Several eldest brothers and husbands were not there, and Lu Songli consciously took on the responsibility of parents.

Lu Songli said hello to her fourth sister-in-law, Su Shi, before she began to deal with this matter.

The reason for the incident was very simple, the third brother Qin Zhao asked people to send back a few toys, and her mother-in-law casually distributed them to the three daughters-in-law and asked them to share them among the children.

Her fourth sister-in-law took two toys, and after the child got out of school, she casually gave the big one to Qin Tang and the small one to Qin Bin.

When it was divided, Qin Bin wanted the big one, but her fourth sister-in-law refused on the grounds that he was the elder brother and wanted to let the younger brother.

Later, the children got together to play, and it didn't take long for the brothers to fight.

Her fourth sister-in-law was very angry, and after pulling the two apart, she taught the older Qin Bin a lesson, saying that he was ignorant or something.

Qin Bin couldn't help but talk back, saying that she was eccentric, which made her cry so angry.

At this time, Qin Jia came to her and secretly said to her, "Sixth aunt, don't scold the fourth cousin, in fact, outside, the fourth cousin is very protective of the seventh cousin." It's just that every time the seventh cousin is injured, the fourth aunt will always count the fourth cousin, saying that he didn't protect the seventh cousin well. ”

"Okay, Aunt Six knows. Go back to your room. ”

Lu Songli thought about it and knocked on Qin Bin's door first.

Now the Qin family occupies a total of three rows of bungalows, and the children also have their own rooms.

A childish but vigilant voice came from inside, "Who?" ”

Lu Songli is funny, this kid is quite vigilant, "Your sixth aunt." ”

There was silence in the room.

She's not in a hurry.

After a while, there was a sound of Suo Suo in the room, and soon the door was slowly opened, and a small head poked out.

Qin Bin was very relieved to see that his sixth aunt was really alone outside.

"Aunt Six, come in."

Lu Songli noticed that his eyes were red.

After Qin Bin returned to the house, he sat on a chair and read a book.

After Lu Songli picked a seat and sat down, she beckoned to him, "Come, talk to Aunt Six." ”

"Aunt Six, I haven't finished the book that the master asked me to memorize."

"Alright, I'm not here to scold you, you don't need to be so guarded against me. By the way, did Aunt Six scold you? ”

Qin Bin thought about it and shook his head, Aunt Six really didn't scold anyone.

So, Qin Bin walked over slowly.

"Did you get into a fight with your brother today?"

"Hmm." Qin Bin replied in a low voice, with a look of obvious resistance on his face.

Lu Songli asked him, "Did you win?" Or lost? After the fight, are you happy? ”

Qin Bin lowered his head, in fact, after the fight, his heart was sullen all the time.

"I think you're stupid to do."

Qin Bin was stunned, the sixth aunt said that he was stupid, didn't she say that he was wrong?

"You are older than Qin Tang, and if you win, that is called victory without martial arts, and if you lose, I ask you if you are ashamed?"

Lu Songli did not talk about him from the side of right or wrong, but considered the problem from his point of view. Qin Bin's guard was taken off at once, and he thought seriously about her words, as if this was really the case?

"My brother is so annoying. He knew that I liked the moving wooden horse, and he kept beating it, and he didn't cherish it at all. He said a few words to him, and then his younger brother was angry with him, so he directly threw the wooden horse to the ground, and he couldn't stand it so he hit his younger brother.

"What is the purpose of your fight?"

Qin Bin squirmed.

Lu Songli understood, but she felt that his mother was partial, and she was better than him for her younger brother.

"After this fight, do you get what you want?"

Qin Binxin said, no.

"After the beating, you still said something that made you cry in a mother's anger. Won't you be sad to know that your mother is sad? ”

Qin Bin: He would.

"So, let's say these angry words, in addition to hurting others and hurting ourselves, we haven't achieved our goal, right?"

Qin Bin nodded, then he hesitated for a moment, and humbly asked, "That sixth aunt, what should I do?" ”

"It's good that you have the attitude and the way you do it now. As children, it is normal for you to crave the attention, affirmation and love of your parents and elders. ”

"Between relatives, if we have any requirements, we can say them directly, or use some methods to achieve our goals tactfully. If you have a way, use your way. If you can't help it, play straight as a weakling. "As the saying goes, sincerity is always nirvana, and crying children have milk to eat.

"Aunt Six, what do you mean by playing a straight ball?"

