Chapter 196: The Importance of Dressing (Asking for Points)
When Master Lu Youcai and his brothers were "drinking tea in a big bowl", a disciple of Master Lu Youcai, who was in charge of the reception work, came in and reported, "Master, there is a young lady outside with a subordinate who is coming to ask someone to build a house. ”
A young lady with a subordinate?
Who is this?
Isn't it the Seven Fairies and Dong Yong who asked someone to build the house?
Definitely...... Definitely...... Definitely!
The apprentice of Master Lu Youcai, who was in charge of the reception, said, "Master, there is a young lady with a subordinate outside, who wants to invite someone to build a house", and the "young lady with a subordinate" inside is the Seven Fairies and Dong Yong.
However, why did the Seven Fairies and Dong Yonghui become the apprentices of Master Lu Youcai, who was in charge of the reception work, and the apprentice Sun said, "Master, there is a young lady outside with a subordinate who wants to invite someone to build a house", and "a young lady with a subordinate person" inside????
What are the Seven Fairies wearing?
Heavenly clothes!
Tianyi, just looking at the appearance is extraordinary, so the Seven Fairies became the apprentice of the master Lu Youcai who was in charge of the reception work, and said, "Master, there is a young lady outside with a subordinate who wants to invite someone to build a house"...... The "Miss" in it is a matter of course!
But what is Dong Yong wearing?
Dong Yong had just been pulled out of Hao Yuanwai's house by the Seven Fairies, so Dong Yong was still wearing the same set of subordinate clothes in Hao Yuanwai's house, so Dong Yong became the apprentice of Master Lu Youcai, who was in charge of the reception work, and said, "Master, there is a young lady outside with a subordinate who wants to invite someone to build a house...... The "subordinate" in it is also a matter of course!
It's important to dress [before you speak.] The first impression of people who see you is their clothing and appearance, and he is directly related to the evaluation of your impression and ability by others. Even if you're talented, you're sloppy and no one likes to work with you, so it's crucial. 1. Dress etiquette in ancient and modern times, Chinese and foreign, dress has always reflected a social culture, reflects a person's cultural accomplishment and aesthetic taste, and is a wordless letter of introduction for a person's identity, temperament and internal quality. In a sense, clothing is an art. The emotions and meanings that clothes can convey are not even substituted by words. On different occasions. A person who is well-dressed and modestly gives the impression of being good, while a person who is not properly dressed will degrade a person's status. Damage to their own image. The late Premier Zhou Enlai of our country set a model of decency and chic for future generations in terms of dress. Under all conditions. He kept his clothes neat and fitting. The posture is dignified, every move is polite, and the light is fair. Treat people modestly, cordially, sincerely, and straightforwardly as the standard of life. In social situations, proper clothing is a kind of courtesy, which directly affects the harmony of interpersonal relationships to a certain extent. The factors that affect the effect of dressing, the most important one is to have cultural accomplishment and elegant aesthetic ability, that is, the so-called "belly has poetry and calligraphy from China". The second is to have the quality of sports and bodybuilding. A toned body is a natural condition for dressing beautifully. The third is to master the common sense of dress, the principles of dress and the knowledge of dress etiquette, which is an indispensable condition for achieving harmony and unity between inside and outside. This chapter focuses on the basics of dress code and dress etiquette. 1. TPO principle of dressTPO is the abbreviation of the first three words of English Timeplaceobject. T stands for time, season, season, and era, P stands for place, occasion, position, and O stands for purpose and object. The TPO principle of dress is the most basic principle of dress and grooming that is common in the world. It requires that people's clothing should strive for harmony and harmony as beauty. Dress should be consistent with the time and season, in line with the season, in line with the occasion and environment, with the different customs of different countries, regions, and nationalities, in line with the identity of the person in the dress, and according to the different purposes of communication, the object of interaction should choose clothing, so as to leave a good impression. According to the TPO principle, the following issues should be paid attention to when dressing: (1) Dress should be suitable for one's own conditions. The choice of clothing should first be in harmony with one's age, identity, body shape, skin color, and personality. For the elderly, those with high status, the choice of clothing style should not be too trendy, the style should be simple and the fabric texture should be more important to coincide with the status and age. Teenagers' dress focuses on reflecting the atmosphere of youth, simple, neat and tidy, fresh and lively is the best, "youth has its own three points of beauty", if excessive clothing destroys the youthful vigor is really worth the loss. Physical condition also has a great influence on the choice of clothing style. Those with short stature and a thick neck and round face should wear dark low "V" necks and large "U" neck suits, while light-colored high-neck clothing is not suitable. Those with a slender body, a slender neck, and a long face should