[The daughter of the director of the public security bureau, if I don't get married, how can I let her marry me, an apprentice from the countryside? 】

[I am reluctant to give up this surname, how can I exchange it for Director Yang's careful cultivation? ] 】

"Haha......"

Zhao Xiangwan sat aside and suddenly laughed.

Her laughter was very cheerful, which made Lu Hui feel inexplicable and raised his eyes to look over.

Facing Lu Hui's gaze, Zhao Xiangwan smiled and spoke: "Officer Zhou's family is an official, and her family lives in the compound of the Provincial Public Security Department, and the director of the department is door to door, and the person who talks and laughs is not the director, or the deputy director, the director, and the deputy director, she doesn't understand the hardships and sufferings of rural dolls, and she doesn't understand the transaction behind your involvement." ”

Zhao Xiangwan suddenly smiled, her eyes were like knives: "Did she poke your heart when she asked such a question?" ”

The ridicule from women, the ridicule with ulterior motives, accurately pierced Lu Hui's fragile self-esteem.

Lu Hui's voice suddenly raised: "Who to marry and why to marry, this is my personal behavior, and even the organization has no right to interfere!" ”

Zhao Xiangwan raised his hands: "Ah, yes, yes, you are right." This is your own business, and we outsiders really have no right to dictate except respect and blessing. ”

Obviously, Zhao Xiangwan said "yes, yes, yes", but that tone made Lu Hui want to go up and slap him twice! You think that's right, right? You're clearly laughing!

Zhao Xiangwan's face was serious: "Married, who are you not married?" If I am a man, marriage can change me from an apprentice to a manager, and then recommend me to study in a party school and enter the public security system. Isn't it just that you have to follow your wife's surname when you have a child, what does it matter? With a surname, in exchange for the glory and wealth of a lifetime, it is worth it! ”

Lu Hui's face turned pale.

No one has ever dared to point to his nose and say such a thing!

Chapter 120: Freedom

◎Let me tell you the answer! ◎

Why do you want to get involved?

This question Lu Shangwu had asked himself countless times in his mind.

In the traditional Chinese concept, marriage is orthodox for a man and a woman.

When a man joins a woman, he is generally poor and cannot afford to marry a daughter-in-law, or he is disabled. Like Lu Shangwu, who has only two sons in the family, has decent economic conditions, is tall and healthy, and has a handsome appearance, it is impossible for him to agree to join the family under normal circumstances.

Choosing to join the family, Lu Shangwu must bear the negative evaluation that comes with it.

- Shame on the man's face!

- I'm sorry for my ancestors.

- I don't even want my own surname, and I don't have the face to see my ancestors when I die.

Lu Shangwu had already thought about all this before deciding to join the family, and he was fully mentally prepared.

There is a give-and-take, and I want to get the support of the Yang family, change my fate, and get rid of my mother's control, What is that bit of gossip?

It is precisely because he has such an understanding that his father-in-law Yang Wei'an will rest assured that he will hand over his daughter to him.

Because of physical reasons, Yang Wei'an, the former director of the Luo County Public Security Bureau, has only one daughter, Yang Qiaozhen, who is a traditional man, and is bent on finding a son-in-law who is willing to join the family and give birth to a grandson for the old Yang family to continue the incense.

Although he can be regarded as a high-ranking person in Luo County, it is really not easy to find a suitable son-in-law.

Yang Qiaozhen wants to find a young man with excellent appearance and culture; Yang Wei'an hopes that the other party will be smart, clever and self-motivated. However, a smart, motivated, and educated handsome man is one in a thousand, even if his family is poor, and there are a lot of girls who want to marry, where is Yang Qiaozhen's turn to pick up the leaks?

came and went, and Yang Qiaozhen's marriage was delayed until she was twenty-four years old.

Early marriage was popular in those days, and most of the girls in the countryside were engaged and married at the age of eighteen or nine, even in the city, most of the girls got married at the age of twenty or twenty-one.

