Chapter 381: The Days to Come
This night, the family home is not destined to be peaceful, and there is constant movement of beating children.
Lin Xia's house is very lively, the three families get together, and the room of children is even more lively.
Lin Xia set up a small table at home for the children to sit, and the children were more free without adults around them.
In this regard, Dajun Xiaojun felt that Aunt Lin was really good, and it was another day when he wanted to be Aunt Lin's son.
It's no wonder that the two envy Lele, the boy who has gone to junior high school is in the period of youth rebellion, and he doesn't like to listen to his mother's daily nagging.
It seems to be cooler every day, but every time Yang Hongmei sees it, she is even more angry.
So the more strict the control, the more rebellious the child became.
Because it's not surprising that he will envy Lele, after all, Lin Xia is not at home, Lu Yuxiu has to be busy with the camp every day, and he will only go home at night.
Such an indulgence of a day when no one cares about it will not make the big army and the small army very envious.
At the adult table, Han Wei threw a few dumplings into her son's bowl and asked him to eat them by himself.
Then she pulled Lin Xia and asked what was fun about going to college, she was about to go crazy with her children while going to work, and now she desperately wants to be liberated.
I wrote a letter and learned that He Xiao was also studying in college, and after the child was handed over to the elders, I couldn't help but feel even more envious, and I was thinking about whether to try the university entrance examination too.
"We wake up at 6 a.m. every morning and when we get to the classroom, it's almost full, and most of us don't come back until the dorm closes every night." Lin Xia knew Han Wei's thoughts, and she couldn't give any advice, so she could only describe the daily life in school truthfully.
There are many people who are romantic in school, but most of them are studying hard.
As soon as Han Wei heard Lin Xia's story, her fantasy of beautiful and romantic college life was suddenly punctured.
"Ahh
Yang Hongmei frowned slightly when she heard this, looked at Lin Xia and sighed: "No wonder you lost so much weight when you came back this time." ”
Lu Yuxiu silently took a piece of meat and put it into Lin Xia's bowl, reminding her not to patronize and talk.
The topic changed from school to something else.
At the end of the meal, Lin Xia took out the gifts he bought for the two of them, one shirt for each person, and the medium-sized ones he bought were not afraid of being small, they were all picked from the clothing store owner, because it was the first time he saw someone buy so much, the boss was still a little surprised.
Buying gifts is only one aspect, Lin Xia is still thinking about having an acquaintance in the future.
Yang Hongmei and Han Wei didn't expect Lin Xia to bring them gifts, which were styles that were not available in the county, and the two happily compared.
"It's too much money! How embarrassing is that. Yang Hongmei said with a smile on her face.
"Give it back to me." Lin Xia jokingly stretched out his hand.
Yang Hongmei smiled and dodged, "That's what I said." ”
Later, Lin Xia asked Lele to give the gift she brought back to the army, and she didn't forget Han Wei's son.
Throughout the summer vacation, Lin Xia would occasionally take the children for a walk with Lu Yuxiu after dinner, or go shopping at a department store with the whole family while Lu Yuxiu was resting.
An An entered puberty, her body began to change, and it was not a few years since Ning Ning was counted, Lin Xia began to give the two of them popular science knowledge of sexes, teaching children to learn to protect themselves, and not to feel inferior or ashamed because of normal physiological phenomena.
But most of the time Lin Xia stayed at home to read and study, there was no way, thinking of the books that his classmates brought home during the holidays, how could Lin Xia not have a sense of urgency.
Even the learning atmosphere with the children has become stronger, and even Lele's habit of not being able to sit still has changed a lot, and he will only go out to play after learning to do his summer homework.
Yang Hongmei came twice and saw Lin Xia reading and studying, and suddenly felt a little awkward.
She worries about trivial matters at home every day, and even the children are a lot more difficult to manage, on the other hand, Lin Xia goes to study, the children are still the same obedient, and the man is also very responsible.
In the past, the two of them did similar things every day, either taking care of the children or doing some household work, but now she is close to the sisters-in-law in the family yard, and every day she talks about trivial things like goosebumps, but Lin Xia seems to be getting younger and younger, this gap makes Yang Hongmei feel flustered.
The two went to the vegetable market hand in hand, chatting on the way there. Yang Hongmei asked distressedly: "Do you think it's better for me to find something to do?" ”
Lin Xia was a little surprised that Yang Hongmei would talk about this, maybe she would support many of the children's ideas, and the children at home also loved to talk to her.
Two days ago, I happened to hear Lele talk about the troubles of the army and the army, and she wanted to say something, but suddenly mentioning this matter inevitably had a bit of an educational taste.
Now that Yang Hongmei has mentioned it herself, Lin Xia nodded approvingly, and said with an encouraging smile: "It just so happens that the children are all older, you don't need to watch it at any time, you can also find something you like to do." ”
"Speaking of children, when I was naughty when I was a child, I thought I could be obedient when I grew up, but it turned out to be even more difficult to discipline." Speaking of the rebel son in the family, Yang Hongmei has endless anger.
Lin Xia listened quietly on the side, this is a typical parent who still treats their children as when they are children, thinking that children don't understand anything, adults do everything for their good, and want them to listen to their parents for everything.
"I don't know how to pack my schoolbag every day, the room is always messy, and I blame me for entering their room when I clean them well, and I'm afraid ......that I'm going to go in the kennel-like room."
Lin Xia had never heard of such a thing in her previous life, and Lin Xia had only one thought in her heart after hearing it, that is, she should not be such a parent in the future.
Everything seems to be done for your good, but in the eyes of adolescent children, it is the opposite.
Lin Xia: "When boys grow up, they are not children who will stick to their parents when they are young, but they have to respect their privacy." ”
Seeing that Yang Hongmei listened, Lin Xia continued: "When the children grow up, they all have to fly away, and the last person to be with you is Brother Wu, you might as well think about what kind of life you want to live in the future." ”
"The days to come?" Yang Hongmei was at a loss for a moment, she also planned to get married and have children in the future and bring children to them.
Lin Xia knew what she was thinking at a glance, "I have thought about the future, when Lao Lu retires, I will travel with him all over the country, take a good look at our great rivers and mountains, and taste all kinds of delicious food." ”
"As for taking grandchildren, bring them when they are busy, and let them do their own work when they are older." Lin Xia thinks about the future life and feels very beautiful, so she has to work hard to make money so that she can achieve a better old life in the future.
When Yang Hongmei heard Lin Xia's thoughts, her whole person seemed to be shocked, and the whole person was stunned.
In her cognition, she didn't want to live that kind of life at all.