wear light-colored, high-necked or round-necked clothing. Those with a square face should wear a small round neck or double lapel clothing. People with a well-proportioned body, good physical condition, and a good complexion have a wider range of clothing, which can be described as "heavy makeup is always appropriate". (2) Dress should be in harmony with the occupation, occasion, and purpose of communication. Dress appropriately for the profession and occasion is a principle that cannot be overlooked. Dress during working hours should follow the principles of dignified, neat, steady, beautiful and harmonious, which can give people a sense of pleasure and solemnity. From the dress and mental outlook of a unit's occupation, it can reflect the work style and development prospects of the unit. Now more and more organizations, enterprises, institutions, and schools have begun to pay attention to uniform dress, which is a very positive measure, which not only gives the wearer a point of pride, but also a little more consciousness and constraints, and becomes a sign and symbol of an organization and a unit. Dress should be appropriate to the occasion and environment. For formal social occasions, dress modestly and generously, not too flashy. For evenings or festive occasions, the outfits can be bright and colorful. Casual attire should be casual and light, while suits and leather shoes look restrained and inappropriate. In family life, casual and casual clothes are more conducive to communicating feelings with family members and creating a relaxed, pleasant and warm atmosphere. But you can't wear pajamas and slippers to go shopping or walk on the street, that's indecent and rude. Dress should be appropriate to the person and purpose of the relationship. When dealing with foreign guests and ethnic minorities, we should especially respect their customs and taboos. In short, the most basic principle of dress is to embody "harmonious beauty". The upper and lower clothes echo harmoniously, the accessories match the color of the clothing harmoniously, and the identity, age, occupation, skin color, body shape are harmonious, and the seasonal and seasonal environment is harmonious. 2. Color matching of clothing and jewelry etiquette (1) Color matching of clothing. Different colors have different symbolic meanings: red is a warm color that symbolizes warmth, liveliness, excitement and passion, yellow colors symbolize brightness, encouragement, hope and vitality, and orange colors symbolize cheerfulness, joy and activity. Cool colors - black symbolizes calmness, solemnity, indifference and mystery, blue symbolizes profoundness, quietness, serenity, freshness, confidence and distantness, and blue symbolizes pride and mystery. Intermediate colors - yellow-green symbolizes serene, lively and delicate, and red-purple symbolizes brightness and eye-catching. Purple symbolizes magnificence and nobility. Transitional colors - pink symbolizes liveliness, youthfulness, brightness and delicateness, white symbolizes simplicity, elegance, brightness and purity, pale green symbolizes life, freshness, happiness and youth, etc. The color of the garment is an important factor in the success of the dress. The basic criterion of clothing color matching is "overall coordination". It is best to match no more than three colors in the color of the whole body, and one color is the main color, and too many colors will appear chaotic and disorderly. Gray, black, and white are the three colors that play an important role in the color matching of clothing, and can be matched with almost any color and are very suitable. There are several safer ways to wear a harmonious color, one is to wear the same color on the top and bottom - that is, the suit. Embellished with ornaments. The second is the same color matching. Use different shades and shades of color in the same color system. The overall effect is relatively harmonious. Use contrasting color combinations (brightness contrasts or mutually exclusive color contrasts) to create a refreshing and refreshing effect. Young people wear dark and shallow clothes, looking lively, elegant, and full of youthful atmosphere. Middle-aged and elderly people use a combination of shallow and deep bottoms. It gives people a sense of calm and composure. The color matching of the garments takes into account the communication with the seasons. Dialogue with nature can also have a very good effect. The same coat outfit. By changing the style and color of the shirt, you can express a different unique style, and you can use it to create an ideal effect with a simple dress. It itself shows the inner fulfillment and cultivation of the dressed person. Many people ignore this point, and it cannot but be said that it is a weak sense of dressing. When using a shirt and a coat, it should be noted that the color of the shirt should not be the same as the coat, and there should be a clear contrast in the brightness and shade. One of the most important principles to follow in your color is to choose your color according to your skin color, age, and body shape. If the skin tone is dark, it is not advisable to wear clothes that are too dark or too light, but should choose pink, blue-green that does not contrast with the skin tone, and the brightest yellow-orange or very dark brown, black and purple should not be used. People with yellow skin should not choose semi-yellow, earthy yellow, and gray clothing, otherwise they will look sluggish and listless. It is not advisable to wear green clothes for pale face, otherwise it will make the face more sickly. And the complexion is ruddy, pink and white, and wearing green clothing will work well. White clothes work well on any skin tone, because white reflections