"It is to express your feelings directly, such as today's events, you can directly tell your mother that you like the moving wooden horse very much, if you can, ask her to give it to you. Or discuss with your brother what to exchange for him, instead of saying nothing and holding your heart to it. ”

"What's more, you took your younger brother out to play, and then he was injured, and the sixth aunt also knew about the fact that you were counted by your mother. I'll talk to your mother later. Aunt Six knows that your brother is injured, and you have done your best. Aunt Six knows that it is not your obligation to take care of your younger brother, you are willing to take care of your younger brother, that is your responsibility as an elder brother, and you have done a great job. ”

Qin Bin cried and nodded, indicating that he understood.

Qin Bin cried for a while, crying out all the grievances and sadness in his heart.

Lu Songli was quietly on the side, occasionally handing him a handkerchief.

Lu Songli didn't accuse the child as soon as he came up, saying that he was wrong and that was wrong, and then made his mother sad or something. Everything has a cause and effect, and it may be the actions of adults who inadvertently hurt children.

It's the first time to be a human being, it's all flesh and blood, it will hurt if it's hurt, and it's really not like a parent, you really don't want to be superior to others, and you are completely above your children.

When Qin Bin stopped his tears, the whole person became very embarrassed.

Lu Songli knew that his side was settled, and she also made a request to him, "Promise Aunt Six, when you are angry, try not to say bad words, Aunt Six is not afraid that your words will hurt others, but that you will regret it when you calm down." ”

They have all been children, but in fact, because the body is growing, the hormones in the body have been not so balanced, and the control of emotions has been high and low. But Lu Songli still hopes that he can control it as much as possible.

"Okay." Qin Bin agreed.

Lu Songli knew that this kid made a promise, and once he agreed, he would try his best to do it, "Then let's talk about this?" ”

"Well, Aunt Six, are you tired? Let's go back and rest. ”

"The sixth aunt is leaving, don't forget to endorse it."

Qin Bin: ...... That's just his excuse.

After Lu Songli left Qin Bin, she went to find her fourth sister-in-law and told her that Qin Bin was fine.

"Sixth brother and sister, thank you, it's really troublesome for you." Su Jing was embarrassed.

She and her second sister-in-law both knew that the sixth brother and sister were working in the county guard's mansion, which was a secret in the Qin family. At the same time, she is also very busy, and her mother-in-law and they try not to trouble her about trivial matters at home.

"Fourth sister-in-law, we are a family, so we don't have to see each other like this." Lu Songli found that Qin Tang was already asleep on her fourth sister-in-law's couch.

"Fourth sister-in-law, in fact, when children fight, we have the greatest responsibility as elders."

Su Jing smiled bitterly, "I know, Bin'er said that I was biased, but I really didn't think about which child I wanted to favor." "She has two sons.

Lu Songli did not comment. Now, regardless of her deeds, her fourth sister-in-law doesn't want to be partial, but in fact, the words and deeds she shows are indeed small.

"Fourth sister-in-law, I know, I understand. For example, when the two brothers went out and Xiao Tang was injured, you can't help but count Xiao Bin, saying that he didn't protect his younger brother well, I know that the fourth sister-in-law was worried about Xiao Tang and said it in a hurry. But what you say is very hurtful. ”

"You must know that it is not Xiaobin's obligation to take care of his younger brother, he is willing to take care of his younger brother, that is his responsibility as an older brother, and he has done a great job. We can't throw our responsibilities on a child and accuse him of not doing well, which is a bit too much. If you think about it from his point of view, will you be very aggrieved in your heart? ”

Su Jing lowered her head in shame, "Sixth brother and sister, this is indeed what I did wrong. I'll try to change it in the future. ”

This time the problem was solved, but Su Jing was still worried. A boy of seven or eight years old is the age when cats and dogs are hated, and she is worried about this fight, there are one and two.

Lu Songli heard the source of her worries, thought about it and said, "Fourth sister-in-law, in fact, if you want to unite the two brothers, it's not impossible. ”

I heard Qin Sheng say that Qin Tang looks very much like the dead fourth brother. The partiality of the fourth sister-in-law should be unconscious, and to correct this unconsciousness, it is not enough to just point it out, and another method must be used.

Su Jing hurriedly asked, "What way?" ”

She knew that the sixth sibling was resourceful, and it was great that she could give herself an idea.

"Artificially create a common enemy for them, and let them unite with the outside world." If Qin Ming is still alive, in fact, it is best for him, the father, to fill this role.

Su Jing seemed to understand, "Sixth brother and sister, tell me in detail?" ”

"You're ...... like that"