Chen Huifen felt that she had found someone who thought the same as herself, and she was also excited that the beautiful and rich-looking woman in front of her could have the same thoughts as herself.

Look, such a rich young man thinks the same thing as himself.

Jiang Sui curled his lips lightly, "You're right, all parents want their children to become a very good person." But it's not good to impose your imagination too much on your children. ”

Chen Huifen: "I don't really understand what you mean. ”

Her eating action also stopped in place, not quite understanding.

Jiang Sui looked at Lu Xuanxuan in the ring in front of him and said slowly: "Even if you are a child, you are an independent individual. We can try to nurture their excellence and make them a better person. But this kind of thing can't be forced. It's good that she's happy to get that far, but if she doesn't. As parents, there is no need to force it. ”

Chen Huifen shook her head, "You are wrong, how can they work hard if you don't force them, and how can they be better if you don't exert pressure." Many children are like toothpaste, squeezing it before moving. If you don't squeeze it, he'll probably be lazy. ”

Jiang Sui: "It's true that there is such a situation as you said, but what if she really can't do it or is unwilling to do it?" ”

Chen Huifen was stunned for a moment, "Of course he was forced to do it, how can he do it if he doesn't want to do it?" ”

Jiang Sui smiled faintly, "But when you forced her to do what you wanted her to do and achieve the excellence you imagined, did you ever think that in fact, as her mother, you may not have reached her imagination?" What she wants, is it a mother like you? Or is it a better and more perfect mother? ”

She looked at Chen Huifen.

Chen Huifen was slightly stunned for a moment by Jiang Sui's words.

And Jiang Sui's eyes and the aura on her body at the moment also made Chen Huifen sink down and think seriously.

"No, she's my daughter, we're different. Parents want their daughters to be better than themselves. She retorted.

"What's the difference?" Jiang Sui asked rhetorically, "You are also the daughter of your parents, you are all the same, and children and parents should be equal." ”

Chen Huifen frowned, and her expression darkened.

"That's not the case...... she felt that there seemed to be no way to refute what Jiang Sui said, but she felt that it shouldn't be like this.

Jiang Sui continued slowly: "I also hope that my children will be better, better than me." But if he doesn't want to, or ...... There is still a long way to go before it is overdue. I'm not going to force him either. ”

Her eloquent tone made Chen Huifen involuntarily listen to what she said.

"I accept my child's mediocrity as he accepts my mediocrity. In this world, there are always parents who are better than us, and there are parents who make their children like more than us.

Since none of my children are demanding too much of me, why should I impose what I want on him? ”

She continued unhurriedly: "After all, if my child is in trouble, a big reason may be because our family is not as good as her parents. Since I couldn't provide her with a better shelter myself, my children accepted me like this, such parents. So why can't I accept his mediocrity? ”