This story is both cliché and bloody, and after reading it, Zhang Xingzu's little girl is a little afraid of marriage.

This general is not famous in history, and the only thing that is special is that he married a county lord of Dali.

At that time, it was the middle of the Song Dynasty, and the relationship between the Great Song Dynasty and Dali was close and harmonious, and the general guarded the border between the two countries and had many contacts with the Duan royal family.

The young general is handsome and chic, the lord of Dali is lively and beautiful, and the two of them are secretly in love.

But because the county lord's mother is from the Bai nationality, the family advocates monogamy, and even the county lord's grandfather has never taken a concubine.

Therefore, the Duan family was not optimistic about the Song Dynasty people who advocated the style of taking concubines, and several elder brothers of the county lord also said that it was okay to be friends with the general, but it was not okay to marry their sisters.

Men and women in love are affectionate, where can they listen to the dissuasion of their families?

The general knelt in the palace for 3 days and 3 nights, swore a curse and swore that he would never fail the county lord for the rest of his life.

The innocent little county lord also went on a hunger strike and cried, and finally the prince who was still grinding was soft-hearted and agreed to the marriage.

The two are talented and beautiful, and they are free to fall in love as deep as the sea, which should have been a happy story.

And they did live two years of honey and oil, and the general even felt sorry for his wife's young age, afraid that he would hurt his body by giving birth to a child early, and asked the government doctor to prescribe him a decoction of male contraception.

It is difficult to find such an affectionate man in the world, the Duan brothers are more and more satisfied with the general, and the Duan prince is more and more generous to his son-in-law.

The general is also a filial person, and often asks people to send those gold, silver and jewelry to Bianjing to honor their widowed mother.

The general's mother felt sorry for her son's suffering at the border, where was she willing to enjoy those good things.

entrusted the relationship to point it out, so as to change a better future for his son.

Things were indeed as the old lady expected, a lot of gold, silver and jewelry were scattered, and naturally the money had to be expressed.

Soon the general's transfer reached the border pass, and he was appointed commander of the forbidden army!

Although he was only promoted by half a grade, he was in Bianjing, and he was a Beijing official, and the chances of promotion were much more than those of foreign appointments.

The general didn't know that this was his mother's operation, and thought it was just an arrangement by the imperial court, and after handing over the work, he took the county lord back to Kyoto.

The general is stationed at the border pass and cannot leave without permission, so they got married in Dali, because the old lady has never been here because of the long distance, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law only usually send letters to greet.

This is the first time that the county lord has been to Kyoto in the Great Song Dynasty, although there are many inconveniences in her living habits, but she is cheerful and kind by nature and does not want to embarrass the general, so she has been trying to adapt.

The general's mother is not such a tricky and ruthless person, although she has some complaints about her son marrying a foreign daughter in Dali, but she also knows that the county lord is not wrong.

And it was only with other people's gold, silver and jewelry that he was promoted, but he didn't think about grinding his daughter-in-law!

It's a pity that the two live in different environments, and their cognitive bias about many things is huge.

The county lord suddenly came to the dry Bianjing from the warm and humid Dali, and he always felt unwell, but unfortunately he couldn't diagnose any symptoms!

It's just that it's not adaptable to the soil and water, and it's good to get used to it slowly.

And the old lady still has to go over to the cloth at noon every day, which makes the little county lord physically and mentally exhausted, and it is inevitable that he is a little depressed and smiles reluctantly.

And the old lady is also full of grievances!

People's daughters-in-law wake up in the morning and wait for her mother-in-law to freshen up every day with a basin.

She is tolerant enough to understand her daughter-in-law's distant marriage, and only let her make two chopsticks and dishes at noon every day, but she still has a drooping face and no smile, which makes people unlucky to look at.

The general's new official was busy with things, and he was so tired that he fell asleep every day, and he couldn't care about comforting his aggrieved wife, and the little county lord felt that life was getting more and more difficult.

