Chapter 402: Dislike My Family.
No.
Sister.
You said you plan to get married in the future?
Ruan Jiaojiao pursed her lips and raised her eyebrows, it is not strange to think about it, but Zhang Meihua wrote all the confusion, surprise, astonishment, and incomprehension on her face, and her big watery eyes were full of question marks.
Compared with Zhang Meihua's non-enlightenment, as soon as she opened her mind, Bai Shuning's emotional experience was more bumpy.
Bai Shuning's father and maternal parents are urging marriage very tightly, at the moment, Bai Shuning is not young, she is three years older than Ruan Jiaojiao, one year older than Zhang Meihua, and she is already 26 years old.
Ruan Jiaojiao bumped into Bai Shuning accompanying her cousin on a blind date, and that cousin is now the mother of two children.
Bai Shuning's family was worried that she was too lonely, and they could rest assured that they had their own and a beautiful family.
Mayor Bai is the same, he thinks that the girl's family will always have to start a family when she is older, so she chooses early and has more choices.
In this regard, he did not expect the second wife at home to be like an ornament, so he could only find someone to collect information about young people of school age by himself.
Of course, he selected all promising young people in Shanghai, and hoped that Bai Shuning would end up living in Shanghai under his own protection. The estrangement between father and daughter, when the daughter becomes a parent, can always understand his original mood.
Of course, Bai Shuning couldn't understand her father's father's love, and since she made the decision to retake the college entrance examination, her future can only be decided by herself.
It's not that the object is nowhere to go, but she hasn't reached the step of talking about marriage, and she doesn't plan to talk about it with her family.
Bai Shuning talked about a total of two terms, the first Ruan Jiaojiao and Zhang Meihua have met, and they are Qing University students who met in the sorority.
He and Bai Shuning have a lot of common language, and the atmosphere when they get along is not sweet, but it is also very harmonious.
Originally, the two planned to get married when Bai Shuning graduated, but this high-achieving student was lucky to be sent to study abroad, and the two finally parted ways.
Ruan Jiaojiao felt that the two must like each other, but they couldn't talk about love.
Bai Shuning couldn't wait for him for several years, and that high-achieving student couldn't open his mouth to let Bai Shuning wait for him, or the two of them had a foreign relationship, which was very irresponsible.
The first relationship was separated so peacefully, and after Ruan Jiaojiao knew about it, she also flew back to Beijing to accompany Bai Shuning for two days.
The second relationship is the one just mentioned, the man is Bai Shuning's junior brother, a native of Beijing, but when she and Ruan Jiaojiao and her party got together, they never brought this object, and they rarely even mentioned it.
Bai Shuning seems to be in a very swinging state in this relationship, saying that he doesn't like it, but he hasn't separated, if he wants to say he likes it, he doesn't seem to want to introduce him to his friends.
When Ruan Jiaojiao asked by chance, she knew that the boy was also in such a state, and he had never introduced Bai Shuning to his friends, and the two got along so much.
It's outrageous, it's an incredible relationship.
"Actually, there's nothing that can't be said...... Bai Shuning thought about it, and when he saw Zhang Meihua's eyes that lit up instantly, he laughed helplessly.
"When I first got along with him, it was also because I felt that there was a common language, and then his personality... Well... It's just easier to control. My grandfather was sick and hospitalized, and when I went back to see him several times, I would always mention the marriage. The old man also wanted to see me get married, so I thought about getting married, anyway, if I was unhappy in my married life, I could leave ......."
"I went home with him, and his parents disliked my family, and then the matter was blown up. As for me, I'm not sad, and I feel relieved. ”
Bai Shuning said a few words lightly, and it seemed to be quite relaxed, but in fact, what happened that day was really suffocating.
There are not only seven aunts and eight aunts in the man's house, but also many neighbors have come to the door, and the home is not very spacious, and it is almost crowded with no place to stay.
Knowing that Bai Shuning was a few years older than his own child and had been admitted to graduate school, the room exploded.
Everyone talked about going to work and having children, trying to persuade Bai Shuning not to continue going to school, and there was a childhood sweetheart's sister who was weird about Bai Shuning's age.
Bai Shuning's hukou in the city of Shanghai made the man's parents feel more comfortable, and they felt that she was barely "right", but when she learned that her family was a single-parent family, her face suddenly became ugly again.
"No, what kind of family is this man? I actually dislike your family?! Zhang Meihua was so shocked that she couldn't eat, staring and opening her mouth to wait for Bai Shuning to continue.
Not to mention Zhang Meihua, Ruan Jiaojiao and Ji Huai'an were also surprised, and even the Dongdong housekeeper and nanny in the corner of the restaurant pricked up their ears to listen.
Everyone knows a little bit about the family history of their young lady, two good friends who often come and go.
One father is the head of the Shanghai Military Region, and his relatives are very popular, and the other father is the mayor of Shanghai, and he is also a top existence.
I can't look at this, what else do you want to see?
Is their young lady?
"His dad seems to be a worker in a plastic factory, I don't know what the. Anyway, the family lives in the compound, plus his brother and sister of five, there are two rooms in the compound. ”
Bai Shuning thought for a moment and pointed in the direction of the inverted seat house in the courtyard, "It adds up to about the size of your family's three inverted seats." ”
"There were too many people that day, so I said that my father was an ordinary person, my mother died, and eating and drinking at home was not a problem, and I didn't mention that I was the only child in our family, anyway, they were just not happy, and the words were not very good."
"It's good to disperse early if it's not suitable, so as not to be confused later."
From Bai Shuning's previous talk about this object, Ruan Jiaojiao realized that the person should be a somewhat indecisive and unassertive person.
Hearing Bai Shuning mention that she wanted to get married, she still felt a little strange.
It's just that the relationship is a thing, whether it is suitable or not, it is up to you to decide, no matter how good the relationship is, Ruan Jiaojiao will not interfere, anyway, no matter what the final result is, Bai Shuning has her best friend to rely on.
"That's true, but this family is really ...... So don't you have the eyesight to see? The clothes we wear and the watches we wear...... It's their turn to look down on them, sneer......"
Zhang Meihua rolled her eyes, sneered, and then frowned and asked, "What about the gay man?" His family is like that, he didn't say anything? ”
"It doesn't matter what you say, I don't have much contact with it in the future. Besides, marriage is not a matter of two people, it is a matter of two families. If he has something to do, it doesn't matter if he can withstand the pressure in case of trouble, if he even lives in a mess, then getting married is really a disaster. ”
Jiaojiao is right. I used to see that he listened to me for everything, so he was so good. Now it seems that not only listen to me, but also listen to my parents, once they are right, they will do nothing but pretend to be deaf and dumb. In short, there will be no intersection in the future, so don't mention it. He doesn't dare, and he won't come to me again. ”