26 White dew
A gust of iron pot wind blew almost flat in Liyang Duyi, and this gust of wind was "blown" by Bai Luyao's fairy breath.
The wind was blown by Bai Luyao, and she called the name of the iron pot first.
Bai Lu Yao, surnamed Yao, named Bai Lu, is the eldest daughter of the Yao family Yao County Ling, in early April and the Qin family, a big family in Liyang Xixiang, set a family affair, the two families are harmonious, and now they have begun to go six ceremonies.
If you want to say why Bai Lu, the good daughter of the Yao family, agreed to marry the Qin family, there is also a story here.
Well, it's a story about an old father picking a husband for his daughter, and his daughter is too thoughtful.
Fortunately, Yao Xianling is a good father who loves his daughter and did not turn the story into an accident.
White dew, as its name suggests, is as small and delicate as the dew on the spring flowers, white and clear, radiant, and lovable.
Because of her family background and father's official title, as well as her own talent and appearance, in Liyang County, at least in Liyang Duyi, Bai Lu is the premier model of noblewomen.
In Liyang Duyi, she is the vane of the fashion and popularity of the nobles, the sample of the small jasper family vying to imitate, and the good female model of the noblewomen.
But she is such a perfect noblewoman, she has an innocuous little problem, that is, in the choice of a son-in-law, she is a little too nitpicking.
The reason why it is said to be harmless is because for the aristocratic family, her requirements for mate selection are not too excessive, that is, she is too "bright-eyed and clear-minded".
But why should a young and young noblewoman marry with a large dowry and her father's political assets, why should she lower her standards and wronged herself?
Unless she marries the son of Qin, the kind that can be the king of Qin, she can be the queen in the future. That's no way, no matter how many grievances and hardships, she is willing to eat, she just doesn't want to, and the family will force her to be willing.
Isn't this the current King of Qin who is old, the crown prince of Qin has been decided, and the sons of Qin are all dozens of years old, and there are countless wives and concubines and countless sons in the family?
Moreover, in the Qin State, if you want to say how prominent the surname Yao is, there is no one, and there are not even many clansmen, just dozens of people.
So are there any officials and above? No, Yao County's title is the highest, and the title of the ninth-level five doctors will be enough for the rank of Qing. But in this way, he also worked in Liyang for more than ten years, and when he did a good job, he was promoted to the official of the county guard.
Therefore, if a medium-sized aristocratic family like the Yao family finds a husband for their good daughter, they generally find it in the right family and in a slightly higher class, and it is based on the intention of their daughter.
In the pre-Qin period, it was not popular to have completely arranged marriages, not to allow young men and women to meet, and not to consider the wishes of both young people. It is not popular to elopement-style free love, which discredits the family.
Unless there is a great value in the marriage beyond immeasurability, for example, if you marry the king, or elope with the king, then that's another story.
Yao County is very stable. He can't reach the monarch, he doesn't want to mix with the big nobles, he can't get involved, and it's easy to be cannon fodder. Therefore, the families he found for his daughter were all the right people.
However, Bailu's good woman is a little difficult to serve.
The Yao family first found her a beautiful little gentleman of the same age, a friend of Yao County's order, who knew the roots, and was a mild childhood sweetheart. But that is, she knows the root of the matter too well, and the good girl of Bailu knows very well what kind of character her childhood friend is, and she rejected it on the grounds that the other party is too soft-footed shrimp and can only read poems and cry in the wind.
Yao County Order: The Qin State advocates military merit, this little boy must go to the battlefield in the future, such weakness, it is not good to say that the daughter must be widowed.
It's okay to refuse.
The Yao family found her a strong man with military merits, the strong man is eight feet tall, with tendons and flesh, and people already have military merits, and they can develop in the direction of martial arts officials in the future, they are stable, and the future is also very promising, as far as the person itself is concerned, it is very good, but he is a little old, but it is nothing, Zhou Lili also said that a man can marry a wife at the age of thirty, he is just right. But Bai Lu's good woman doesn't think so, she suspects that the man is rough, her beard is scruffy, and she wants to hide her face when she sees it, and she doesn't have a wife in her thirties, maybe there is some hidden illness in her body?
Yao Xianling looked at his delicate daughter, and then thought about the other party's pagoda-like figure, and felt that it was not very compatible, so it was enough.
The Yao family found her a scribe again, this time the other party's man is weak and weak, but not weak, although he has no military merits, but he has a strong sense of self-motivation, Qin Lu's back is ripe, and in the future, with the help of the old father-in-law Yao County, he will definitely be able to rise to the top. But Bai Lu's good female suspect is poor and has few servants, and she may have to go to the field to grow grain herself when she marries, and it will be difficult to die if she thinks about it.
At home, from childhood to adulthood, Yao County Ling didn't even let his daughter mention a bucket of water, it doesn't make sense, when he marries into his in-law's family, he has to face the loess with his back to the sky? He has no enmity with his daughter, and his daughter's consideration is indeed reasonable, but this is not good.
The Yao family found another ......
