your opinion." ”

Zhao Xiangwan shook his head: "My opinion is not important. ”

If there is a problem in the marriage, it is difficult to have a unified standard for whether it is a decisive divorce, active repair or passive forbearance.

Zhang Yalan's parents, her father cheated and committed domestic violence, but her mother resolutely refused to divorce, Zhang Yalan persuaded countless times, but her mother did not let go, the reason for this is money.

As long as the problem of money is solved, Yuan Dongmei agrees to divorce.

Wang Qiankun, the person involved in the headless female corpse case, the boss Wang who opened a sunny karaoke parlor, cheating is commonplace, and his wife Cao Caiyan has never thought about divorce, because she has three children, she came out of the countryside to live with him for many years, and she has no ability to survive when she leaves this home.

So she attributed all the problems to those shameless women, thinking that as long as the women around Wang Qiankun were killed, the family would return to normal.

Wei Meihua and Zhao Qingyun are the daughters of rich families in the city, and the other is a poor child in the countryside. Interests and feelings are entangled together, the social relationship between the two has long been complicated, Zhao Qingyun's derailment was exposed, and Wei Meihua chose to forgive as soon as possible.

Divorce? Wei Meihua can't afford to gamble or lose.

He Meiyu seemed unwilling to help when she heard Zhao Xiangwan's tone, and was a little anxious: "You just said it, it's not my fault." Since it's not my fault, it must be his. He was wrong, he had to admit his mistake, he had to change. As the old saying goes, if you know your mistakes, you can change them, and you can do a great deal, right? ”

Zhao Xiangwan's eyes were calm: "However, he doesn't feel wrong. Maybe it's wrong, but he doesn't want to change, what can you do? "It's not a crime and it can't be sanctioned by legal means. He Meiyu has a deep affection for Wu Yixin, and she throws a mouse bogey, what can Zhao Xiangwan do?

He Meiyu was so embarrassed that tears fell again: "Then, then you will find a way to make him admit his mistake." ”

Zhao Xiangwan said: "What if you admit your mistakes? The one who wants to save the marriage is you, not him. ”

Hearing this, He Meiyu couldn't suppress the pain in her heart anymore, covered her face and began to whimper: "This doesn't work, that doesn't work, what should I do?" ”

He Mingyu saw that the eldest sister was so sad, thinking that when she was a child, she often played around with her back, and she couldn't bear it, so she put her arm around her shoulder: "Eldest sister, don't be sad, you still have me." ”

[What's your use?] Can you give me the money to use? Can you cook me dinner every day? Can you make Xiaohong call Daddy? Can you hug me and say sweet love words and go to bed together? Woowoo...... You can't do anything, what use do I want you? 】

Alas, there is money, sex, love, and children's affection in marriage, so many complex contents, which are really not supported by a simple sentence of "you and me" by outsiders.

Seeing that He Mingyu felt sorry for his eldest sister, and thinking of the thinking that Sheng Chenghao's case brought him about the complexity of family relationships, Zhao Xiangwan decided to say a few more words.

Human anxiety often comes from the fear of the unknown.

Because you've never done it before, you don't know if it's dangerous, worrying, fearful, and anxious at the same time.

Why did the reform of state-owned enterprises that broke the iron rice bowl in the first place cause widespread anxiety among laid-off workers? It's because they don't know what the future holds. In fact, after the incident really happened, the eight immortals crossed the sea to show their magical powers, and many people got better and better.

The reason why He Meiyu is afraid of divorce is because she is afraid of her future life after the status quo changes.

"Sister He, don't cry, tears can't solve anything. Why don't we imagine what your life is like after your divorce? ”

Zhao Xiangwan's voice was soft and clear, like a stream flowing through her heart, which gradually calmed He Meiyu's restless heart. She stopped her tears and looked up.

Zhao Xiangwan handed her a tissue, and waited for her to clean up the tears on her face before she slowly spoke.

People are heroes, money is guts.

The first step is to talk about money.

"Whose house do you live in now?"

He Meiyu's voice still had a hint of trill: "Our unit." When I got married, I was thinking that I would be pregnant and have children in the future, so in order to make it easier for me, I chose to share a house in our unit. ”

Zhao Xiangwan smiled: "Very good, then even if you get divorced, you will still have a house to live in and will not be displaced, right?" ”

He Meiyu nodded and said: "I have a unit and a job, but I am displaced, but it will not be." ”

Zhao Xiangwan said: "You're right. You have a formal unit, work as an accountant, and earn enough to support yourself every month. If you find it difficult to raise your daughter, just ask your husband to pay part of the alimony in the divorce settlement. So...... Although your life may be affected in a short period of time, it's not that you can't get by, right? ”

For a long time, her family either persuaded her to divorce or persuade her to endure, no one had ever analyzed her life after the divorce, He Meiyu was attracted by Zhao Xiangwan's words, and her mind became clearer: "Yes, I can get by." ”

The second step is to talk about sex.

