Chapter 115: In life, you can't just dwell on love

"Grandmother, wait a minute, let me take a break." She breathed a sigh of relief, calmed herself, and began to think about it.

Duchess Rong Guo likes her very much, and she also knows in her heart that she is a little surprised to want her to be her daughter-in-law, but it is not impossible.

But... But......

"This is what Duchess Rong Guo means? Then the Ninth Prince also agreed? Xie Yixiao asked the doubts in his heart.

Jiang frowned, and Mrs. Xie also thought of this.

If this matter is just the idea of Duchess Rong Guo, and Rong Jiugongzi does not agree at all, there may be some twists and turns in this matter, and when the matter does not work out, it will be humiliating, or even if Rong Jiugongzi is just forced to marry someone back, what will be a good face in the future.

Mrs. Xie pondered for a moment: "It shouldn't be, although I don't know about the Duchess Rongguo, but I won't be so tricky, if the ninth prince doesn't nod, she won't mention this family matter." ”

"If the ninth prince is persecuted, how will she live in the future, maybe these two people will complain about her, she shouldn't do such a brainless thing."

Forcing others to be husband and wife, not having a good time, but not all of them have to blame her, it's simply thankless, and the family will be restless in the future.

Jiang thought about it, she said: "But things still have to be asked clearly, if it is true that the ninth prince nodded and agreed to marry, and Gillian agreed again, I don't have any opinions on my side, Gillian, what do you mean?" ”

Xie Yixiao was a little confused in her heart, and she couldn't make up her mind for a while, she said: "This matter is a bit sudden, I need to be reasonable, you suddenly said that the ninth prince wants to marry me, you can't let me agree now, right?" I always have to think about it......"

"How can you suddenly make a decision about such a big thing as getting married, that is, to buy a box of fat powder, a piece of cloth, and a head flower, all of which are decided after thinking about it, right?"

That's the same thing.

Both Jiang and Mrs. Xie nodded, deciding to let her think about it, and then returned to their seats and sat down.

Mrs. Xie said: "I went back and asked Duchess Rong Guo what the ninth prince meant, after all, he married a wife, and he always had to be willing." ”

"The ninth prince, I will also tell you, I heard that he has been raised in the temple when he was a child, and his temperament is different from that of others, about a little lonely, if you want to talk to him about the wind and snow, the love and sweetness, I am afraid that there is no, this day is about to be ordinary."

"But since he doesn't have those ups and downs in his heart, he won't have so much thought, what you asked for before, I hope that the person you marry will be clean around, and it is best not to have a concubine room, he should be able to do it here."

"The appearance is very good, this son of the Emperor City, if you want to find someone who looks better than him, it is rare."

"People are also calm."

"Your eldest brother and I, as well as your eldest uncle, all think this family affair is good."

Xie Yixiao nodded, indicating that he understood.

Jiang said to Mrs. Xie: "In this way, you first find an opportunity to ask what the ninth prince of Rongguo's mansion means, if he agrees, just see what Gillian means, let her think about it, and think about it for a few more days." ”

Mrs. Xie nodded in response: "That's done." ”

Mrs. Xie sat for a while, and then said goodbye and left, Jiang and Xie Yixiao sent her to the door, and when she left, Xie Yixiao looked at the carriage in the distance, and was still a little in a trance.

The sun fell from the sky, fell on the trees, fell through the leaves to the ground, fell one by one, and swayed when the wind blew.

"Let's go back." Jiang said.

Xie Yixiao nodded, then helped her walk back and returned to Shou'an Hall.

As soon as he sat down, Jiang Shi stretched out his hand and pressed the corner of his forehead, a little tired: "I didn't want to agree to this family affair, people like him are too cold, they won't treat you well in the future, and they won't be considerate of you and care for you." ”

Xie Yi smiled: "Actually, I think it's okay, I always expect others to treat me well, but in fact, it's a bit empty, it's better to treat myself better." ”

"If you say that you are really willing to treat you and have nothing to ask for, often only blood relatives, as for the other half, he is willing to treat you well, then he will continue, if he is unwilling, then he does not ask for it."

"And in life, you can't just be in love, have a good future, be happy, and you can't live."

If you want to ask Xie Yixiao, has she ever liked Rong Ci?

Naturally, there is.

Maybe at some point, she would look up and see him.

But for her, feelings are not all, and she also knows his character very well, knows what he wants in his heart, and what his heart wants.

She only hoped that he would get what he wanted and that his merits would be fulfilled, instead of pestering him.

So she didn't let herself like this person.

As she herself said, people can't just be in love, she is still young, has a great future, has a lot of happiness, and it's not that you can't live without a man, isn't it good to enjoy life?

As for marrying, in this era, it is very difficult for her not to marry, so she still has to marry, as for the object, she also has only one requirement, and it is also the most difficult requirement, she can't take a concubine and can't have a room.

Of course, the character should also be gentle, and you can't hit people.

Life, as long as you can get by.

Jiang Shi paused: "Hearing you say this, do you also think this family affair is good?" Do you know what kind of life you will live in the future if you get married? If you stay alone in an empty room and can't sleep every day, do you know ......"

"How?" Xie Yi smiled and rubbed his hands, "The bed is big enough, maybe you can roll on it, I don't know how comfortable it is, how do you like someone to squeeze with me?" ”

"If it's cold, add an extra quilt, and then burn a brazier or burn an earth dragon, it's also very warm."

Jiang's face turned green: "What are you talking about?" Could it be that the person who doesn't marry is just an ornament? ”

"Not really." Xie Yixiao explained in a low voice, "I just think that the most difficult thing is like that, if it is like that, I can get through it, and I don't think there is anything unacceptable." ”

The most unacceptable thing for her is that her husband and wife have a group of concubines, serving a husband with others, and playing house fights all day long.

If it's an ornament, it's no different from not getting married, it's just like a person living a happy life, it's a big deal who meets true love in the future, and then breaks up in two, and separates.

Jiang was silent for a long time: "Listen to what you mean, do you think it's okay?" Have you figured it out? If it is decided, it cannot be reversed. ”

Xie Yi paused with a smile, lowered his eyes, and then said, "If the ninth prince is willing to marry, I think it's good." ”

If he didn't dislike her for bothering him, she would think it would be good.