Chapter 118: If you promise her love, then give her love
Rong Ci really has no bottom in his heart, since he responded to this incident, he feels like he is suspended in mid-air, and he can't fall into place.
I wonder if she will say yes?
and thought about how they would get along in the future if they agreed, and how could he not annoy her with such a temperament?
This is to be a husband and wife, and he feels that it is much more difficult than him being a prince.
After all, as long as he does a good job as a royal servant, makes those people surrender, and then sets up good rules, the rewards that should be rewarded and the punishments that should be punished, and he can't treat the meritorious people badly, nor can he let the rebels go.
Rong Xun coughed twice: "You want to marry Miss Xie, I know, congratulations here, as for getting along, you can't copy others, people with different personalities naturally get along differently." ”
"With a temperament like yours, if you talk more enthusiastically, or say sweet words, it's really difficult for a strong person, just get along with each other normally."
"You should have gotten along with Miss Xie before, and she didn't think you had anything bad about you, and she didn't feel impatient, did she?"
Rong Ci recalled that he and Xie Yixiao had contact twice, once in Yunzhong Temple, and the other time in Chunting Garden, and the chat seemed to be quite good, she didn't seem to be in a bad mood, and she didn't feel unhappy to stay with him.
"You can get along with each other how you want, and when you have free time, you can play chess and drink tea together, find some pastime, and then talk about some topics that the two of you find interesting, and that's pretty much it."
"If you don't understand, then just keep silent, just listen quietly, don't feel impatient." Let us learn from the past, this should be carefully advised.
"But you must always care about her, ask for warmth, give more gifts, give whatever you see good, there are not too many good things, no matter how much you say, you haven't done it really."
When Rong Ci heard him say this, he had some understanding at that time.
Personality is not the key, it's not the key not to coax people, he won't say anything sweet, but he can care more about her, buy her more, accompany her more, be patient, and do better than talk.
Rong Jiugongzi had a bottom in his heart, and secretly breathed a sigh of relief, feeling that he had found a way, and he also knew how to go in the future.
"Thank you, big brother, I understand."
Rong Xun wanted to laugh a little, but it was not good to laugh at him, after all, everyone was a husband for the first time, and he had to explore how to do it, and he himself had to step on a lot of pits before he understood.
said that he was cold, he still remembered to learn how to treat people after marrying his wife, and wanted people to be happy, and many people were married and it was over, as for whether the other party was happy or not, whether he was doing well or not, it didn't matter.
"It's good that you can think like that." Rong Xun took a sip of tea, "In the past, when I married your sister-in-law, my mother told me that when I got married, some of them were for affection, and some were for profit. ”
"If you promise her love, then you have to give her love, and you can't be negative in your life, if it's for profit, just to marry the good of the two families, then give her the position of a wife, give her respect, that is, you take a few more concubines, as long as you don't spoil the concubine and kill the wife, it is all appropriate."
"The former is not allowed to take concubines, and the latter is arbitrary."
"My sister-in-law and you, although it can't be called a deep relationship between men and women, but we have grown up together since childhood, compared to the love between men and women, it is more of an inseparable family relationship, so for me, she can't be negative either."
So he never thought of taking a concubine in his life, and it was already extremely lucky to be able to stay with her and live a good life in this life.
As for those loves, he may not understand them very well.
Rong Ci nodded: "What the eldest brother means, I understand." ”
Rong Xun smiled again: "That's it, what's the use of telling you this, it's not easy for you to marry one back, and don't even think about taking a concubine." ”
"But it's also troublesome if there are more women, there are a lot of wives and concubines, just look at those inner house battles, it's too annoying, if you have such strength, it's better to do more things."
Rong Ci nodded again: "What the eldest brother said is extremely true." ”
He thought to himself, this one is going to be worried, if there are a few more, it won't be all sad to death, it will definitely not work.
And what should I do if Miss Xie is unhappy?
So whether it's for yourself or for Miss Xie, you can't take a concubine.
The two brothers had a conversation about how to treat their wife, and after Rong Ci calmly left here, he relaxed a lot, feeling that the leaves were green, and the sky was clear, like a stone pressing on his heart had finally been moved.
On the way, he met Rong Ting again, Rong Ting was a little depressed, and his spirit was not very good.
The last time Liao Wanxi stopped Rong Xi halfway, it still reached the ears of Duchess Rong Guo, and Duchess Rong Guo called Liao and Liao Wanxi to reprimand her, and Liao turned around and took Liao Wanxi back to Liao's house.
If it weren't for Duchess Rong Guo to let Rong Qing stop, Rong Qing would have brought her over.
And it's been almost a month now, and Rong Ting has invited him three times, but he hasn't picked anyone up.
"Third brother."
"Ninth brother."
The two said hello, and then they staggered to each other, and glanced at his back, not thinking he was pitiful, perhaps, a little unlucky.
Thinking of the grievances between the Liao family and the Xie family, he paused again.
Maybe he and this third brother will not have a good relationship in the future.
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Two days later, Mrs. Xie met with Duchess Cao Guo again, saying that the Xie family and the Marquis of Changning both wanted to know whether this was the meaning of Duchess Rong Guo alone, or if Prince Rong Jiu also nodded.
Duchess Cao Guo simply asked Duchess Rong Guo to invite her and let the two of them talk about it themselves.
Duchess Rong Guo was most concerned about this matter at the moment, so she came quickly.
After listening to Mrs. Xie's words, she smiled: "Naturally, he nodded, although it is said that this marriage is a major event, but since you want to be a husband and wife, you can't always let the elders press their heads and let them be together, if so, where is the day of peace?" ”
"Don't worry, although I like your girl very much, I can't hurt other girls for a lifetime because I like them."
When Mrs. Xie heard this, her heart was relieved at the moment: "That's great, I smiled and said before, if I want to ask if the ninth prince nodded, if the ninth prince nodded, then we agreed." ”
Duchess Rong Guo also laughed when she heard this: "That's a coincidence, they thought of a place, our family Xiaojiu also said that we need to ask Miss Xie what she means, if Miss Xie agrees herself, this thing can be done." ”
Duchess Cao Guo smiled: "Is this considered a good couple, and you have a good match?" ”
The three of them looked at each other, and then they all laughed.