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A disciple is a student, but a student is not necessarily a disciple.

For what?

The basic meaning of the word disciple is as follows: disciple, that is, apprentice, student, successor, inheritor, etc., is often used for ideological schools, religious schools, artistic schools, craft inheritance, and gang organizations. There are three meanings of disciples. 1. Refers to a group of sects. For example, "Shaolin disciples" only emphasize the inheritance of teachers and sects, and do not emphasize the level of masters and apprentices. Anyone who has learned Shaolin martial arts is a "Shaolin disciple". 2. In the same sect in the old days, the humility of the younger generation when they saw the elders was like the ancients calling themselves "late students" and "younger generations". 3. Just like "children", that is, "the next generation". In the old days, the so-called "disciple" was the child.

There are three meanings of the student. 1. Those who are receiving their studies at school. 2. Those who accept the teachings of others and help spread and practice. 3. In ancient times, it was a kind of self-modest title, which was mostly used for the younger generation to ask for advice or study from the elders or respect the teacher.

It can be seen from this that the disciple is one of the students, and the disciple is a part of the students who have a very close relationship with the teacher. Of course, a teacher who has a very close relationship with his disciples is generally not called a teacher, but is called a master [the basic meaning of master 1, also as "master". Originally, it refers to a person who teaches his skills in the industry, commerce, theater and other industries. Now it generally refers to the honorific title and honorific title given by the student to the teacher who imparts his or her skills, and the student is often called an apprentice or apprentice. This is one of the main forms of inheritance of Chinese cultural traditions, that is, the transmission of master and apprentice. It is most commonly found in the traditional martial arts world, but also in the traditional art world, such as the opera world (such as Peking Opera), the opera art world (such as cross talk, storytelling, allegro, etc.). There is a systematic and strict teacher-teacher relationship between the master and the apprentice. 2. Master, also used as an honorific title for monks, nuns, and Taoist priests. Derivation. It was first born from "a teacher for one day and a father for life". Later, although there was not necessarily such a constraint between master and apprentice. But the word "Master" has been used to this day. The ancients said: "A teacher, so preach and teach to solve doubts", "Once a teacher, a father for life", so the essence is the same. 】.

So. There is still some difference between accepting disciples and accepting students (referring to ordinary students).

Originally. Dong Yong's father, the director, became a disciple of Dong Yong's grandfather, Gu Tianle, and needed to hold a ceremony.

However, Dong Yong's father, the director's parents, and both parents passed away, and some ceremonies could not be held at all, so Dong Yong's grandfather Gu Tianle simply simplified because of his ugliness. Dong Yong's grandfather, Gu Tianle, and Dong Yong's father, the director, and the brother and wife of Dong Yong's grandfather, Dong Sanmu, talked about it. Dong Yong's grandfather, Gu Tianle, accepted the director as a disciple.

As for. Dong Yong's grandfather Gu Tianle is not more straightforward...... The reason for Dong Yong's father's adoption as a adopted son is that Dong Yong's father and director's parents have passed away is only one of the reasons, and the second reason. It is Dong Yong's father, and the situation of the director is very different from Dong Yong.

For what?

