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1. Give her something she likes to do (tasks) Coax the child to be patient~ You treat her well, let her like you, and gradually she believes in you and is willing to listen to you, don't complain about her, you must have been like this when you were young, this is the nature of children

2. Pick something she likes, give her a hug, and when she gets familiar with it, she won't always cry~ It should be because she misses her mother to cry and divert her attention

3. Just follow her first, you can take her to do whatever she wants, and slowly wait until she is no stranger to you, and she will not cry

At this time, you can let her play by herself, just play with her occasionally, and then you will have time to do your own thing~

Let her build trust in you, so that you can be relatable, be patient

However, Dong Yong's father, the director, still has no experience in this area, and it is estimated that the best way for the director is that Xiao Dong Yong will cry and cry and cry tired, so he will naturally stop crying.

Therefore, hearing his son Xiao Dong Yong stop crying, Dong Yong's father recited countless sentences of "Amitofu" in his heart ["Amitofu" doesn't seem to work, because there was no Buddhism in China at that time ("Amitofu" is a favorite oral phrase in Buddhism. It's more common to compare "Have you eaten?" In ancient India, a small city-state, the Acropolis of Kapila, gave birth to a prince named Siddhartha, who later became a monk and became a enlightened person of supreme wisdom, a perfectionist of immeasurable merits, and a ultimate person of the highest personality, so he was called the Buddha of "supreme enlightenment". Because he was born as a saint of the Shakyamuni clan, he was revered as Shakyamuni. Sakyamuni is the founder of Buddhism, the Eastern Han Dynasty Ming Emperor through the Silk Road Buddhism officially introduced to our country), "immeasurable Tianzun" ("immeasurable Tianzun" is a favorite oral language in Taoism, the word "immeasurable Tianzun" in the "Daozang" recorded 3 examples, listed as follows: (1) Taishang Protector of the country praying for rain and eliminating demons Sutra: set up a wide range of food, offering the ten directions of immeasurable Tianzun, the thirty-six heavenly emperors, Tiangong parents, and the gods and immortals, all dragon gods, and all the spirit saints, as a great benefit ....... The holy name of "Immeasurable Heavenly Venerable" can be an honorific title for "many Heavenly Venerables", just like people often say "Everyone, everyone". "Shifang", whether it is our "daily language" or "Taoist common sense", refers to the meaning of all directions, such as: the Ten Directions to Save the Suffering Heavenly Zun, all sentient beings in the Ten Directions, the Ten Directions of Good Faith, the Ten Directions of Taoist friends, etc. The Ten Directions Immeasurable Heavenly Venerable refers to the "Immeasurable Heavenly Venerable" from all sides. (2) Taishang Cave Xuanling Treasure Karma Sutra - Relief of Suffering Fifteenth: At this time, the king sent the heart of the Great Dao, widely placed all views, opened up the people, created the image of the immeasurable Heavenly Venerable, wrote the holy name of this scripture extensively, made the immeasurable cover, produced the immeasurable Dharma clothes, offered the Three Treasures, gave the Taoist female crown and met good friends, etc., and built a great blessing. (3) The Taishang Cave Xuanling Treasure Ten Masters Master Wonderful Sutra: And the White Honorable Words: I have seen hundreds of thousands of immeasurable heavenly venerables, and all the attendants, all of them are now hidden, and there is no doubt about it. The demons want to annoy me. It can be seen that the word "Immeasurable Tianzun" has long been recorded in the "Daozang", and the word "Immeasurable Tianzun" has a long history!) It seems that it is not good, the director is not a Taoist person, so is it okay for the "sage to manifest the spirit"? Look, it seems that the big figures of Confucianism are either saints or sages, Confucius is a sage, Mencius is a sage, and there are even more sages, and it is said that among the disciples of the sage Confucius there are "seventy-two sages". Therefore, it will be the "manifestation of the sages". 】。

After Dong Yong's father recited countless sentences of "sage manifestation" in his heart, he began the ancestral rite of the ancient family ancestral hall where Dong Yong's mother, Dong Gu's mother, was located.

Dong Yong's father, the director, first put the red paper with the eight characters of the little girl Zhang Na on the altar in the ancestral hall of the ancient family where Dong Yong's mother Dong Gu was located. Of course, it is the same as Xiao Dong Yong's ancestor in the ancestral hall of the Dong family of Xiao Dong Yong's own family.

Of course, this is for the ancestors of those ancient families who are on the altar in the ancestral hall of the ancient family where Dong Yong's mother Dong Gu is located. Therefore, the red paper with the little girl Zhang Na's eight characters written on it is not open, but the folded appearance of the text cannot be seen outside. As for whether the ancestors of the ancient family who are on the altar in the ancestral hall of the ancient family where Dong Yong's mother Dong Gu is located can read the content of the red paper with the little girl Zhang Na's eight characters written on it, that is a question that Dong Yong's father and director can't consider. It's not the first one here, anyway.

Dong Yong's father, the director, first put the red paper with the eight characters of the little girl Zhang Na written on the altar in the ancestral hall of the ancient family where Dong Yong's mother Dong Gu was located. The next step is to burn paper and incense.

However, when Xiao Dong Yong's family ancestral hall of the Dong family told his ancestors, Xiao Dong Yong's cousin helped burn paper and incense.

Now, without the help of others, Dong Yong's father and director can only do it himself...... Is it an abundance of food and clothing?

No, it was Dong Yong's father, the director, who burned paper and incense by himself, and made offerings to the ancestors of the ancient family on the altar in the ancestral hall of the ancient family where Dong Yong's mother Dong Gu was located.