Chinese people are ashamed to talk about sex, and they always feel that when they get involved in sex, they seem to be inserious.

Women in marriage encounter cold violence, and many of them are sexually cold. This kind of silent torture will make a woman with normal physiological needs fall into constant self-doubt - am I shameless? Shouldn't I ask for it like this, is it the same as those lowly women?

However, the core of marriage originally includes sex, safe and reliable sex.

Women are relatively conservative and are accustomed to seeking sexual nourishment in marriage. Men can obtain it in other ways, spending money to enjoy higher quality sex than in marriage, so men are more likely than women to abandon marriage.

Although Zhao Xiangwan is not married, she understands human nature.

"Sister He, although this question is a bit private, I hope you can answer me honestly. How often have you lived as a couple since your husband cheated? ”

He Meiyu's face turned red, then white, and she didn't say anything for a long time.

He Mingyu glanced at Zhao Xiangwan: "Xiangwan, how can you ......?"

Zhao Xiangwan stopped He Mingyu with his eyes.

The phoenix's eyes are shining, dignified and powerful.

He Mingyu closed his mouth and didn't dare to interrupt.

He Meiyu's hands were clenched tightly, her fingers couldn't be twisted, and after being entangled for a long time, she finally spoke: "He, he won't ...... with me." It's been half a year......"

When He Mingyu heard this, his scalp exploded with anger, and he stood up all of a sudden: "This brute! ”

Seeing that she was holding up her big belly and moving so abruptly, Zhao Xiangwan hurriedly held her waist: "You be careful, don't get excited, don't get excited." ”

He Mingyu didn't sit down again, one hand supported his waist, and the other hand waved in the air: "Wu Yixin is still not a man?" Yes?! Isn't it a man? Other men cheated, but they didn't dare to snub their wives so much, he was good, blatant, what did he want to do? Do you keep a holiday for that little lover of his? Keep the fucking festival! ”

Hearing that her sister helped her come out and didn't despise her thirst, He Meiyu's tears were a little uncontrollable, and she fell down: "I, I, I don't dare to say it, I'm afraid that you will scold me for being shameless." ”

He Mingyu gritted her teeth, stretched out her finger and poked heavily on the eldest sister's forehead: "You, you, we sisters grew up in the same house, what can't we say?" Oh, so that their men are prostituting outside, and women are not allowed to ask for their husbands? ”

He Mingyu is the gentlest one in the serious crime team of the Criminal Investigation Brigade, but he didn't expect that his temper became much hotter when he was pregnant.

Zhao Xiangwan said softly on the side: "Sister He, if your husband has never lived a married life with you, what is the meaning of such a marriage to you?" ”

He Mingyu also scolded loudly: "Yes, eldest sister, I support your divorce!" This dog must have eaten enough and eaten outside, so it was not a good thing to pretend to be dead and tired when he got home. How nice he said when he got married, what will be good to you for a lifetime, and never let you suffer the slightest grievance, I see, the grievances suffered by the eldest sister are all given by him alone. ”

Saying the grievances that were pressed in her heart, He Meiyu was much more relaxed. "It's not a good thing to eat enough and eat outside, so it's not a good thing to pretend to be dead and cry tired when you get home" Such words suddenly untied the moral shackles that bound her, He Meiyu sat on the sofa and did not get up, but straightened her waist and took He Mingyu's hand, her eyes were full of gratitude.

Money, she has.

sex, he doesn't give.

What else is there to be nostalgic for in such a marriage?

But what about love? What about the former mountain alliance and sea oath? What about a little bit of happiness? Helping each other when working in the countryside, borrowing textbooks to review together, buying vegetables and cooking together after getting married, holding the child's little hand and watching her grow up day by day......

What about these good times? Are they all discarded?

He Meiyu muttered: "I know, I know the truth, I am a career woman, and I can survive with Xiaohong alone, but ...... I crocheted the lace tablecloth on the coffee table at home, the curtains in the living room that I bought and stepped on on the sewing machine, and the photo album showed that our family of three took so many photos at the entrance of the park, in the photo studio, and at the school. ”

Zhao Xiangwan's biggest headache is the third thing in marriage.

- Love.

Money, there is no money to earn.

Sex, you can have it in another person.

But what about love? Can those years woven with feelings, the good memories of sharing joys and sorrows, and each other's joys and sorrows, be written off with the divorce?

"Big sister! He's already cheated, and you're still immersed in the past, what's the point? What's the use of you being reluctant to do that? He is willing, he is willing! He Mingyu stomped his feet, eager to knock open the eldest sister's head and put his courage and firmness into it.