Dong Yong's parents have at least one father, that is, the director, who is still alive, but what about Dong Yong's father, director, and both parents, who have passed away. It's a difference. Dong Yong's father-in-law Li Zhiyong and stepmother, that is, Li Zhiyong's wife, Li Zhang's family, are both alive [alive is the meaning of living healthily], what about Dong Yong's grandfather Gu Tianle??Dong Yong's grandfather Gu Tianle's wife, who is also Dong Yong's grandmother, has already passed away when she gave birth to Dong Yong's mother, Gu Yueyue, and Dong Yong's grandfather Gu Tianle has not continued the string [The ancients often used the qin to compare the relationship between husband and wife, so the wife was remarried and called 'continued string'. It is said that this is the origin of the 'continuation'. Legend has it that in the Spring and Autumn Period, Yu Boya was good at playing the piano, and his wife appreciated his piano skills and often asked Yu Boya to play it to her. Later, Yu Boya's wife became seriously ill, and Yu Boya asked a doctor to boil medicine and serve carefully, but it never worked. Yu Boya was often anxious and worried about this, so he had no heart to play the piano. The wife's illness became worse day by day, but one day, the wife suddenly felt much better and better, so she asked her husband to play the piano for her. Yu Boya hurriedly took the piano and tuned the strings, and played it "loudly and loudly", so that his sick wife could get joy and comfort from the beautiful sound of the piano. Regardless of his fatigue, he played one song after another, and when he played Yaxing, he suddenly "collapsed" and the strings were broken into two. At this moment, the wife stopped moaning. Yu Boya dropped the plucker and hurried to the bed to see that his wife had already choked. After Boya hugged his head and cried for a while, he beckoned his family to take care of the funeral. I never played the piano again. A year later, a relative from out of town told Boya about a woman. Because Yu Boya and his wife have a deep relationship, they didn't plan to marry again, but they couldn't withstand everyone's persuasion, so they had to reluctantly agree to go to the woman's house to see each other before deciding. Because Yu Boya has a good personality and a good family background, the woman fell in love at first sight. But she put forward a condition, to listen to Yu Boya's drum and piano with her own ears, and then make a marriage. Yu Boya also took a fancy to the woman, although he was still missing his late wife, but he thought again: people can't be resurrected after death, so he went home and took the piano that had been shelved for more than a year, removed the broken string that he had not been thinking about, and after renewing a new string, he played it in front of everyone. The melodious and beautiful rhyme, like mountains and flowing water for a while, and like the blue sky and flying clouds for a while, is really fascinating, a fairy music. Everyone listened to it as if they were stunned, and it took a while for the piano to wake up, followed by a burst of cheers, and even the always restrained lady couldn't help but slap her face. agreed to the marriage immediately. The story quickly spread among the people, and later people compared remarrying after the death of a wife to a "continuation of the string". 】。

Therefore, the situation of Dong Yong's father director is very different from Dong Yong's. Dong Yong's stepfather Li Zhiyong and his stepmother, that is, Li Zhiyong's wife Li Zhang, adopted Dong Yong mainly to use the eight characters of Dong Yong's life grid to facilitate Dong Yong's stepfather Li Zhiyong and stepmother Li Zhiyong's wife Li Zhangshi to smoothly give birth to their own children (that is, Dong Yong's stepfather Li Zhiyong and stepmother Li Zhiyong's wife Li Zhangshi), which is a kind of "borrowing" nature. And if Dong Yong's grandfather Gu Tianle adopts Dong Yong's father director as a righteous son, it is a pure "occupation". What is borrowed is "borrowed and repaid", and what is occupied is basically no possibility of repayment. Especially the big things related to "incense" are not trivial.

In the Confucian classics of our country, there is such a famous sentence "Do not do to others what you do not want to do to yourself" [Do not do to others what you do not want to do to yourself", from the "Analects". It means that what you do not want to ask for is not to be imposed on others. What this quote reveals is an important principle for dealing with interpersonal relationships. Confucius said that people should treat others with reference to their own behavior. People should be broad-minded, and when dealing with others, they should not be narrow-minded, but should be magnanimous and forgiving. If you push what you don't want to others, it will not only destroy the relationship with others, but also make things stalemate and out of control. It is true that this principle should be adhered to in the interaction between people, which is a manifestation of respect for others and treating others as equals. Dong Yong's grandfather Gu Tianle, as a Confucian, how could he do anything nonsense in matters related to "incense"?

Therefore, Dong Yong's grandfather, Gu Tianle, almost did not ask to adopt Dong Yong's father's five-year-old director, but only proposed to adopt the director as a disciple.

Dong Yong's grandfather, Gu Tianle, accepted Dong Yong's father's five-year-old director as a disciple......, what should I do with the director's tuition?