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China's inheritance of feudal tumor thinking is the main reason for the enrichment, commonly known as recruiting sons-in-law, is the man to the woman's house into the household, the child with the mother's surname. Originally, it was a matrilineal family marriage system, which was developed from ancient marriage customs such as wife's residence and military marriage. There are two main reasons for the continuation of the income: one is that the woman needs labor and needs to provide for the elderly; the other is that the man is poor and cannot afford to marry a wife, so he can only use his body as a hostage until the woman's family completes the marriage. During the Qin and Han dynasties, the form of enlistment had the nature of "serving as a son-in-law". After the Song Dynasty, the income became the nature of "son-in-law supplement" and "son-in-law pension", and the female family had no male heirs, so the son-in-law was recruited to continue the ancestry, supplement the labor, and support the old people of the female family. There are two forms of marriage: changing the wife's surname and not changing the surname.

Male marriage and female marriage and marriage are two different marriage models, but they have the same goal, and the result is that two people live together, and the common purpose is for the good of their children. However, there are still differences between the two, influenced by traditional perceptions and social values. To some extent, a man in a marriage may be under more pressure and effort than a man in a woman's marriage. Because, generally speaking, marriage is affected by some objective factors, there is asymmetry between the two families, and the marriage model adopted in order to achieve balance, so this is compared with the marriage model of male marriage and female marriage, there is a certain particularity, which requires the families of both parties to reach an understanding and overcome difficulties, and among them, the man who enters the marriage bears greater responsibility;

Even so, it does not mean that you will be admitted to the funeral, but you also need to hold the etiquette of entering the funeral.

This is how the initiation ceremony takes place.

In ancient times, on the day of entering the house, the female family prepared a four-person sedan chair, and used a pedestrian deacon to welcome the groom, commonly known as "raising the head of the lang". Or the day before pressed by the woman's house, staying in the new house, on the first day, the sedan chair is advocated, carrying the bride to the god side of the party, like the man's family to marry, to the door of the church. There are also brides who do not sit in a sedan chair, and men and women will worship in the church to get married, and the etiquette and ceremony will be simple.

Marriage ceremonies are usually simple and not extravagant. But there are also overseas Chinese or wealthy families, first let the rich man come to live in the house, and let the daughter go to the grandmother's house to live, to the auspicious period of marriage, there is still a sedan chair to the grandmother's house to greet the relatives, still bear the dowry and drum music accompaniment, the family still arranges the queue of the newlyweds, with a warm cannon to welcome the bride entry, according to the ancient practice to kick the sedan door, please out of the sedan chair, The newlyweds go to the hall to pay their respects, and the same drums and music shake the ground, feast relatives, friends and guests, and cover up the form of the rich with a lively scene, so that the man marries in a grand manner, and the daughter still sits in a sedan chair to "marry" as a bride.

The men who are rich are often selected by the daughters themselves, and in this respect, they are better than those marriages arranged by the girls who are kept in the dark and rely solely on the "orders of their parents" and "the words of the matchmaker".

It is not a name, it has different names.

It is also known as entering the house, which means entering the women's house and becoming a member of the women's house.

Chaoshan also has three names, one is called "Tian partial rib", partial rib, rib. A family without a man can be said to have no or less "partial ribs", and if a husband is recruited, "partial ribs" are added.

The other is called "boiling water". Folklore has it that after the death of a butcher in a certain place, his wife recruited a bachelor as her husband to take over the slaughtering work, but because the new husband was a layman to slaughter, the wife had to ask him to boil in the water, so it was called. Another said "boiling water" means to get married while it is hot, and then it is called "stacking wall guards". Borrowing the meaning of architectural nouns to overlap half-incomplete walls. The man in a family is like the wall of the house, and with a man, it is like the wall of the house is complete and secure.

In this way, Dong Yong's father director should be called an antique man, and Xiao Dong Yong's real name should be called Gu Yong?

However, Dong Yong's father director does not seem to have received the kind of treatment that in ancient times, the female family prepared a four-person sedan chair, and used pedestrian deacons to welcome the groom, commonly known as "raising the head of the lang".

After all, Dong Yong's father and directors used to stay in his uncle's house, so it can be said that the director actually had no home before. In addition, the director's uncle and uncle's house are also very close to Dong Yong's mother, Dong Gu's house, and it only takes a minute or two to run forward. It is estimated that if the directors are really allowed to get the kind of treatment that in ancient times, the four-seater sedan chair was prepared by the woman's family, and the pedestrian deacon, the groom was specially welcomed, and the treatment commonly known as "raising the head of the lang" would have to be found in other ways.

It's just that most of the people in ancient times were honest people.

