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came to the day when Dong Yong's father, director and Dong Yong's mother, Gu Yueyue, got married.

Under the arrangement of Dong Yong's grandfather Gu Tianle, some relatives and friends of Gu Tianle came from the brother family of Dong Yong's grandfather, Dong Yong's grandfather, Dong Sanmu, who raised Dong Yong's father...... took the director over and married Dong Yong's mother, Gu Yueyue.

Because Dong Yong's grandfather Gu Tianle was also forced to recruit a "door-to-door son-in-law", he didn't have the idea of doing a happy event, so he just asked some relatives and friends to ...... from the brother of Dong Yong's grandfather, Dong Yong's grandfather, Dong Sanmu, who raised Dong Yong's father and director took the director over and married Dong Yong's mother, Gu Yueyue.

Poor Dong Yong's father, director!

In this way, I missed the "raising the head of the man" that many people do not necessarily have in their lifetime [In the old days, on the day of the enrichment, the four-person sedan chair was prepared by the woman's family, and the pedestrian deacon was used to welcome the groom, commonly known as "raising the head of the lang". Or the day before pressed by the woman's house, staying in the new house, on the first day, the sedan chair is advocated, carrying the bride to the god side of the party, like the man's family to marry, to the door of the church. There are also brides who do not sit in a sedan chair, and men and women will be married in the church. Etiquette and rituals are simple. 】。

Dong Yong's father director is pitiful enough, right?

And then what?

Then, naturally, they were married in the church.

Chapel, a ritual for weddings in the old days. At the time of the wedding, the bride visits her aunt. In the Tang Dynasty, it was already called this name, and the Song Dynasty and the wedding day after the fifth watch of the bride's worship. In modern times, it is also called the bride and groom to worship the worship ceremony, and the Haining area of Zhejiang Province is called the male family to worship the heaven and earth three times before the candle when they greet their relatives. After the bride and groom enter the door, they will then "worship the church", also known as "worship heaven and earth". The place of worship is generally in front of the door of the cave room, and an offering table is set up, on which there is a tablet for the prince of heaven and earth. Behind the offering table hangs the ancestral mantle. After the bride and groom are in place. Led by two male guests, they perform three kneeling and nine bows, and pay homage to heaven and earth, ancestors and parents. Then the women in the east and the men in the west, the husband and wife bow to each other. The same area of Yanbei University. The bridegroom bows at the church. But the bride did not worship. It's very different from the common thing.

It is said that it began in the Tang Dynasty, from the royal family to the Shishu, and it was widely practiced. After the Song Dynasty. Popular throughout the country, worship for heaven and earth, ancestors, aunts (in-laws), and husband and wife worship, indicating that the woman has become a member of the male family, so it has become the most important gift in the wedding process. In addition to respecting and worshiping the ancestors of heaven and earth, it is also necessary to worship the relatives and friendly guests of the Bi family. After the village visits the ancestral hall on the second day of the wedding, it is still necessary to visit the neighbors of the village party, and the wedding is established.

However, who can say the origin of many things?

Who can guarantee that there was no custom of worshipping before this?

Could it be that the custom of worshipping in the church already existed in the era when Dong Yong's father and director lived, but the customs and habits of the worship hall before that were not as cumbersome as they were later?

It is said that there is also a set of procedures for getting married. When the sedan chair stops in front of the hall and the bridesmaids invited by the man stand in front of the sedan chair, the ceremony begins. On the incense table, cigarette smoke is swirling, red candles are burning, relatives, friends, and staff are in place. The two appeared as "Praise" and "Tongzan" respectively and began to praise. The bride and groom begin their worship by the salutation of the induction and the praise.

It is said that the ritual procedure of the worship can be like this. ：

Citation: The bridegroom is in the seat (standing in front of the sedan chair...... Tongzan: Start the sedan chair, the newcomer starts. ...... Citation: The groom bows (invites the bride...... Citation: The bride and groom are in place (before the incense case...... Musical Sound...... Tongzan: The bride and groom (to the shrine and ancestral tablet) into the incense candles...... Citation: Kneel, offer incense and candles. Bright candles, burning incense, incense, prostration, xing, flat body reset. ...... Tongzan: Kneel, kowtow, kowtow, kowtow, kowtow, prostrate. Then, it is the traditional "three worships" - "one worship heaven and earth, two worship parents, husband and wife worship each other" after the most "introduction of the cave house". This concludes the worship service.