The old lady's dissatisfaction also deepened, and she began to hear that her daughter-in-law was unwell and invited a doctor to come and see her.

The doctors all said that there was nothing wrong with her, and she looked like she was going to die and live every day, didn't she just don't want to serve her mother-in-law?

Both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law felt wronged, but they chose to endure each other for the sake of family harmony!

The general felt sorry for both his wife and his mother, and besides, neither of them was wrong, and he didn't know what to do.

When his mother served his grandmother, he waited at the door before dawn every day, making tea, pouring water, pinching his shoulders and beating his back, and never dared to slack off!

Now just letting the county lord serve a lunch is indeed very loving.

But looking at his wife, who looked haggard and had lost a lot of weight, the general couldn't say anything to blame.

Even he, a martial arts practitioner, was still a little uncomfortable when he first returned to Kyoto, not to mention the delicate county lord, and it was indeed a little difficult for her to go to serve her mother to eat every day.

In the end, the old lady couldn't bear the general's troubles, so she exempted the county lord from serving lunch, but she buried resentment in her heart.

There is a saying that if you are not afraid of no good things, you are afraid of no good people, and the old lady usually participates in some official wives' gatherings.

And a group of women got together, and the topic was not only clothes, jewelry, but sons and grandsons!

There are such jealous generals who marry rich daughters-in-law's wives and sow discord, saying that the general has no children after three years of marriage, and it is very important to take concubines and spread the branches!

The old lady didn't want people to see the joke, so she could only defend her daughter-in-law, saying that she was looking for a good one and hadn't met a good one.

After going back, he told the county lord about it, and asked her to take a concubine for the general as soon as possible, so as not to be talked about by others.

To say that the old lady is also kind, because the atmosphere of the Song Dynasty was indeed like this at that time.

If you don't have many heirs, you don't give your husband a concubine is a dereliction of duty for your wife, and she will be laughed at outside.

But for the county lord, these words are like a sharp knife stuck in his heart!

She usually sends gold, silver and jewelry in order to please her mother-in-law, and after her body adapts to the environment, she also learns to go to the morning and dusk provinces, why is her mother-in-law so viciously letting her give her husband to other women?

The county lord resolutely refused to give the general a concubine, the old lady was very angry, and the two women who were peaceful on the surface fell into a cold war!

If you want to say the worst, it's the general!

He thought that his mother wanted him to take a concubine because the county lord had never given birth to a child, so he told his mother about taking birth control pills!

In fact, he originally meant to tell his mother that the county lord was not unable to give birth, so there was no need to take a concubine, but after hearing this, the old lady almost spurted out a mouthful of blood, scolding the county lord for poisoning her own man so much.

The old lady was so angry this time that she couldn't afford to get sick, claiming that the general would be unfilial if she didn't take a concubine, and she refused to see her son again.

The general could not but plead with the county lord, and a concubine casually was regarded as appeasing the old lady, and he promised not to touch the woman, but just to make a show.

The county lord felt sorry for the general's embarrassment and finally compromised, but she would never give her a man a concubine, and the old lady would not stop her if she wanted to accept her!

The old lady thought that the county lord was strong and jumped, and she was about to choose a gentle and caring person for her son, so she took a small official's sister as a concubine.

Where does the county lord understand the rules of the Central Plains, if it is a cheap concubine, she can kill and sell at will, but the concubine is a serious second-room lady, and she can follow her mother-in-law to the banquet to participate in the housekeeper.

She was angry for a while, and she actually buried a big disaster for herself!

The general felt ashamed of the county lord and had not been to the concubine's room, but the young couple had been better for a while.

But the noble concubine was not a fuel-efficient lamp, and when she saw that the general ignored her, she was bent on flattering and currying favor with the old lady.

In contrast, the old lady was even more disgusted with the county lord who bullied her son, so she handed over the housekeeping power to the noble concubine Yulian.