Chapter 210: I'd rather be alone for the rest of my life than have a partner
No one is perfect, and one cannot know everything.
Even if he is an immortal, he has times when his mana is not enough.
This is especially true of people.
After two people get along for a period of time, even if they are excellent people, they have shortcomings.
In the same way, even the worst person has advantages in him.
In his previous life, Gu Xu had always thought about a question that he couldn't understand, whether two complementary people had been together for a long time, or two people with common advantages for a long time.
Later, Gu Xu figured out this problem, two people who complement each other and can tolerate each other, and people with common goals can only last long together.
Later, he expanded the relationship to his own network, however, he did not find the love of his life.
In fact, after he was rejected by Hua Jingjing, it was not because of emotional injury that he did not go to the next one.
Instead, he hopes that his next one will be "a couple in life and life." ”
Sometimes, when you are with someone, you will have a feeling that even after a lifetime, you don't feel that it is enough, and this becomes a lifetime.
And to get to this level, it's not that easy.
Therefore, he was alone.
To do this, you must first learn to complement each other.
Gu Xu has always believed that two people should learn to complement each other when they are together.
I will, you won't, I can do what you can't, and you can rest.
You will, I won't, you can do what I won't, and I can rest.
A person's energy is limited.
Only when you have a good rest can you have time to face greater difficulties, and only then can you have the opportunity to learn and supplement what you don't know and make yourself stronger!
To put it simply, two people fighting are much stronger than one.
There are strengths and weaknesses for any one person.
Some people are talented in certain areas, and they can achieve results that others may not achieve in a lifetime with a light effort.
And at this time, it is necessary to learn, complement each other, and cooperate.
Let your strengths make up for each other's shortcomings.
However, in reality, when many people are together, when they see each other's shortcomings, whether they are friends or lovers, they may say, why are you so stupid, why can't you.
No matter what the relationship is, when a person talks to the other person in such a contemptuous and reproachful tone, it is undoubtedly hurting the hearts of others.
But here comes the problem again.
This is a time when a person will and a person will not, and it can be so.
What if, neither of them?
This is related to two people's outlook on life, ideology, attitude towards life, and other issues.
Is it two people who give up together, or two people who progress together.
This needs to be decided by two people together.
If two people decide to learn together, they may progress together.
In the process of learning, there will definitely be many problems, which requires how to divide labor and how to cooperate between two people.
You learn what you're good at, I learn what I'm good at, and finally synthesize, or study together.
Life needs cooperation, love also needs cooperation, and marriage needs cooperation.
A marriage can only be happy if two people work together happily.
Some people say that falling in love is romance, and marriage is firewood, rice, oil and salt.
In fact, this is the most basic beginning of cooperation.
Gu Xu was busy in his previous life and was lonely all his life.
Every time he came home from work, the smell of emptiness and loneliness was indescribable.
Several times, he came home so tired that he couldn't speak, lying in bed, hungry, not wanting to eat takeout, just wanting a hot meal.
You don't need the level of a five-star hotel chef, it's just fine.
But this kind of thing, Gu Xu felt at that time that it was more difficult than ascending to the sky.
Several times, after entertaining clients, he came home in the middle of the night, drank too much, and fell asleep on the bed.
I slept until midnight, thirsty, and wanted to drink saliva, but it happened that the mineral water and drinks at home were all drunk.
At that time, he had long forgotten who Hua Jingjing was, and he really wanted to find someone to work with.
However, no matter how much he searched, he couldn't find it.
Later, he had a friend around him who told him that if he couldn't find someone to work with, he could find someone to "partner with".
That is, if you can't find the person you love to marry, then find someone to live with.
At the time, he didn't quite understand what it meant to live together, but later, he understood.
He was also puzzled at the time, you want to find someone to work with, but you can't find it, find someone to partner with, and people are willing to partner with you?
To put it bluntly, is she willing to serve you a delicious meal when you're hungry?
Is she willing to wash your smelly socks when you can't find them to wear, and clean you up when you're drunk and throwing up?
If, no, he just wants you to hand her your wallet while she is shopping in the mall, then you are just a wallet.
So, when everyone around him persuaded him, he still insisted on his point of view.
However, he didn't know what words to use to describe it.
He feels that he would rather die alone in this life than "partner"!
Later, he heard a word called "no compromise".
When he heard the word, he felt that this was what he wanted.
Therefore, no matter how hungry and tired he was, in the end he still did not choose to "partner", but chose "not to settle".
Later, he heard those people who told him before that they were living together, and some of them told him that they couldn't live anymore.
He rejoiced that he was right.
In his previous life, he didn't find such a person.
In this life, he believes that his little daughter-in-law will definitely be able to do it.
What the little daughter-in-law said today, he was very touched in his heart.
This can reflect her outlook on life from the side.
She certainly advocates making amends as well.
He believed that in the days to come, if they encountered difficulties, there was no doubt that the little daughter-in-law would definitely spend it with him.
She will use his strengths to make up for her shortcomings.
And won't say, why are you so useless.
It seems that from the time she met her little daughter-in-law to the present, she has always encouraged herself.
The little daughter-in-law is so nice!
Gu Xu thought about it, the corners of his mouth rose slightly, and he was very proud in his heart.
The night is getting darker and deeper, and on the streets, street lamps illuminate the path of pedestrians, stretching their shadows for a long time.
When Gu Xu returned home, his brows furrowed slightly, and the lights were actually turned on at home.
It was the first time in a long time that he had come home, and there was nothing dark in the house.
"Dad!" Gu Xu shouted a few times, but no one responded.
Gu Xu walked around the house.
Not a single one.
Gu Xu frowned slightly, where did he go, he forgot to turn off the lights.
He looked at the shoe rack at the door, Gu Dahai's leather shoes were lying quietly on the shelf, and the slippers were not picked up.
Gu Xu opened the door, stood in the courtyard and shouted, "Dad, Gu Dahai, where have you been!" ”
According to Gu Xu's judgment, Gu Dahai should be in the courtyard, thinking that he would come back after a while, so he forgot to turn off the lights.