Chapter 661

Chen Bo drank beer while looking at Guan Chuxia who was speaking softly, although she deliberately spoke very slowly, but Chen Bo could hear that every sentence and word was like a hammer hitting a steel drill, and at the same time, it was also deeply embedded in Chen Bo's heart.

“…… If you can bring benefits and value to others, this relationship does not require much effort, friendship, love, family affection, if you can't bring benefits and value to others, no matter how hard you work, you are not worth mentioning in front of them, so when you do not have the interests and values that the other party needs, and you care about the relationship very much, you can only use the consumption of yourself as a price. ”

"Naturally, you will be humble, so flattery, groveling, and flattering servants will come out, when your ability is insufficient, you care about those things that you shouldn't care about, this is the root cause of your pain, and some people call this emotion internal friction, you can't provide Xiaoyan with a better platform than Guilu Group now, you want her to give up, or under the banner of being good for her, how can she be willing?"

"Chen Bo, from now on, you have to think about a question clearly, and always remind yourself that as an individual person, you are limited, and if you don't understand this, you will try your best to do things beyond your ability and put your own blood to help your relatives and friends, which is not worth ......"

The stupidest behavior of people is to try to change others, the more you think about being good for others, the more others will hate you, the more you think that precious things may be worthless in the eyes of the other party, human nature is self-righteous, no one wants to change themselves because of you, unless you can give him the benefits he wants, otherwise your preaching is not even as good as a fart.

Chen Bo was speechless, but he felt in a trance that what Guan Chuxia said was really right.

Chen Bo got up and poured a glass of water for her, he felt that Guan Chuxia was talking a little too much tonight, and he must be thirsty.

She continued:

A lot of things are inherent in human nature, very stubborn, extremely stupid, paranoid to the bone marrow.

If there is no major setback in life, 80% of people will not have a real awakening, let alone change.

Therefore, smart people rarely educate and persuade others, even if they are related by blood, such as our future children, me, your partner, your parents, including Xiaoyan, you can talk about it, she will listen to it, and if she doesn't listen, she will pull it down.

As for the others, then you don't even have to say it, you nod your head and it's over when he says something.

Human nature is like this, and it is impossible for people to be changed.

So, don't try to teach your child to study hard unless he realizes the importance of learning, don't try to convince your partner to work hard, don't try to convince your parents to give up the old ideas unless he has figured it out himself.

Personal cognitive awakening does not occur when the years are quiet, and if you have not experienced the beating of society, the ruthlessness of reality, the pressure of money, the unbearable love, the sinister heart of people, and the deception of emotions, this person will never mature.

He is just a giant baby, even if he is not confused, even full of gray hair, no one can make a stubborn person reborn and change his fate, only suffering, poverty, lovelorn, bankruptcy, and debt can make people gradually sober up and change.

In the face of stubborn people, you must always remain silent, do not persuade, do not reason, do not go to the so-called good for him, your kindness and kindness will only make others disgusted with you, and will only increase your own troubles and consume your life energy.

Chen Bo, you just need to remember that you are limited, and you can't save anyone.

If in the future, when I persuade you like you persuaded Chen Xiaoyan, you tell me these words, remind me, and we remind each other, okay, so that there will be a lot less contradictions between us.

People in this life is very short, one day less than one day, and may face unexpected natural and man-made disasters, once one party leaves first, look back and think, if there are not many happy days, and they are busy trying their best to change each other, will they regret it, will they feel that it is not worth it?

Chen Bo was in awe of Guan Chuxia's open-mindedness and transparency, and couldn't help but stand up, standing opposite Guan Chuxia, his hands hanging down, and bowing respectfully.

"What?" Guan Chuxia was stunned for a moment and asked.

"The lady's words made me suddenly enlightened, and I felt that I had lived in vain in the first half of my life, for this, for that, I never remembered what I wanted."

Chen Bo sat back on the sofa and tilted towards Guan Chuxia, who moved slightly to the side, letting him lie on his lap.

"I said this today, but I didn't want to change your meaning, I just felt it and missed my dad." Guan Chuxia's hand rubbed back and forth on Chen Bo's chin, and needle-like stubble came out again in a day's time.

Chen Bo had just reached out to touch the softness that was close at hand, and the mobile phone rang untimely.

Guan Chuxia stretched out his hand and touched it to see that it was Zu Wenjun calling.

Guan Chuxia was not polite and answered directly.

"Sister-in-law, it's so late, is there something wrong?" Guan Chuxia cleared her throat and asked.

"Chen Bo, you tell him that Bai Yongnian has been extubated, you want to see him, and let him come to the hospital when you have time." Zu Wenjun said.

"Okay, I see, he's taking a shower."

"Okay, that's it, good night." Zu Wenjun hung up after speaking.

When Chen Bo heard this, he opened his eyes and looked at Guan Chuxia's face, looking up at Guan Chuxia's face from this angle, it was not good-looking at all, and it was a little ugly, this is the baby's perspective.

"You hear me."

"I heard you, you're telling lies now, but you're just opening your mouth." Chen Bo slowly sat up with the help of Guan Chuxia.

"Otherwise, what else can I say, if you are idle, I will answer your phone and make you lose face, I understand this measure." Guan Chuxia playfully stuck out his tongue and said.

Chen Bo is very clear in his heart, Guan Chuxia has always been wary of Zu Wenjun's good impression of him, in fact, she is really worried, for Yu Wenlan, he can manipulate it with a revenge mentality, but for Zu Wenjun, he just dares to look at it twice, and he doesn't dare to do anything superfluous.

Chen Bo settled down and went to bed in early summer, and he didn't know when he would come back.

When he arrived at the hospital, in a separate ward, Bai Yongnian looked at the ceiling alone, not knowing what he was thinking.

Chen Bo walked over, pulled a chair and sat down, and handed Bai Yongnian's mobile phone into his hand, his face was very calm, from Chen Bo's eyes, Bai Yongnian knew that everything was irreparable.