For a while, there was silence inside and outside the window.

Lu Xiaole's eyes outside the window were moist, and tears flowed silently.

Song Xiulian in the window was also crying silently, sobbing lowly.

After a long time, Bian Guifang recovered from the shock and sighed:

"No wonder you like Xiaole so much, there is such a thing. Xiaole is smiling all day long, although my mother knows that he is kind-hearted, but I still didn't expect him to pay so much for you. ”

"But, Xiaolian, feelings are feelings, and reality is reality! Xiaole has paid for you, and now you don't even go to college for him, and you can be regarded as returning his favor, but you can't marry him!"

Song Xiulian was silent for a moment and asked, "Mom, why can't I marry him?" ”

Bian Guifang: "Let's not say that Xiaole just treats you as a buddy, is he willing to marry you, even if he is willing to marry you, my mother will agree to the two of you, but your father will definitely not agree to your marriage!"

Song Xiulian: "Why? ”

Bian Guifang sighed:

"Why? Don't you know, your father's heart is high, he looks down on this, looks down on that, and no one puts it in his eyes. Although he and Xiaole and his father are friends who have played since childhood, but in his heart, he looks down on Praise, he thinks that Praise is a person who has no ability, and can only work part-time to earn a little money. ”

"In the past, he looked down on Xiaole even more, thinking that Xiaole was smiling and cynical, and he couldn't even pass the high school exam, and he wouldn't be successful when he grew up."

"Although Xiaole has recently entered our factory and performed well, and your father often praises him for being smart and clever, he will not agree to marry you to him."

"The son-in-law that your father wants to choose for you must not only have a good character, but also a good family background, and be a rich family!"

Song Xiulian was a little unconvinced: "Mom, Xiaole is still young now, and he hasn't shown his ability yet, as long as it takes a few more years, he will definitely be able to mix well!"

Bian Guifang sighed: "No matter how good you mix, aren't you working in our factory?" Even if he becomes a 'master master', he is still a long-term worker. Do you think that a proud person like your father would marry the daughter of his landlord's family to a long-term worker? ”

When Lu Xiaole outside the window heard this, his heart felt like he had been hit hard by a hammer:

"Ah, it turns out that the uncle and the aunt have always regarded me as a long-term worker, and I, a long-term worker, are not qualified to marry the daughter of the landlord's family!"

Although he felt sour in his heart, he felt that Bian Guifang was right, he was indeed a part-time worker, even if he became a master, he was still a long-term worker who carried work for the landlord.

He felt a little self-pity in his heart, and wanted to hear what Song Xiulian had to say, he thought: "Ah Lian's parents look down on me, she will definitely not look down on me." ”

Sure enough, Song Xiulian expressed dissatisfaction:

"Mom, it's unfair to Xiaole when you say this, he has just reached eighteen, and when my father was eighteen years old, he didn't open a factory. There is a saying that 'don't bully young people to be poor', if Xiaole is my father's age, maybe he will be a multimillionaire, or even a billionaire!"

When Lu Xiaole heard this, he was very relieved: "No matter what others say, Ah Lian is always towards me, and only she is the best for me." ”

Bian Guifang: "Xiaolian, you understand what you said, your mother is towards you." Mom originally thought that you and Zhenhua can become successful, his family is good, and there are many people in their Zhou family, so you won't suffer if you marry him, and you won't be angry. Since you don't like him, Mom won't force you. However, if you want to marry Xiaole, even if your mother doesn't stop you, your father won't agree. ”

"In your father's eyes, only those who are richer than our family and more educated than him will be able to look at him, and he will agree to marry you."

"Xiaole is young, he can't do business and open a factory to make a lot of money, his parents work in other places, and they can't earn a lot of money all year round, and your father will definitely not agree to a family like theirs."

Song Xiulian snorted: "It's a new era, and I'm in charge of my marriage!"

Bian Guifang: "Xiaolian, Mom knows that you have an opinion when you are young, you have to be hard-hearted, even if your father disagrees, you will find ways to be with Xiaole, and we can't stop you." ”

"However, you must know that life is not only about love, but also firewood, rice, oil and salt, as well as eating, drinking, and lazar, as well as human feelings."

"Let's not talk about whether Xiaole will be with you, even if the two of you are together, but without your father's consent, your father will definitely not support you financially, and he will even kick you both out of the factory and leave you to fend for yourself."

Song Xiulian: "Just go, where can't I work, can I still starve to death?" ”

Bian Guifang: "Hunger is not starvation, but if you don't have money, you will definitely live a hard life for a few years." Since you were a child, you have never suffered hardship, your father is on top of you outside, and your mother does all the work in the soil at home. ”

"There is a saying that 'poor couples mourn everything', no matter how deep the relationship between two people is, once they live a poor life, there will be friction, quarrels, mutual complaints, mutual accusations, no matter how beautiful the love is, it will be worn out at this time."

At that time, you will think that if you let the eldest lady live a poor life with Xiaole, you will resent him, think that he has hurt you, and complain that he is incompetent. And Xiaole will be afraid of you, begin to alienate you, avoid you, and even look for a lover outside, find a mistress, and find comfort. ”

"Mom has seen a lot of such situations. Mom is also young, she has experienced love herself, and she has also seen the love of others. ”

"Xiaolian, think about it carefully, in our village, because the family is poor, are there fewer quarrels between husband and wife? Do you think that those couples who quarrel did not have affection when they were young? Do you think they didn't have a mountain alliance and a sea oath, and they were in love vigorously? ”

Song Xiulian is just a girl who has no worries about food and clothing, she didn't think about it so much, and now after her mother's persuasion like this, she thought about it carefully, and sure enough, she couldn't help but be stunned.

Lu Xiaole outside the window was also stunned.

He originally thought that he and Ah Lian were just buddies, but now he examined his heart, it turned out that he had always loved Ah Lian deeply!

The reason why he deliberately or unintentionally avoided and was unwilling to face his love with Ah Lian was actually because he thought that his family background was not good, and he was a little inferior and unworthy of Ah Lian.

This is just the subconscious in his heart, and he doesn't know it himself, but now that he looks at his heart, he knows what he has been thinking all along.

After listening to Ah Lian's words, although he still thinks that he is not worthy of Ah Lian, as long as Ah Lian is willing, he can marry her, and if her parents do not agree, he will take her away and go to the south to find his parents.

However, after listening to Bian Guifang's words again, he realized that he was still too young and superficial!

Bian Guifang said well, no matter how beautiful love is, it can't withstand the friction of poor life.

"Ah Lian loves me so much, if I can't give her a happy family, why should I marry her? If I can't make the woman I love happy, am I still worthy of being a man? ”

"But how can I become a rich man, make Ah Lian happy, and let her parents look up to me?"