No matter how many men can be found, Bailu good women can always pick out a lot of things that are not suitable, and that is not suitable, in short, they are unwilling.
Yao Xianling slowly realized that the taste was coming, her daughter is, she has her own thoughts!
The Yao family looked sideways, only to find out that the daughter who had been pampered for more than ten years was not a model wooden person, let alone a moral model, living for the eyes of others!
Not only are people not wooden, once they broke out, they are also very assertive, and they are high-minded and picky about people.
Yao Xianling specially asked his daughter: "What kind of husband do you want?" ”
Bai Lu: "Father, you should ask your daughter what kind of husband's family she wants. ”
The difference between the husband and the husband's family is a world of difference.
With her identity and life experience, she can only marry the head of the family, inherit the family business, and continue the bloodline. In a word, she is not married to a person, but a family.
Moreover, her husband is likely to go to war in the future. Since ancient times, she has been on the battlefield, nine times out of ten and never returned, she dare not bet that her family is the lucky one, if she is widowed, she does not want to remarry, she will guard her children and family business for a lifetime.
Then, whether this family business is worth keeping is the prerequisite for her to choose a mate.
Also, the temperament of her mother-in-law determines the quality of her spiritual life in the future, which cannot be ignored.
Above, in order to avoid being isolated in her husband's family, she prefers to marry in Liyang County nearby. Because ninety percent of the Yao family lives in Liyang, if she has anything, let people hurry up, or she herself can go back to her parents' house in an hour, safe and secure!
In addition, the least important thing is what happened to the husband himself.
Yao Xianling was taken aback by his daughter's true thoughts, and after being frightened, he was relieved again.
Qin's national conditions are like this, since she is destined to marry a man, and there is an eighty percent chance of being a widow, so why doesn't she treat herself better and choose one that suits her in all aspects? It's not that she can't afford to provoke.
At this point, it can only be said that his daughter is pragmatic and does not have vanity and delusions. Qin Guo is very pragmatic, and at this point, his daughter should be worthy of recognition.
At the same time, there was a little bit of disappointment in my heart.
Only a little!
There is such a talented and good-looking daughter, and it is pure nonsense to say that Yao Xianling has never dreamed of exchanging this daughter for something. Although his own conditions are there, it does not delay him from daydreaming of taking off with his daughter. What if it happens? After all, Bai Lu is really a very good girl, and it is normal to be favored by nobles.
But the noble girl who shines like a beautiful flower is obviously not a soft little white rabbit.
As soon as the little white rabbit-like girl became a big tiger who planned to move, the idea in his heart was immediately extinguished. After all, the daughter is biological, and it is not fake that she has been hurting for more than ten years, it is best to change something, if you can't change it, it's nothing.
Moreover, this tiger doesn't look like a human eater yet, but a tiger is a tiger, especially a tigress, a bad one, but it will backfire, and this backlash includes her husband's family and mother's family.
Yao Xianling has never underestimated women, especially the daughter who he taught single-handedly, how much ability she has, he will only think higher, and will not deceive himself into looking down on her.
Therefore, Yao County Ling decided to respect her daughter's choice.
But if you find such a family according to Bailu's standards in Liyang, it is really a bit difficult.
When Yao County Ling was looking through the household registration book, Aunt Qin came to the door with Qin Chuan.
This is really nowhere to find the iron shoes, and it takes no effort to get it!
Qin Chuan, isn't that the husband that God specially prepared for his good daughter?
Needless to say, Qin Chuan is young, his body is definitely fine, he looks white and clean, and there is no smell on his body - well, only this one, Bai Lu must like it - although there is no title, this can be discussed, after all, he has no Fu status, he has not been on the battlefield, and naturally he has no title, but he has a lot of wealth, there is no shortage of acres, and he is also very delicate in his daily life, and he is very particular about eating and drinking, which has been confirmed many times, and is very in line with the life habits of his own "nitpicking" daughter.
The Qin family is also a well-known kind family in the township, he has known this for a long time, and he personally went to the Qin family in Xixiang to commend it.
The Qin family has a good reputation, thanks to the management of the two women of the Qin family. Since people want to manage a good reputation for kindness, then the two of them must first be kind to outsiders and themselves, otherwise, they will not be able to convince the public and will be easily exposed.
It's good to be kind, my aunt is kind, and my daughter can live a smooth life.
Moreover, the Qin family also has a surname that can be used very well, the surname Ying.
The country surname, there is a child here.
As for Qin Chuan's child, didn't the Qin family send the opportunity to come to the door by themselves?
Milk branding, if it is operated in terms of military resources, maybe it can be knighted.
Now I have it, too.
Yao County Ling asked people to call Bai Lu, who lived in the backyard, to secretly look at people, and at the same time greeted Qin's mother, and after Bai Lu revealed the information of "Ke", Yao County Ling proposed the idea of marriage on the spot.
Therefore, the marriage between the Yao family and his own family that the Qin family guessed "must have Yao County's own idea", which is not right or wrong.
Yao Xianling does have his own ideas, yes, but his thoughts are really just to find a suitable husband, uh, husband for his daughter.