If it is changed to modern times, it is easy for Dong Yong's father and director to get the kind of treatment that in ancient times, the female family prepared a four-person sedan chair, and used pedestrian deacons to welcome the groom, commonly known as "raising the head of the lang".

For what?

In order to achieve the purpose of charging a few more yuan for the fare, some taxis drive with passengers to run around, anyway, passengers generally do not know how far the road from A to B is, the result?

Sometimes, it is only a distance of one or two streets from A to B, but some taxi drivers drive with passengers to run around with their passengers in order to achieve the purpose of charging a few more yuan for the fare, and as a result, they run out of a distance of dozens of kilometers.

In this way, passengers will be waiting for "heavy bleeding" ["heavy bleeding" originally means a phenomenon of massive bleeding caused by rupture of an artery or damage to internal organs. However, in the Cantonese dialect of China, it is often used as a metaphor for spending a lot of money on something. It can also be explained as a big price reduction, and there is no return. Some taxi drivers are making a lot of money. However, this kind of behavior is not encouraged because it is illegal. There is a saying in my country that "if you walk too much at night, you will meet ghosts". "If you walk too much at night, you will encounter ghosts" means that if you do something bad, you will inevitably be discovered. An idiom with a similar meaning to the saying "If you walk too much at night, you will encounter ghosts" is called "East Window Incident".

"East Window Incident" is an idiom allusion.

Qin Hui wanted to kill Yue Fei and discussed with his wife Wang in the east window. "It's easy to catch a tiger, but it's even harder to catch it again after letting it go," Wang said. So Qin Hui decided to kill Yue Fei. Later, Qin Hui was playing in the West Lake, and suddenly fell ill in the boat, and saw a man with long hair in the middle of the illness and said loudly: "You harm the country and the people, I have told the heavens, and the heavens will send someone to arrest you." "After Qin Hui returned home, he died soon after. A few days after Qin Hui died, his son Qin Xi also died. Wang set up a god case, asked the Taoist priest to exorcise ghosts, there was a monk lying on the flower case, in the fog saw Qin Xi wearing an iron flail, so he asked: "Where is the Taishi?" Qin Xi replied: "In Yandu." Fang Tu went to Yandu according to what Qin Xi said, but saw that Qin Hui and Wan Qiaoyu were wearing iron flail and suffered a lot of various tortures. Qin Hui said: "Please send a message to my wife, the matter of Dongchuang's conspiracy to kill Yue Fei has been exposed." ”

Legend has it that Qin Hui, a traitor in the Southern Song Dynasty, and his wife murdered Yue Fei, a famous anti-Jin general, under the east window, and the king of Jizo (god) turned into a walker to testify to the world that the East Window Incident had been committed, and Qin Hui died soon after (see Yuan Kong Wenqing's "Miscellaneous Drama of the East Window Incident of the King of Jizo"). Mingtian Rucheng's "West Lake Excursion Zhiyu" volume 4 said that soon after Qin Hui's death, his son Qin Xi also died, and his wife Wang invited a Taoist priest to spend the dead for his son, and the Taoist priest came to the underworld and saw Qin Hui who was being interrogated under the leadership of Qin Xi. Qin Hui said to the Taoist priest with a gloomy expression: "It's annoying to pass on to Madame, the East Window Incident happened!" Later, the "East Window Incident" was used to refer to the crime, and the conspiracy was revealed. It is also said that the east window is a criminal.

Hinoki wanted to kill Yue Feiye, and conspired with his wife Wang under the east window. Wang said: "It is easy to capture the tiger, but it is difficult to set the tiger!" After the cypress swims in the West Lake, the boat gets sick, and sees a person who is dressed in a fierce voice and says: "You have mistaken the country and harmed the people, I have sued the sky, I have to ask for it" juniper returned, and there was no way to die. Before long, Zixi also died. Wang didn't dip, Fang Shi Fuzhang, saw the iron flail, and asked: "Where is the Taishi?" Fang Shi went as he said, and saw that the juniper and Wan Qi were both loaded with iron shackles, and suffered a lot. Hui said: "It's annoying to pass on Mrs., the east window incident happened."

Look, the stories in the great gods of ancient times can become the source of idioms.

Therefore, come on the brothers and sisters who write, in the future, there will be idioms from the works of so-and-so brothers and sisters, and it will be easy to become a great god. "The revolution has not yet succeeded, comrades still need to work hard"!

Let's see, if it is changed to modern times, let Dong Yong's father and director get the kind of treatment, on the day of entering the house in ancient times, the four-person sedan chair prepared by the female family, and the pedestrian deacon, specially welcomed the groom, commonly known as "raising the head of the lang", is it a simple thing?