Chapter 111 If you really want to marry a girl, you must give her respect and decency
The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law got together and discussed for an afternoon, and it was not until the sun set that the discussion was finalized.
Duchess Rong Guo's eyebrows and eyes were stretched, and she was in a happy mood, she suddenly remembered what happened back then, so she said to Ming: "When you married the boss, everything was simple, but I wronged you." ”
Ming didn't feel any grievances, she said: "This period is different, naturally it is different, when I got married, there were many things in the court, and no one was allowed to be idle, and it was already good to be able to be a relative banquet guest in peace." ”
"I heard that when my mother and father got married, there were wars everywhere, and I gave a big gift in the morning, and I changed my battle clothes and went to the battlefield in the afternoon, and I didn't even have peace, and my daughter-in-law was already very content."
People who have seen the smoke of war tend to cherish peaceful days more, and their minds are much more open-minded, and they will never care about some trivial things.
When the Ming family was born, the new dynasty had been established, but the Quartet was not stable, and the court was not stable.
Her father died in the battle to quell the war.
So she thinks that the peace and harmony of the family is the most important thing, and she won't care about these things, and the Rongguo Mansion has never treated her badly, and her parents-in-law have never treated her badly.
She has a husband and two children, although the skin is a little skin, but it is also the flesh of her heart.
She was already content.
And as she herself said, the period is different, the treatment is naturally different, this is no way to care, if the current family affairs are still done according to more than ten years ago, then the people outside will laugh at the Guogong Mansion can't be on the stage.
Duchess Rong Guo breathed a sigh of relief: "If you think so, I will be relieved, I'm afraid that you think I love her a little." ”
Ming smiled: "What do I have to do with her, if I am a few years older, I can be her mother." ”
Ming's is already twenty-eight this year, Xie Yixiao is only fifteen, he is thirteen years older, and in a few years older, he can indeed be a mother.
"That's right." Duchess Rong Guo laughed, and she was in a better mood at this time.
She also hopes that the family can be harmonious.
The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law acted quickly, and the next day, the Ming family sent someone to ask the official media about the rules for marrying, and Duchess Rong Guo met with Duchess Cao Guo.
The Mansion of Cao Guo is the maiden home of Emperor Shengwu Empress Cao, and it is also the family of the emperor's maternal ancestor.
However, this Cao Guogong is also gone, and the current Cao Guogong is his son.
Duchess Cao Guo is younger than Duchess Rong Guo, and now she is only in her forties, and although she has a good reputation in the imperial city over the years, she is also low-key.
Duchess Rong Guo didn't talk nonsense with her, and said directly: "I invited you here today to ask you to help me talk about a family and be a matchmaker." ”
"Oh? Say pro? Your youngest son? Mrs. Cao Guo was a little surprised, thinking that Rong Guogong's threshold was about to be stepped on recently, and she didn't know which girl she fell in love with.
"Whose girl is so lucky?"
Duchess Rong Guo said: "I have taken a fancy to the daughter of the Xie family and want to marry my son." ”
This world pays attention to the 'words of the parents' order and the matchmaker', and these may not be taken care of during the war, but the more peaceful and stable the day, the more they pay attention to etiquette, she said that she and her son are completely different things.
If it's the latter, this person thinks in his heart, how do you like it? When did the two meet? Where did you see it? What was done?
This kind of news is very unfavorable to the woman, especially if she marries highly, and those people outside will maliciously guess what scheming the woman used to win the favor of the man, so she married into the high gate in one fell swoop.
even thinks that she may be a very scheming person, talking about her in private, pointing fingers.
If you really want to marry a girl, you should give her respect and decency, let her be beautiful and decent, and not let her fall into all kinds of malicious speculation and gossip.
Therefore, Duchess Rong Guo felt that Rong Ci should not meet Xie Yixiao, so as not to let people see it, and when the time comes, there will be bad words from the relatives.
In this way, it is said that she has taken a fancy to her daughter-in-law, this is the order of her parents, and the people outside can only smile at most Xie Yixiao and be lucky, and the malicious words next to her are rare, and you need to praise a match made in heaven.
"Xie family?" Duchess Cao Guo was stunned, "Xie Ge's old Xie family? ”
"Exactly."
Duchess Cao Guo was really shocked: "You want to marry the daughter of the Xie family for the ninth prince, Your Majesty ...... there"
Duchess Rong Guo said: "Agreed, it's okay." ”
Duchess Cao Guo breathed a sigh of relief: "That's okay, then I'll say it for you." ”
Although the two can be regarded as the same generation, Duchess Rong Guo is ten years older than Duchess Cao Guo, and her identity is also the most noble.
"Which one of the Xie family do you like? The concubine in the second room? ”
"No, what I fancy is the aunt of the daughter-in-law, Xie Thirteen of the Xie family, the one who was raised in Changninghou."
"Xie Thirteen?" Duchess Cao Guo paused, and then said, "That girl is indeed very good, but she has been sick for a long time before, and now I heard that she is getting better, but outsiders don't know how it is." ”
Duchess Rong Guo said: "Don't worry, I saw her when I was in Yunzhong Temple in the past, and I think she is good, and you also know that my little nine was born a little late, and her seniority is relatively high. ”
It's a coincidence, the two happen to be the same generation.
Duchess Cao Guo said: "If this is the case, it can be regarded as fate." ”
Duchess Rong Guo said: "That is, you still need to work hard, I heard that you and Mrs. Xie get along well, just let you invite Mrs. Xie to have a tea, and ask Mrs. Xie in private what she means, if the Xie family is interested, I will work hard for you again." ”
Saying that relatives are not immediately carrying the dowry to the Venerable Master's family to ask for marriage, that is not to say relatives, but to forcibly marry.
Generally speaking, you can ask the other party in private, either by yourself or by asking someone.
If you are intended, you will begin to prepare for three books and six ceremonies, and the two parties will be lively and set the family affairs, and then choose the marriage date to marry, if you have no intention, then no one will know, and it will not damage the reputation of the girl.
Duchess Cao Guo said: "A few days ago, I heard Mrs. Xie mention that she wanted to kiss her sister-in-law, and it was a coincidence, since Your Majesty has approved it, there is no better candidate than your ninth son." ”
"It just so happens that the day after tomorrow I have asked her to go with her to see the new cloth, and when the time comes, I will find an opportunity to ask for you, and you can rest assured that I will definitely take care of this matter."
Duchess Rong Guo laughed: "Then you will be rewarded, if it is successful, I will definitely give you a rich matchmaking gift." ”