1468 Interpersonal Communication?
Li Chun is only a teenager, his family was poor when he was a child, he couldn't eat enough, his body was emaciated, and he looked a little younger than his actual age.
But Li Chun was clever and won the trust of Wen Jinhe for the first time.
The subordinates are accustomed to seeing the wind and the rudder, and they even call it "Steward Li".
At first, Li Chun was called like this, and he was still red-faced and ashamed.
But since he saw that he had been treated respectfully for the first time, instead of being ashamed in the slightest, it was natural, as if it should have been!
Li Chun immediately straightened his back and secretly admonished himself.
"Can't disgrace Madame! I am the person brought by my wife, and they respect me, that is, they respect my wife! If I can't stand up, I won't even have face with my wife! ”
Since then, he no longer refuses the title of "Steward Li", and he has also learned the temperament and demeanor of the first time, which is more and more natural and more and more like that.
Li Chun took the invitation from the porter, "So many?" These invitations, the lady never goes, why are they still so persistent? ”
"I can't go!" Mu Yun stepped forward from the side and pulled Li Chun aside.
Li Chun looked at him vigilantly, "Steward Mu is a person from the East Courtyard, do you even have to take care of the affairs of our West Courtyard?" ”
"Xiaochun, don't get me wrong, don't be so hostile to me," Mu Yun said with a smile, "Just based on the master's attitude towards Madame, I still don't know my position?" ”
"Even Her Royal Highness the eldest princess offended Madame, so she had to bow her head...... Of course, those of us who are subordinates are looking forward to the good of our wife! Hello madam, let's be good! ”
Li Chun nodded, but he still did not reduce his vigilance, "What does Steward Mu want to say?" ”
"Madame is not from the capital, maybe she doesn't know, in the capital, this interpersonal communication is very important!" Mu Yun said earnestly, "She is in the house every day, and she doesn't go out of the four doors, and she only knows how to embroider ......the hijab."
"Although embroidering the hijab is important, embroidering the hijab is to please the national teacher...... But what about after the big wedding? Are you still going around the lord alone? Don't have your own circle? Don't have a few lady friends? ”
"Now, when Mrs. is in the hot spot, she doesn't give everyone face, and she shouldn't give everyone's invitations...... Later, when the heat had passed, the lady wanted to make friends with other noblewomen...... Don't people hold grudges? ”
"People have a hot face and a cold butt, will they keep sticking it?"
When Li Chun heard this, he couldn't help but nod slightly, the more he thought about it, the more he felt that what Mu Yun said was really reasonable!
"Thank you for the reminder, I'm from a small place, and I'm young, so I can't think of so much. In the future, please ask for more advice from the steward! ”
Mu Yun smiled slightly, and bowed his hand politely, "It's all for the master, you are young, and you have the trust of the master, let's mention each other!" ”
"Besides, listen to what the next person has to say...... This will not only affect the evaluation of the ladies of Kyoto, but also the opinion of their own families! ”
After Mu Yun reminded him, Xiao Chun really went to listen secretly.
He really heard a lot of things that people would never say in front of him—
"I came from a small place, and I didn't understand the importance of interpersonal communication...... It will only curry favor with the national teacher......"
"How can a man have a long sex? This kind of flattery, useful for a while, will be tired after a long time! You'll see when the time comes! Room after room of concubines to the house! ”
"She doesn't have a deep-rooted mother's family! Don't take this opportunity to gain a foothold in Kyoto! Just wait for the coloring to fade and love late! ”
"When the time comes, even if the position of the lady can be kept, I will say it!"
……
That's just a sentence or two.
There are so many people who talk about it, Koharu is shocked when he listens to it.
He hurriedly ran to the main courtyard, "I saw my sister for the first time, and the little one wants to see my wife!" The little one has something important to ask to see the lady! ”
Koharu was stopped outside the porch by a mighty and domineering snow mastiff.
Glancing at the snow mastiff's domineering eyes, Koharu only felt her legs and stomach tremble.
But he still mustered up his courage and shouted by the neck pull.
"Shhhh
At first sight, he patted Koharu's shoulder from behind.
"Whew!" Koharu was startled, "When did you get behind me?" ”
"What do you want to see my sister?" Hatsumi hugged his shoulders and asked without answering.
Koharu glanced left and right, and said in a low voice, "Madame is still embroidering hijabs inside?" Did you embroider the mandarin duck pattern you asked me to find last time? ”
When I first saw it, my eyes flashed, "That mandarin duck is so complicated, the coat color is fancy, how can it be so easy to embroider?" I haven't embroidered it yet, but it's going to be fast! What's wrong? Who told you to inquire? ”
Koharu hurriedly shook his head, "No...... Lo and behold, so many posts ......"
"It's all refused, Sister Ah doesn't get together with them, I don't know each other, and I don't have anything to say! Zhang's family is short, Sister A is not interested! ”
At first sight, he said disdainfully, "It's not to show off your husband, or to show off your son, such a party doesn't have to lower my sister's identity!" ”
Xiaochun looked bitter and hateful, "No, it's the first time I saw my sister...... I've heard people all over the prefecture say that in Kyoto, human interaction is very important! Especially the ladies, there are a few handkerchiefs, which is even more crucial! ”
"Zhang's family is short, not all gossip, it may also be the direction of the wind in the court! And there's more...... Our lady, if you don't have a deep-rooted maiden power, you need a handkerchief to stabilize your position! ”
"Hahaha......" Hahaha was amused by him at first sight, and reached out and knocked on his skull, "Koharu, your head is half water and half noodles, right?" ”
"Huh?" Koharu looked at Hatsumi suspiciously, "What do you mean?" ”
"It's okay not to move, but if you move, it's all a pulp!" Hatsumi hugged his shoulders and shook his head disdainfully.
Koharu was so anxious that she stomped her feet, "Sister! Really! Don't you listen to it......"
Hatsumi sighed helplessly, "Then let me ask you, what is interpersonal communication?" Drinking tea together, chatting for a while, and getting acquainted, is it called interpersonal communication? ”
Hearing this, Koharu scratched his head suspiciously, "Uh......"
"Then you have talked to many people in the house, if they betray their masters, or do great rebellious things, will you help them intercede?"
"That certainly can't be!"
"But what if he saved your life?"
"Ah...... Koharu scratched his head in embarrassment, "it should, maybe...... Would it? ”
Hatsumi hummed, "So, real interpersonal communication is an exchange!" If you are useful or gracious to others, they will lend a helping hand when you need them! It's not gossip together, it's just interpersonal communication! ”
Seeing that Xiaochun still didn't understand, Chujian sighed, "Seeing that you are still young, my sister will say a few more words!" ”
Hatsumi pointed to the pile of invitations, "Why did they invite my sister?" Even if my sister refuses every day, they still send invitations every day? ”
Koharu hesitated, "Because...... Because the national teacher values his wife, he even does not hesitate to turn his face with the eldest princess and the emperor for the sake of his wife? ”
Hatsumi smiled, "It's not too stupid, they think that my sister has an equivalent exchange with them now, and even allows them to exchange cheap chips!" Once my sister has no more chips in her hand, even if my sister accepts their invitation now, but when the time comes, even if my sister takes the initiative to invite, do you think they will avoid it? ”
Koharu's brows furrowed tightly, "That'...... So what should I do? ”