Dong Yong's father, the director, finally lit the paper incense that needed to be burned.

Isn't it very easy to light those paper incense sticks that need to be burned?

Dong Yong's father, what did the director need to do to light the paper incense that needed to be burned?

This is naturally due to the fact that the way of making fires in ancient times was completely different from today's.

Nowadays, the way to make a fire is basically a lighter, and now even a match (a match is not literally, that is, a firewood has been lit,). Match is a kind of fire tool that can be frictionally ignited according to the principle of friction heat generation of objects, using the chemical activity of strong oxidant and reducing agent.

According to records, the earliest matches were invented by the Chinese in 577 AD, when it was matches, wars broke out, Northern Qi suffered from the enemy, material shortages, especially the lack of fire, cooking rice was a problem, when the concubine and a group of palace maids magically invented matches, but ancient Chinese matches are just a kind of fire-inducing material.

It seems that sometimes disasters are also good.

No, that's how matches were invented.

Later, it was introduced to Europe during the Marco Polo period, and later Europeans invented modern matches that were once called "foreign fire" by the Chinese. "Foreign fire" can make fire by friction. The person who invented this match was Walker in England, who in 1826 made antimony sulfide and potassium chloride in the form of paste from gum and water, which were applied to the match stem and pulled on sandpaper to produce fire.

However, there are two very fatal shortcomings of early matches: (1) white phosphorus is very rare and easy to spontaneously combust when heated, which is very dangerous, and (2) white phosphorus is poisonous, and the workers who make matches will be poisoned to death if they are not careful. In 1852 after the improvement of the Swedes from Tastolum, the safety match was invented. Phosphorus and sulfur compounds are used as ignition materials, and the fire can only be started by rubbing on a box coated with red phosphorus, which improves the degree of safety. But before the invention of safety matches, people have gone through generations of continuous exploration.

The components in safety matches are: match heads are mainly composed of oxidants (KClO3), flammable materials (such as sulfur, etc.) and adhesives. The sides of the matchbox are mainly composed of red phosphorus, antimony trisulfide, and binder. When striking a match, the match head and the sides of the matchbox

Friction heat, the heat released decomposes KClO3, produces a small amount of oxygen, and makes the red phosphorus ignite, which causes flammable materials (such as sulfur) to burn on the match head, so that the match is struck.

The advantage of safety matches is that they separate red phosphorus from the oxidizing agent, which is not only safer, but also non-toxic to the chemicals used. So it is also called a safety match. The match head mainly contains potassium chlorate, manganese dioxide, sulfur and glass powder. The matchstick is coated with a small amount of paraffin. The friction layer on both sides of the matchbox is made of red phosphorus and glass powder. The main process of match ignition is as follows: (l) when the match head is struck on the matchbox, the heat generated makes the phosphorus burn, (2) the heat released by the phosphorus combustion decomposes the potassium chlorate, (3) the oxygen released by the potassium chlorate reacts with the sulfur, (4) the heat released by the reaction of sulfur and oxygen ignites the paraffin, and finally the match stick is ignited.

Since matches were only invented in the Northern and Southern periods, how did the ancestors make fires? Originally, the ancients used two wooden branches rubbing against each other to make fires, and then used flint and iron sheets, but it took a long time to make a fire, one or two minutes. The emergence of matches has made people's lives more convenient, and in modern times, lighters and electronic lighters have gradually replaced the status of traditional matches, but matches also have their unique side is irreplaceable, that is, the flame color it produces is the most beautiful.

Flint is flint, commonly known as "flint", mainly composed of cryptocrystalline quartz; Black, with a shell-like fracture after crushing, according to its state of existence, it is divided into two types: flint because of its hardness, after breaking to produce a sharp fracture, so it is the earliest favored by the primitive people of the Stone Age, most of the stone tools are made of flint strikes, flint and iron hitting will produce sparks, so it is also used as a fire tool for ancient people, ancient China often used a small piece of flint and a steel "fire sickle" to hit the fire, so flint is also called flint, flint gun is also the use of trigger to hit flint to trigger gunpowder. Modern times take advantage of the hard nature of flint and use flint as a raw material for grinding.

It is precisely because in ancient times it was very inconvenient to make a fire, so Dong Yong's father and director had to light the paper incense that needed to be burned.

Since the paper incense that needs to be burned has been lit, the next step is to continue to add paper incense to the burnt paper incense that needs to be burned.

Xiao Dongyong is also interested in continuing to add paper incense to the burned paper incense that has been lit.

So, little Dong Yong went to Dong Yong's father, the director, to grab the paper incense in the director's hand. Regarding Xiao Dongyong's actions, the directors are also more indulgent.

Therefore, the next step is that Xiao Dongyong and his father and director are together, you and me, and continue to add paper incense to the burned paper incense that has been lit and is actually on the fire.

Soon, all the paper incense that needs to be burned is put in.

At this time, Dong Yong's father, the director, stood up.

Continuing to add paper incense to the burned paper incense that has been lit is actually on the fire, and it is generally necessary to squat down, or at least bend over.

Although it is said that it is still necessary to bend down, it is not necessary to bow all the time.

Dong Yong's father, the director, hugged Xiao Dong Yong and bowed.

Next, Dong Yong's father, the director, took back the red paper with the little girl Zhang Na written on the altar in the ancestral hall of the ancient family where Dong Yong's mother Dong Gu was located.

Then, Dong Yong's father, the director, hugged little Dong Yong and bowed again.

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Xiao Dong Yong's ancestral etiquette this time is a great success