- Regardless of the level of education, as long as you are good-looking.

In this way, Lu Shangwu fell into Yang Qiaozhen's eyes.

At the age of eighteen, Lu Shangwu entered the machinery factory as an apprentice fitter, and was watched by the female workers in the factory because of his excellent appearance. He is tall, with red lips and white teeth, and he is still bright and sunny even in overalls, and when he gets off work, there will be girls around him to give small gifts, which makes the workers envious and jealous.

Lu Shangwu, who was surrounded by girls, had a clear goal, he wanted to find a girl who worked in the county, had good family conditions, and could help him arrange a formal job, so he contacted several girls who were unsuccessful in the end.

When they arrived at Yang Qiaozhen, the two hit it off.

Yang Wei'an met Lu Shangwu, and after chatting, he found that although the young man only had a junior high school education, he was studious and ambitious, so he ignored his junior high school education and acquiesced in the relationship between the two.

Yang Wei'an is willing to cultivate Lu Shangwu, but the condition is to join the family, and it is a very formal membership.

It is equivalent to Lu Shangwu "marrying" into the Yang family.

The child he gave birth to with Yang Qiaozhen must be surnamed Yang.

The child called Yang Wei'an "grandpa" and called Sun Youmin, the old lady of the Lu family, "grandmother".

Lu Shangwu did not discuss with his family and agreed.

Of course, Sun Youmin was not happy, but Lu Shangwu changed after the age of sixteen, and he was cut off in advance. When she knew the news and wanted to oppose it, the Yang family was extremely strong, and it was too late.

It's just that she has an indifferent attitude and basically doesn't have any contact with the Yang family, even her little grandson she rarely brings with her, and the Lu and Yang families rarely move around, and the relationship is not good.

Lu Shangwu entered the army at the age of 21, and now Chinese New Year's Eve is six years old, and in 15 years, he has been apprenticed from a fitter with a junior high school education to the throne of the director of the Luo County Public Security Bureau. What is the ridicule of others? Lu Shangwu felt that it was a wise choice to join the family.

In the past, I could still hear a word or two of sour words from the people in the village, but when he had great power in his hands, the county leaders had to give three points of courtesy when they saw him, and everyone was envious when he went out, and all he heard was praise, praise and welcome.

Today, sitting in the summons room of the Star Market, I heard Zhao Xiangwan say this sentence, "What's wrong with the money?" Isn't it just that you have to follow your wife's surname when you have a child, what does it matter? With a surname, in exchange for the glory and wealth of a lifetime, it is worth it! Lu Shangwu seems to have returned to the past with nothing, which is extremely harsh!

Lu Shangwu was not angry, but looked at Zhao Xiangwan calmly: "Officer Zhao, I only want you to be young and ignorant and open-mouthed, if you say such insulting things again, I will complain." ”

"Complaints?" Zhao Xiangwan was not afraid at all, and looked at him, and where his eyes made contact, there seemed to be a flash of fire, "This is not what I said, it was your mother's mocking words." She told us that your son is lost. Your eldest brother gave birth to four golden flowers, and no one continued the Lu family's incense, but after you passed it on for the Yang family, your mother was very disappointed in you. ”

Lu Hui's eyes revealed an indescribable sadness.

"My mother? What do you look for her. She is a person, her life ranks first, enjoyment ranks second, and face ranks third, as for others, it doesn't matter. What is the importance of continuing the Lu family's incense? She's just afraid of gossip behind her relatives' backs. ”

Lu Hui's chest was rising and falling violently, his teeth were clenched, his hands were propped up on the table, and his whole person was trembling slightly, obviously stimulated by Zhao Xiangwan's success.