can make people look radiant. Thin people are suitable for wearing light-colored clothing with high brightness to appear plump, while obese people look slim with dark colors with low brightness, etc. Most people's body shape and skin tone are mixed in between, so there is no absolute principle of color matching, and the important thing is to find the most suitable color for yourself in the practice of dressing. (2) Ornament etiquette. Accessories refer to other items that are matched with clothing to modify clothing, mainly including ties, scarves, silk scarves, brooches, jewelry, bags, gloves, shoes and socks, etc. Ornaments play the role of the finishing touch and coordination of the whole in the dress. The brooch is suitable for women to wear four times a year. The wearing of the brooch should vary depending on the season and the clothing, and the brooch should be worn in a parallel position between the first and second buttons. Jewelry mainly refers to earrings, necklaces, rings, bracelets, bracelets, etc. Wearing hand accessories should be coordinated with the face shape and clothing. It is not easy to wear more than one piece of jewelry at the same time, such as rings, it is best to wear only one hand, and bracelets and bracelets cannot be worn more than two on one hand. It is indecent and vulgar to wear more, especially at work and important social occasions, it is always inappropriate to wear gold and silver too much, and it is not in line with etiquette norms. Clever use of scarves, especially silk scarves worn by women, will receive a very good decorative effect. Men's jewelry must not be too much, too much will be less masculine and chic beauty. A tie, a tie clip, and a decorative handkerchief on the breast pocket of a suit jacket for some special occasions is sufficient. The role of shoes and socks can not be ignored in the overall dress, and it will give people a feeling of being top-heavy if they are not well matched. Suits and formal suits must be accompanied by leather shoes. The colour of men's leather shoes is black, dark coffee, or dark brown, while white leather shoes are suitable for certain occasions unless you wear a light-colored suit. Black leather shoes are suitable for all kinds of clothing and all kinds of occasions. Formal social occasions. Men's socks should be dark monochrome, black, blue, and gray are acceptable. Women's leather shoes should be black, white, brown or the same color or the same color as the clothing. In social situations, it is best to wear socks in flesh color when women wear skirts, and socks with dark colors or floral patterns are not suitable. There should be no space between the cuff of the stockings and the hem of the skirt, and part of the leg should not be exposed, which is very unsightly and does not conform to the norms of dress etiquette. Stockings with holes should not be exposed. Wearing tall socks with obvious tears will always feel embarrassing in public, but it's okay to wear them without socks. In short, the selection of ornaments should also follow the TPO principle, and it is important to take "harmony" as the beauty. 3. Etiquette of wearing a suit. Suits are becoming more and more popular among people because of their beautiful design, simple and smooth lines, strong three-dimensional sense and wide adaptability. It has almost become a universal clothing in the world. It can be said that it is suitable for both men and women, young and old. Suit seven points are done. Three points are worn. The choice and matching of suits is very particular. When choosing a suit, consider color, size, price, fabric, and workmanship, but you can't ignore the shape line and proportions. Suits don't have to be high-end, but they must be cut and fitted, neat and straight. Choose darker, calmer, and no obvious patterns. But a monochrome suit with a more high-end fabric. It can be used in a wide range of applications. It has a long wearing time and a high utilization rate. The following etiquette principles should be followed when wearing a suit: (1) The color of the upper and lower parts of the suit should be the same. In terms of collocation, two of the suits, shirts, and ties should be plain. (2) Leather shoes must be worn when wearing a suit. Loafers, cloth shoes and travel shoes are not suitable. (3) The color of the shirt with the suit should be coordinated with the color of the suit, and it cannot be the same color. A white shirt with a suit of various colors works well. Men should not wear brightly coloured plaid or coloured shirts for formal occasions. The cuffs of the shirt should grow 1-2 cm from the cuffs of the suit. A tie is mandatory for formal and solemn occasions, and it is not necessary to wear a tie for other occasions. The shirt collar button must be fastened when the tie is worn, and the shirt collar button should be unbuttoned when the tie is not worn. (4) There are single-row and double-row buttons in suits, and the button system is exquisite: double-breasted suits should be buttoned well. Single-breasted suits: one button, tied dignified, open and chic; two buttons, only one button is foreign, orthodox, only one is ox gas, flowing gas, all buttons are rustic, not open is chic, handsome, full buckle and only the second one is not in line with the norms; three buckles, two or only one in the middle are in line with the norms. (5) Do not put too many things in the jacket pockets and pants pockets of the suit. Don't wear too much suit underwear, it is best to wear only one shirt in spring and autumn, and don't wear a cotton sweater under the winter shirt, you can wear a woolen sweater over the shirt. Wearing too bloated can ruin the overall line beauty of the suit. (6) The color and pattern of the tie should