However, no matter how complicated the marriage procedure is, the marriage procedure between Dong Yong's father, director and Dong Yong's mother, Gu Yueyue, is simple. The reason why Dong Yong's father, director and Dong Yong's mother Gu Yueyue, got married, is simply because the director belongs to the "door-to-door son-in-law" and "inverted door", Dong Yong's grandfather Gu Tianle is "recruiting sons-in-law", and Dong Yong's grandfather Gu Tianle is "recruiting sons-in-law" This kind of thing is a measure of last resort, Dong Yong's grandfather Gu Tianle did not have the idea of the marriage of Dong Yong's father director and Dong Yong's mother Gu Yueyue, and the happy event of Dong Yong's father director and Dong Yong's mother Gu Yueyue getting married had to be simple.

It is estimated that if Dong Yong's grandfather Gu Tianle has a son and marries a daughter-in-law, Gu Tianle's approach may be different. It is estimated that Gu Tianle is going to spread a lot of joy and invite relatives and friends to participate in the happy event in his (that is, Dong Yong's grandfather Gu Tianle). Wouldn't it be impossible to call all those who were related to each other, wouldn't it be impossible to think about it if it wasn't lively and lively? Where is it like the happy event of Dong Yong's father director and Dong Yong's mother Gu Yueyue getting married, Dong Yong's grandfather Gu Tianle just called some close relatives and friends, and the total total was only three or four tables.

Again, no matter how cumbersome the procedures of the worship hall are. Dong Yong's father, director and Dong Yong's mother, Gu Yueyue, when they got married, the chapel was also simple.

For what?

is also because the director belongs to the "door-to-door son-in-law" and "inverted door", Dong Yong's grandfather Gu Tianle is "recruiting a son-in-law", Dong Yong's grandfather Gu Tianle is a last resort measure for "recruiting a son-in-law", Dong Yong's grandfather Gu Tianle did not have the lively idea of Dong Yong's father director and Dong Yong's mother Gu Yueyue getting married, and the worship ceremony of Dong Yong's father director and Dong Yong's mother Gu Yueyue getting married was also perfunctory and ended.

Subsequently, Dong Yong's father, director and Dong Yong's mother, Gu Yueyue, were sent into the cave room.

Even if the procedure for Dong Yong's father director and Dong Yong's mother Gu Yueyue to marry is simple, the etiquette of Dong Yong's father director and Dong Yong's mother Gu Yueyue is perfunctory, and a glass of wine must still be drunk.

"A glass of wine": This is a traditional ritual in China's wedding procedures, in ancient times, it was also called "He" (the meaning of 卺 was originally a gourd divided into two scoops), the ancient saying has "Heyi and 醑", Kong Yingda explained that "a gourd is divided into two scoops, and the son-in-law and the woman each hold a piece of the mouth (that is, to drink the mouth), and the combination is extended to the meaning of marriage."

It is said that this custom originated in the pre-Qin period, in addition to the Tang Dynasty ten in addition to the use of floating as a wine vessel, can also be replaced by a cup, to the Song Dynasty, the newlyweds drink a glass of wine with two wine glasses, first drink half of the wine and then change the cup to drink, after drinking, the wine glass is thrown under the bed one straight and one back, in order to show a hundred years after marriage. At the end of the Qing Dynasty, the ceremony of handing over the glass of wine has developed into three parts: "merging", "handing over the cup" and "holding money". In today's wedding ceremonies, the ritual of "pressing the cup under the bed" has been abolished, and the "holding money" has been replaced by "throwing paper flowers", but the etiquette of "handing over a glass of wine" is still practiced.

Wine exchange at the wedding: In order to show that the husband and wife love each other, the husband and wife each hold a glass of wine at the wedding, and each drink a sip of their hands together.

Dong Yong's father, director and Dong Yong's mother, Gu Yueyue, drank a glass of wine.

Next, is it possible for Dong Yong's father, director, and Dong Yong's mother, Gu Yueyue, to "make a hole in the room"? (To be continued......)