Zhao Xiangwan left and replaced the two sisters with hot tea.

A cup was handed to He Mingyu: "The tea is hot, drink it slowly, don't worry." ”

Another cup was handed to He Meiyu: "When the tea is cold, don't drink it." ”

The two sisters took the tea, thoughtful.

They are all smart people, and they suddenly understand in an instant.

He Mingyu sighed, took the hot tea, sat down quietly, and did not speak again.

He Meiyu took the hot tea, held it in the palm of her hand, and sat on the sofa blankly, her heart was like a knife: Do you really want to put it down? Do you really want to give it up? Is it really necessary to zero out all the years that have passed?

Zhao Xiangwan's voice was like a summer breeze, smoothing out the anxiety in He Meiyu's heart.

"The happiness of the past is real. You have been married to him for so many years, and you must have had a happy time, so let it stay in the album, on the furniture, in every corner, why throw it away? ”

"Divorce, divorce, just leaving that marriage, not to forget all about the past."

"Sister He, the twisted melon is not sweet. Your husband used to love you, but now his feelings have changed, so why force it? It's better to let it go. ”

He Meiyu thought about it, listened to Zhao Xiangwan's words in her heart, showed a resolute look on her face, and finally made up her mind: "I'll leave!" ”

He Mingyu was overjoyed, and was about to praise the eldest sister a few words, when suddenly Zhu Feipeng's voice came from outside the door: "Mingyu, Mingyu ......"

Immediately, there was a knock on the door.

He Mingyu felt a little strange and said to Zhao Xiangwan: "Xiaofei is here." ”

Zhao Xiangwan walked over and opened the door, He Mingyu walked slowly in front of Zhu Feipeng, and said angrily: "What are you panicking, I still have something to say to Xiangwan." ”

Zhu Feipeng's face was a little anxious: "The emergency room of the Third Provincial Hospital called to find the eldest sister, but I couldn't find it everywhere, and then I called to find me here, saying that the eldest brother-in-law had an accident and asked the eldest sister to go quickly." ”

He Meiyu, who had just made up her mind to divorce, was startled when she heard that something had happened to her husband, and hurriedly ran to the door, looked at Zhu Feipeng and asked, "What's wrong?" What happened to Yixin? ”

Zhu Feipeng replied quickly: "The emergency department of the Third Provincial Hospital called and said that the eldest brother-in-law was stabbed with a knife and was being rescued, and his family members needed to sign it." I couldn't find you anywhere, but I finally came here. ”

Although she decided to divorce, she suddenly heard that her husband had been stabbed, and He Meiyu was still a little anxious: "Go, I'll go over immediately." ”

He Mingyu wanted to accompany the eldest sister over, but Zhu Feipeng was not at ease: "You are more than six months pregnant, and you can't run around." ”

Zhao Xiangwan took the initiative to stand up: "I'll accompany Sister He for a trip." ”

Zhu Feipeng was familiar with her, and he was not polite, nodding and saying, "Okay, I'll go drive." Mingyu, you go home and rest, wait for my call. ”

After Zhao Xiangwan and Ji Zhao said hello, they rushed to the hospital with Zhu Feipeng and He Meiyu.

He Meiyu sat in the car, clenched her fists with both hands, and kept saying in her mouth: "How could you be stabbed?" How could he be stabbed? Who's the hand? Are there any dangers? Did you report to the police? Has the murderer been caught? ”

While driving, Zhu Feipeng replied to the eldest sister's words: "I was stabbed in the lower abdomen with a knife, and I bled a lot, and the hospital has already started to rescue me, just waiting for you to sign and pay the money." Whether there is a danger to life, I don't know yet, but I will know it when I get to the hospital. ”

Years of experience in handling cases told Zhu Feipeng that if he was "cut" with a knife, it would generally not be a big problem. The knife is slashed on the body, the knife edge is long, the contact surface is large, there are bones and muscles to protect it, and there are many external injuries. But if you are "stabbed" by a knife, especially in the abdomen, waist, and chest, the tip of the knife is sharp, the contact surface is small, and it pierces the body and injures the internal organs, then it is difficult to say.

He Meiyu was anxious and kept urging: "Hurry up, hurry up." ”

Zhao Xiangwan said: "The knife wound entered the operating room, and you can't get out for two hours, don't worry." ”

He Meiyu grabbed Zhao Xiangwan's hand, her face pale: "You say, did he provoke someone outside who shouldn't be provoked, so he made a feud?" Otherwise, who would stab him? He is a unit accountant, usually going to and from work, and he has no chance to meet those people in society. ”

Zhao Xiangwan reminded her: "Could it be the object of cheating?" ”