be coordinated with the suit, and when tying the tie, the length of the tie should touch the belt buckle, and the tie clip should be worn between the fourth and fifth buttons of the shirt. (7) The trademark plate on the cuffs of the suit should be removed, otherwise it does not meet the dress norms, and the elegant occasion will make people laugh and be generous. (8) Pay attention to the maintenance of suits. The way of maintenance and storage has a great impact on the shape and wearing life of the suit. High-end suits should be hung in a ventilated place and dried frequently, paying attention to insects and moisture. When there are wrinkles, you can hang them in the bathroom after bathing, use steam to spread the wrinkles, and then hang them in a ventilated place. Second, the basic knowledge of makeup. Grooming and makeup is an integral part of the decorative art of the human body, and it is also an indispensable condition in daily life and communication etiquette. Grooming and makeup should include hair care and grooming, skin care and makeup, etc., and here focuses on the basic knowledge of women's facial makeup. Makeup is an art in life, moderate and decent makeup, can reflect the unique temperament of women dignified, gentle, beautiful and generous, to achieve the effect of ingenuity. Makeup is the use of cosmetics and artistic depictions to achieve the purpose of dressing up and beautifying oneself. Makeup must be appropriate and appropriate, that is to say, only by knowing how to make up can we cover up people's shortcomings and even defects, better reflect the advantages of people's facial features, and make people more beautiful, full of confidence and charm. In social situations, proper and moderate makeup is not only a sign of self-esteem and confidence, but also a sign of respect for others. The basic steps of makeup are: 1. Wash your face, 2. Pat the shrinkage (lotion), 3. Apply the cream, 4. Apply the foundation, 5. Set the makeup for the first time (apply dry powder), 6, trim the eyebrows, 7. Thrush, 8. Apply eye shadow, 9. Nose shadow, 10, apply blush, 11. Set makeup for the second time (apply dry powder), 12. Melt, 13. Apply lipstick. The complexity of the makeup steps can be determined according to different occasions, such as daily work makeup, you can simply omit 2, 5, 6, 9, 11 steps, or even only 1, 3, 12 steps of light makeup. In social occasions, light makeup is better than heavy makeup, and it shows the nobility of people's cultivation and aesthetic taste. When applying makeup, the color of foundation, eye shadow, blush, and lipstick should be coordinated with the color of people's skin and clothing to give people a harmonious beauty. When choosing a foundation, you should consider the color and texture, and it is best to choose a brand with a better texture. The closer the color of the foundation is to the skin tone, the more natural it will look, and it is best to prepare an extra dark color to use as a shadow on the chin, bridge of the nose, and forehead. When choosing foundation, don't apply it to your arms, because the color of your arms is very different from the color of your facial skin, and it's best to apply it to your cheeks near your neck, and use natural light to see if your face is matched with the skin tone of your neck. The foundation with a good texture is elastic when pressed down, and it feels neither dry nor wet, and it will not have acne. Foundation is not a mask, it should make the skin look clear, smooth, radiant and healthy. For pale complexions, use an ivory or pink foundation, for creamy yellow skin with tan or golden brown foundation, and for brown skin with dark complexions, you don't need much foundation, usually using a highlighter. The color of eyeshadow, blush, and lipstick should be coordinated with the color of the outfit. Gray, white, and black clothing is suitable for any makeup color. The matching of other commonly used colors of clothing and makeup colors: (1) Blue and purple: suitable for wearing dark blue, light blue, purple red, rose red, peach and other clothing. The eyeshadow is brown, fuchsia, deep purple and light blue. Pink and pink for blush and fuchsia for lipstick. (2) Pink: suitable for wearing white, black, gray, pink, red and other clothing. The eyeshadow is brown, pink, camel, orange and gray. Blush with pink, red. Use red for lipstick. (3) Brown: suitable for light brown, dark brown, earth red, brown red, camel, beige and other clothing. The eyeshadow color is brown, camel, and gray color combination, and the blush and lipstick are red. Ahh
Although as the old saying goes, "A man should not be a man...... The sea is incomprehensible".
"Let no man be a disfigure...... "The sea is incomprehensible" means that you can't judge a person based only on their appearance and appearance. Source, Ming Wu Chengen's "Journey to the West" Chapter 62: "Under Your Majesty, people cannot be disguised, and the sea water cannot be measured. If you love abundance, how can you catch the thief?" Qin Chong, an ancient oil seller, fell in love with the famous prostitute Oiran Niangzi, and he was very infatuated. Oiran also liked him very much, in order to raise ten taels of silver for a night, he desperately thrifty accumulation, even the guys in the silver shop also sighed that he was really unseemly, and the sea water was incomprehensible. Later, Oiran jumped out of the fire pit of the brothel and married Qin Zhong as his wife, and the two fell in love for a lifetime.
But "no one is to be a face...... Although the old saying "the sea is incomparable" is well said, in real life, there are countless things to judge people by their clothes.
So, no matter what, the dress must keep up with the times. (To be continued......)