Chapter 485: Try to treat your father as a friend
Shen Huadong has never been afraid of anyone when he is so old, but at this time, he was afraid for a while.
What his wife did before almost offended her son completely.
Fortunately, she realized that she was lost, and later took the initiative to post it, and now she has sent the active and capable Li Xiaoxiu to her future daughter-in-law.
The couple stumbled into each other by mistake during this time, but they handled things well.
Although Shen Huadong also thought Jiang Li was good, he didn't expect his son to take her so seriously.
His son is calm and self-controlled, it stands to reason that he shouldn't be a love brain, but he didn't expect his inner thoughts to be so crazy.
"In that case, why don't you hurry up and marry her home?"
Shen Huadong followed his son's words, and Shen Changan smiled bitterly and waved his hand.
"I don't want to, it's just that Jiang Li has always had concerns, so he doesn't want to."
"What are her concerns? Are we afraid that we will not agree, or are we afraid that we will regret it? ”
Shen Huadong finally walked into his son's heart, he softened his tone and tried to guide him.
"It's all right, she wants to take advantage of the past few months to have a good career and make more money and be more confident."
Shen Changan knew in his heart that Jiang Li's worst fear was that he would get pregnant and have children after getting married.
After all, they have just been newly married, and there will definitely be times when they can't restrain themselves, and if they misfire, they are really likely to get pregnant.
Shen Huadong also got married on a blind date when he was young, and he never fell in love, so he had no experience to pass on to his son.
He didn't even like someone properly, just because he was old and his family was urging him to get married, so he just got married.
After Shen Huadong got married, he was obsessed with his career, and his marriage relationship with Wang Cuimei was neither good nor bad.
Both of them have their own careers, all the housework is handed over to their aunts, and after giving birth to a child, they are raised by their mothers.
Although Shen Huadong is already a member of his grandfather's generation, he doesn't know anything about these men and women.
He had never dealt with a woman much in his life, and he didn't understand women's minds.
Although he already knew his son's thoughts and his troubles, he was unable to give useful advice.
Shen Huadong felt a little embarrassed in his heart, he could only pretend to drink tea, wanting to fool this matter.
Shen Changan saw his father's discomfort and thought of his marriage to his mother.
The two have been married for nearly 30 years, and they can't talk about how good or bad their relationship is, so they live like this.
People of the parents' generation rarely get married because of love, and they don't understand what love is.
For them, marriage is more of a responsibility, first to complete the account to their parents, and then to have children to complete the account to society.
When they are old, it is naturally good for their children to be able to accompany them to provide for them, and if not, they can solve it by themselves if they have a job.
"Dad, I'll go back first if it's okay."
Shen Changan offered to leave, but Shen Huadong was a little reluctant.
"Wait a minute, you sit down first, Daddy will get you something."
Shen Changan was pressed on the chair and sat upright, he didn't know what his father would bring him, and he didn't have much expectation in his heart.
Shen Huadong rummaged through the book, and finally found a deposit receipt.
"You now have a wife and children to support, and the burden on your shoulders is getting heavier and heavier, this is the little money I saved in the early years, you can use it."
The certificate of deposit is a little yellow, and it looks like it is some years old.
There are more than 1,000 yuan in total, and they are deposited in multiple times, and it seems that it is indeed the deposit receipt at the bottom of the box pressed by the father.
"The money on the deposit certificate is not very much, but it is enough for you to use it for a while, and when I retire, I will find a job, and the money I earn will be yours at that time."
Shen Huadong showed love for his son for the first time, and the words he said were a little twisted.
Shen Changan, who had never felt father's love since he was a child, was overwhelmed by this surging father's love in an instant.
He didn't even know why his father was so nice to him?
This is not quite like something that a father can do, and he is already an adult, even if he has a wife and children to support, he should work harder on his own.
This is not married and began to spend the parents' pension money, how can there be such a reason?
"Dad, I don't want it, I have money, you better keep this money and spend it yourself."
Shen Changan pushed back the deposit receipt, although his father was in a high position, he was honest and honest, and he never engaged in corruption and bribery.
During the years he served as a leader, he never took care of his family's affairs, and all the money he earned was given to his mother.
My father's salary is quite high, but because he has not earned extra money, he can only ensure that the family is well-off.
He was able to save this money, which must have been saved from the pocket money given to him by his mother, and he would also set aside a part of the bonus at the end of each year.
My father was an honest man who didn't smoke or drink, and he barely used any money over the years.
All the private money was saved, and he never thought of using it for pleasure, but gave it to him in one go.
Shen Changan had received money from his father once before, and he originally thought that he had emptied his small treasury that time, but he didn't expect that he still had money.
This time, Shen Changan couldn't do it anyway, he already had his own business, and he earned more money than his family.
It's just that he is low-key and has never talked about it to his parents.
This caused a misunderstanding between them, at first they thought that he was not doing his job, and now they are worried that he has a heavy burden and no money.
The more Shen Changan thought about it, the more funny he felt, he originally wanted to hide his own affairs from his family, but now that he saw his father doing everything for him, he also wanted to talk to him openly and honestly.
"Dad, do you believe that I am already richer than you?"
Shen Changan pulled his father to sit down on the chair, and he said half-jokingly and half-seriously.
Shen Huadong stared at his son for a long time, and finally shook his head solemnly and said categorically.
"I don't believe it!"
Shen Changan understood his father's thoughts, so he immediately said.
"Dad, do you think that I have been doing temporary work everywhere all these years because I am not doing my job, and the money I earn can't even support myself, let alone support my wife and children?"
"In the eyes of you and your mother, I can only be considered a serious job if I enter the system? But because I haven't been working for a long time, you think I'm going to run out of money? ”
"But have you ever wondered if the reason why I dare to do this is really because I like to be free and willful? Isn't it because I'm confident? ”
At this moment, Shen Changan did not regard Shen Huadong as his father, but regarded him as his friend.
Their father and son were tense every time they met, and they were rarely able to sit down and talk properly.
But Shen Changan knew that when he needed help, his parents would always be his strongest backing.