[After killing someone, I'm not afraid of anything! 】

[She still wants to control me?] Don't. 】

[All my mother's life, I want to control everything in the palm of her hand. Whoever is honest and obedient should be exploited by her! My grandmother died, my dad died, she consumed everyone else, and she continued to torture me and my brother. 】

[I'm in trouble, I'm getting rid of her, I'm finally leaving her. This little policewoman is so ridiculous, she said my mother was disappointed in me? Haha, to be able to disappoint my mom, that's right! 】

Zhao Xiangwan's heart trembled a little - Lu Hui's weakness has been found!

If Lu Hui really wants to get rid of his mother's control, then why has Lu Hui connived at his mother to show off her power under his banner for so many years?

When I first met Sun Youmin at the bus station police station, she said arrogantly: Do you believe that if I make a phone call, Director Lu will send the police to take you away?

Why did Lu Hui listen to her? Why let her continue to command?

Zhao Xiangwan once read an article saying that the more you hate someone, the more you will become after all. Why?

In psychological research, the imprint of the family of origin, that is, the family in which a person was born and raised, is very profound, and the attitude of the parents towards the elders, the words that the parents have said to them, and the meals they have cooked, silently affect the person's personality and behavior.

Lu Shangwu hated his mother in his heart, but Sun Youmin's way of speaking, behavior, and way of doing things were deeply immersed in his bone marrow long before he formed hatred and tried to get rid of it.

As soon as it is triggered, it immediately "learns from the same".

Lu Hui's psychological weakness is control.

He is imitating Sun Youmin's way of controlling others; But he is also constantly resisting, trying to get rid of Sun Youmin's control.

Killing people on a rainy night was Lu Hui's first resistance.

Entering the factory as an apprentice was his second rebellion.

Joining the Yang family and changing his name to Lu Hui was his third rebellion.

Step by step, Lu Hui has been trying to get out of the shackles of his original family and escape Sun Youmin's control.

So, here's the problem.

What does Lu Hui crave the most?

What Gong Sixi longs for most is to be affirmed by his parents, because he has been neglected;

What about Lu Hui?

He has been controlled by others all his life, and what he longs for is freedom.

Not just the freedom of the body, not just the freedom of behavior, but the freedom of choice to be respected, trusted, appreciated, supported, encouraged.

Choose your own life and not be swayed by others.

Do what you really want to do without being distracted by others.

Finding what Lu Hui desires the most and accurately finding his emotional button can make him sad, make him happy, make him angry, and make him collapse!

It's just that the process will be difficult and extremely draining.

While controlling the emotions of others, you will also be affected.

Thinking of this, Zhao Xiangwan let out a long breath, poured himself a cup of tea, and sat down slowly.

Gao Guangqiang and Zhou Rulan saw Zhao Xiangwan so calm, they also relaxed and lowered their heads to drink water.

Only Lu Hui had nowhere to vent his anger, and his emotions were still immersed in hatred for his mother.

[Selfish, only money in his eyes! ] Grandma had sores on her thighs, and the barefoot doctor said that she would take penicillin, but she was reluctant to spend money, so she watched her grandmother's thighs ulcerate and die. 】

[Dad was sick, she forced him to work in the field, Dad was tired to death! 】

[If anyone doesn't listen to her, she will cry, make trouble, and hang herself. 】

[The first child is a daughter, I said that she was fostered at the eldest brother's house, what did she say? She said that this girl's surname was Yang, and she gave her away when she turned her head......]

The first child is a daughter?

Zhao Xiangwan took a sip of hot tea and looked up at Lu Hui: "How is your relationship with your mother?" ”

Lu Hui shook his head and didn't say anything.

Zhao Xiangwan said: "I have talked to your mother Sun Youmin twice, and I feel that she is a very strong old lady, and it must be very tiring to live with her, right?" ”

Lu Hui nodded, thoughtful: "I'm tired." ”

Zhao Xiangwan asked: "Since you are tired, why don't you leave?" ”

Lu Hui's face was calm, but his heart was turbulent: "I chose to join the family, and I have already left." ”

Zhao Xiangwan changed his words: "Since you left, why are you still affected by her everywhere?" ”