Chapter 280: Raising an Extra Child

Lin Yuandong is honest and doesn't know how to be flexible, and he doesn't want to be bullied back, but he will stay away, and he will do it with people when he is bullied, and Dafu is a gentle and cold character, and likes to look at some things coldly, which perfectly combines some of the personalities of his parents.

And the second rich man is hot-tempered and reckless, with a little resentment and malice in his bones, which is more obvious than the big rich, but better than the three rich, after all, the second rich is not like the three riches to rub the black hand, he is generally blatant.

When he was a child, he could deliberately trip Erni for fun and let her be beaten, Dafu could stand aside and watch coldly without prompting Erni or helping to explain, and the culprit was laughing like having fun, although it scared Sanfu, but it also made Sanfu more cunning and mature than these two brothers.

Sanfu realized at that time what the word 'girl' represented, so he was not so close to Dafu and Erfu.

But when they grew up, Dafu and Erfu received school education, and they were not as bad as they were young, and they were educated by the school and honesty with a little more good character, so going to school was really useful.

"Don't be busy, let's eat first." Erfu sighed, stepped forward and flicked his sister's eyebrows: "Let's go, I stewed meat at home today, if you don't go, you will all be separated by milk in a while." ”

The elders divide the dishes and meals completely to avoid that some people in the family eat too fast, eat most of the good things, so that the others can't eat anything, and there is also the idea of letting the labor force eat more, after all, for rural families, labor is really important.

At the end of the year, the work can be exchanged for food, and the more can be divided into money, and food stamps, meat stamps, cloth stamps are very important, the family's source of livelihood depends on labor, although the country now advocates equality between men and women, women are no worse than men.

But there are some things that women really can't do, after all, the difference between natural physique and physical strength makes women in a sense inferior to men, which also leads to the fact that the labor force does not specifically refer to men, but everyone acquiesces that only men are considered labor.

If there are no boys in this family, and the older generation is gradually unable to work, it means that they will not even be able to eat in the future, because there is no labor force and no work, and women have to take care of children and the elderly inside and out, how to take care of work?

And the daughter has to marry out, instead of 'marrying' back to add population and labor to the family, so by nature, let the man occupy a favorable position in society, and the woman is a little lower, even though the situation is much better now, but most people default to the fact that it is difficult to move without a 'man' in this family.

But in fact, women are not worse than men, but now many people do not realize that science and technology, civilization, and social development have not brought much improvement, at least until the country is stable and the society continues to promote, so that the status of women can be further improved.

However, there are many specific references to the further improvement of women's status, and if women are not able to be financially independent and have some favorable conditions, the so-called 'further improvement of status' is just a joke.

The old feudal ideas that have been inherited for thousands of years will be engraved into the bones from generation to generation and cannot be cleaned by the new era.

Lin Xiangrong watched Wang Cuilan finish the meal, and thought in his heart of the huge energy consumed in the country's development step by step in the past hundred years, and how magnificent the efforts of generation after generation were.

"Lin Yuanbei and Lili are going to work in the town tomorrow, what do you need to bring? Mom prepares in advance. As soon as Wang Cuilan mentioned the two promising children, she smiled toothlessly, and the gloom that the idea revealed from time to time was completely abandoned.

"I don't have anything to bring, it's just that my mother will help me take care of Xinshuang, and when I settle down over there, I'll take Xinshuang back." Lin Lili thought of her daughter who was about to give up, and her heart was sour, she knew that the next time her daughter grew up by her side, she would be estimated to be five or six years old at that time.

A child at that age, growing up in the countryside, is already sensible and will not fill in trouble, but after all, she didn't grow up by her side, and Lin Lili was not sure what the child would be raised.

But she really has no way to put down her work, and she can only throw her daughter to the countryside with all her heart to raise her daughter.

"It's okay, it's just one more child, there are so many people in the family, can't you take care of one child?"

Although she is a granddaughter and has no granddaughter, Lin Lili has no in-laws, and it is not necessary to say that she will not be close in the future, and there is no difference between her and her relatives, but when she thought that Xinshuang's father was Liu Laosan, Wang Cuilan felt strange in her heart.

There was always a feeling that this child was someone else's child, and she thought so, and her face brought out a little.

Lin Lili took a closer look, and after seeing that Wang Cuilan just minded these things a little, and was not dissatisfied or disgusted, she breathed a sigh of relief in her heart, and hurriedly said: "I will send money back every month, you don't have to worry about Xinshuang's child support." ”

Hearing this, Wang Cuilan smiled and said, "Okay, you don't have to worry about being at home." ”

Lin Lili nodded, and when she saw the two sisters-in-law's tightly locked brows loosened, she knew that her decision was right, and she went to look at Zhou Zhaodi, who had never had any expression, and unexpectedly found that this honest and cowardly third sister-in-law who didn't dare to reply when scolded by others was actually not as honest as it seemed.

At least people have their own ideas in their hearts, and nothing is brought to their faces, and the eldest sister-in-law Fang Hongying and the second sister-in-law Zhang Miao are very simple and don't want to raise an extra child at home.

After all, they know best how much effort it takes to raise a child, and the child is not their own family, it is a married daughter, and they can't please it if it is good or bad, just like a stepmother takes care of her stepdaughter and stepson.

No matter what you do, someone else can pick out a thorn.

Lin Lili knew what they were thinking, so she didn't care about it, anyway, Zhang Fang responded to it, and others couldn't do anything if they didn't allow it.

"There's nothing you need, just take care of yourself, Lili and I don't have to worry about it at home." Lin Yuanbei took over the conversation, chatted briefly, and then took the topic crookedly.

After they left, Xinshuang was hugged by Wang Cuilan to the back room to raise, the little girl is in good health, but she especially likes to cry, crying at night, making people's ears hurt, and the whole family can't sleep well.

Fang Hongying sat up, kicked Lin Yuandong, who was also woken up, and said in a low voice of dissatisfaction: "A little girl, forget it after birth, send it to Lao Liu's house, you have to raise it yourself, so you can cry, will the big guy sleep in the future?" ”

"You don't know what the people in the village say, it's ugly."