"We're also ...... for your good"

Xiao Yuchen has heard these words since he was a child.

When he was a child, he didn't understand, and he didn't understand why those words "good for him" made him so uncomfortable.

Even made him so angry.

Now he is a "father of children", he is a husband and a father.

He finally understood that the so-called "for your good" is often because of the fear and anxiety in those people's own hearts, which cannot be resolved.

So if you want to reach out to others, grab others, and control others, you can get them back a little bit of a false sense of security.

For example, right now, is the Empress Dowager really good for him?

It's just that she was afraid that he would leave the palace, and she was afraid that Wen Jin's ambition would prompt her to usurp power and seize the throne, and she confirmed the rumors of "Si Chen".

After all, on the answer sheet of the autumn exam, there are already many students who have used wonderful writing and unparalleled logic to turn this word into a false proposition.

The Empress Dowager was worried that Wen Jin had different intentions.

She was terrified, so she wanted to control his behavior.

So what's really good for him?

is knowing that he has made up his mind to drive the expedition in person.

He does not speak discouragement, does not judge whether his decisions are wise or not, and does not judge the rights and wrongs of things that have not happened.

Just think with him about what are the difficulties that you might face.

How to best prepare.

Just like Wen Jin, she is good at medical skills, so she studied for him how to save the lives of wounded soldiers to the greatest extent and how to provide logistical medical care.

She had a nimble mind and thought about how to ensure that the soldiers were well fed and could survive in difficult conditions.

She even thought of a more long-term ...... A food workshop was set up for the military......

Don't hit him, don't stop him with fear, don't kidnap him with affection.

It's about supporting him, believing in him, and helping him......

This is true, stand in his position, for his good!

Xiao Yuchen took a deep breath and looked at his grandmother and his mother.

His heart was once again warmed by Wen Jin.

If you have a wife like this, what more can a husband ask for!

"I still have important matters, what my grandmother said, I will consider it carefully, thank you grandmother for admonishing me." Xiao Yuchen suddenly got up.

The Empress Dowager opened her mouth, "Then the emperor ......"

Xiao Yuchen smiled, "You don't joke, I am above the court, and I said in front of the civil and military officials that I want to drive the expedition in person, one is to boost morale, and the other is to lock in the victory."

"If I go back on my word, won't it push the girder into a situation from which he will never recover?

"As the king of a country, I am so wrong that I can't make it!"

Xiao Yuchen smiled and turned to leave.

"Whew! After talking for a long time, I looked like I listened to it, but I didn't hear a word! ”

The Empress Dowager patted the Quartet in annoyance.

"Mother, don't ......be angry," the Empress Dowager advised.

"Didn't you agree to persuade the mourning family together? Why is it like a gourd with a sawed mouth just now, and it doesn't say a word? ”

The Empress Dowager has grievances, and the Empress Dowager Shu is a ready-made punching bag.

"Chen'er's temper, don't you know it? The more he persuaded, the more stubborn he became, and he couldn't pull ten cows. The Empress Dowager smiled, but she thought very openly.

The Empress Dowager sighed again......

"Don't worry too much about the queen mother, Yu'er has been watched by you for the past few years, this child is smart and not at the mercy of others."

The Empress Dowager's sentence can be regarded as persuading the Empress Dowager's heart.

She nodded, and the anxious look on her face eased a lot.

"Ask someone to send a letter to the East Palace, and invite the prince to Ruixiang Palace for dinner."

……

The big war is imminent.

Even if it was to go on a personal expedition, not too much time was wasted in the preparation stage.

Since Xiao Yuchen gave the order, it took less than half a month to reorganize the army and set off.

When the emperor personally led the forbidden army out of the city, thousands of people were empty and worshipped.

The people learned that their noble Emperor, His Majesty, had decided to leave the Imperial City and this rich and comfortable nest in order to boost morale, to win a great victory, and to protect the prosperity and peace of the Great Liang.

Instead, he had to drive his own expedition and travel thousands of miles to meet the enemy.

They reacted differently from officials.

No one shouted, no one organized, but they all knelt down when Xiao Yuchen's horse guards just passed in front of them.

They shouted "Long live, long live, long live" in their mouths, and shouted, "May my Majesty triumph as soon as possible-"

There are even more people with shallow tear sockets, who are moved to tears.

Not to mention the emperor, even those who have lived in the privileged Kyoto for a long time do not want to leave the bustling capital.

How much determination and perseverance does the emperor have to leave his dragon chair and go to war?

Comparing their hearts to their hearts, they revere His Majesty the Emperor, who is now rumored to be "afraid of his wife".

Who said that their emperor did not have "manhood"?

True masculinity should be, in front of his wife and children, gentle as water.

When a strong enemy comes to attack, be resolute and fearless!

They hope from the bottom of their hearts that His Majesty the Emperor will have a smooth sail and return safely as soon as possible.

It's not just because he won the world.

All the more because they loved him and revered him.

Xiao Yuchen rode the "Red Rabbit Horse" and passed in front of his people with his head held high.

This wasn't his usual mount. This is Yu'er's most beloved horse.

Yu'er has been staring at him silently since she knew that he was going to take the royal conquest.

He thought that Yu'er was reluctant to let him go.

He went to ask. Yu'er just shook her head, "When I grow up, I will also want to be a man like my father!" ”

Xiao Yuchen thought that his son would blame him, leaving their mother and son and young Yue'er behind, and went to the frontier to fight.

Unexpectedly, Yu'er's eyes were full of admiration and love.

He was immediately moved and hugged his son tightly in his arms.

"The queen mother said, I am still too young, my sister has not grown up, and my father is not in Kyoto, so I will shoulder the responsibility of the head of the family and the king of a country.

"That's why I can't follow my father to the frontier yet. But the son's wish is to be with his father.

"Erchen's favorite mount, the Red Rabbit Horse, is given to his father, and I hope he and Erchen's heart will be together with his father to fight and triumph!"

Xiao Yuchen's heart is warm, and his wife and children are like this, which is the greatest satisfaction in his life.

"Drive-"

He drove his horse forward and looked back at the high gatehouse.

His wife, his sons, and his little daughter, who was not yet a year old, stood on the high gate tower and looked at him.

Far away, he couldn't make out their expressions, but he could seem to feel their burning and concerned gazes.

That's really good for him.

He was also genuinely willing to give them everything he had, including his life.

Xiao Yuchen raised his hand and waved it at the city gate.

He saw it!

He saw Wen Jin hugging Yue'er, she waved at him, and she also held Yue'er's hand and waved at him.

He saw it, but he couldn't see it clearly.

Xiao Yuchen quickly turned his face and took a deep breath.

He held his breath, suppressing the urge to heat up in his eyes.

"Jin'er, wait for me!"

Xiao Yuchen said silently in his heart, "I will definitely return as soon as possible and victorious!" ”

When parting, they are reluctant to give up.

met again, but it came quickly, and it was very unexpected......