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Chapter 785 has nothing to live in and gives birth to its heart

Toheko continued: "You see, you know that the boss scolding you and your girlfriend inviting you are two different things, and you also know that scolding your girlfriend will not help you change your situation, and even ruin your relationship with your girlfriend in turn. You also know that it's okay to spend some time with her to explain it. You know exactly what to do. But at the moment when something actually happens, you choose the most inappropriate mode of mind and body, which is not actually what you 'choose', but you are 'used' -- you are still using the body and mind pattern of fear and anger just now. Your mind is still 'dwelling' in that pattern and cannot be liberated. Therefore, there is a suitable mode to choose from, but the most unsuitable mode is chosen, and the physical and mental mode used cannot correspond to the facts, so the whole thing is naturally messed up. It's just because 'there is a place to live and a heart is born'. Then you should know by now what it means to 'live without a dwelling place and give birth to its heart'. ”

Seeing that the Falymouth on the other side still looked a little demented that he couldn't turn around, Donghezi had to make his words clear: "If you want to talk about the depths of ''giving birth to your heart without dwelling', it will have to talk about a lot, and I can only use your things as an example to tell you about the most superficial layer: if you have no place to live, when you see that the things you are facing have changed and have become another thing, then your heart will not 'live' in the physical and mental mode of troubles and resentment just now, and you will naturally know how to deal with it more appropriately, this is ' and give birth to their hearts'. It won't help you improve your relationship with your boss at this point, but at least it won't make things worse, and it won't damage another because of one thing. This is the function of 'giving birth to the mind without dwelling'. Therefore, 'not dwelling' is the ability, and with this ability, 'giving birth to its mind', it can better choose the appropriate mode of physical and mental operation, that is, the physical and mental state to deal with things. ”

Falymouth seemed to understand a little, but still said: "But ~~ I really couldn't help it at that time! I was really annoyed!" I heard Donghezi laugh lightly: "That's because you have been 'living'! You 'don't live' in the original irritable physical and mental operation mode, isn't it over? Where do you need to 'endure'? Since there is 'forbearance', then there is 'forbearance'." You are in great pain during the whole process, so how can you be at ease? I knew that you would be like this, so I kept emphasizing the ability of 'not dwelling'! The key is whether or not you can discover this kind of 'ability' of your own! If you really can't, just think about the three things I just told you -- First, are they the same thing as this matter? Second, if they are different things, do you really help them if you treat them with the physical and mental mode you use to treat them? On the contrary, does it really help them? Third, is there a more appropriate mind-body model for dealing with this? If so, why not?"

Falimouth frowned and said, "This is 'living without living and giving birth to his heart'?" but he saw Donghezi on the other side and smiled: "Don't make a mistake about it - 'living without living' is not this set of ideas, but the ability you have in itself! This is called 'pointing to the moon', my three thoughts are 'hands', and the ability to 'live without dwelling' that you have that you have undiscovered is 'moon'. In fact, my three thoughts are also a set of physical and mental patterns, and it is useless to forcibly suppress my resentment if you cling to my pattern. Because 'suppression' means that your pattern of resentment is still working, and you are just holding on. Since there is forbearance, there is a time when 'forbearance is unbearable'. Or endure it, but it ruins one's body and mind. It's all 'dead in mode.'" And what I mean by this is that the 'three thoughts' model guides you to explore and discover your own ability to 'live without dwelling' in the real world, so that you can transcend the one-qiē mind-body model and use the one-qiē mind-body model. That's when I slowly realized that 'doing nothing and doing nothing'. Okay, this is the most superficial layer, let's go back and try it first. Try to understand before you can talk about the next level. Otherwise, even if I talk a lot about the situation where every subtle thought or subtle change has no place to live, it will be useless to you. Because your ability is not out, no matter how I speak, it will be empty words, clichés, and nonsense. And if your ability is to come out, then you must slowly explore it yourself in practice. The next time something happens to you, you'll have to figure it out on your own. ”

Farymouth frowned more and more, "How can I figure it out? But when he saw the opposite Donghezi, he shook his head and said, "If you don't make this mistake, you will annoy other mistakes." The next time you scold you again, and then you see that you can't eat good food, you can't sleep well in a comfortable big bed, and you always have heavy feet when you walk on a smooth road. In fact, your 'not eating well, sleeping well, walking well' will not help solve your problems, but will ruin your body, your mind, and your relationships - and it will make the whole situation worse. Isn't this exactly the kind of 'having a dwelling and giving birth to its mind'? Obviously he is already facing other things, but he is still using the same pattern just now. Therefore, those who practice this "Diamond Sutra of Breaking the Diamond Sutra" say: When you practice, you need to work hard, and the work is to eat when you are hungry and sleep when you are sleepy. It seems to be the same as ordinary people, but ordinary people refuse to eat properly when they should eat, but they have to think about it in every way, and when they should sleep, they don't sleep with peace of mind, and they have to think about it in every way. Without it, it is only because the practitioner is groping for how to 'give birth to his mind without dwelling' in everything, giving up unnecessary patterns, and finally choosing a suitable mode, and that ability to 'give up' is the ability to 'live without dwelling', while ordinary people are always tightly imprisoned and enslaved by other modes that are not suitable in everything. Isn't it ridiculous to be in the same way that we are already dealing with the latter thing, but we are still using the pattern of the former, as if we are facing a big river and should be crossing it by boat, but still rushing forward in a chariot on the landing road? The problem is that when all the people are absurd together, they feel that they are not absurd with each other. Just like most of the madmen in the madhouse don't think they're crazy to each other, if they really realize that they're crazy, then they'll naturally go to the Tao. This is because crazy people are people who are very strict with their 'use', and they are very thorough 'people'! And the first thing you cultivate in your cultivation is your ability to 'not use' and the ability to 'give up'. That's the key difference. ”

Seeing that Falimouth's eyes were dilated and his expression was drowsy, as if he had been hit by the 'Chronic Confusion Mantra', Donghezi said helplessly: "If you really can't do it, bring this "Neng Broken Diamond Sutra" with you, just read it more if you have nothing to do, and see if you have any luck to hit some chances." ”

Confused, Falymouth quickly excused himself and walked to the dark mountain city road in the dark night, and the melancholy, loss and irritability in his heart came back to him again, and he really felt that his steps were heavy and the houses around him were hazy. Alas~~ Is this 'having a place to live and giving birth to its heart'? It is probably 'not good to walk when walking'. According to the theory of 'having nothing to live and giving birth to one', it seems that we should let go of all these melancholy, loss and irritability, and face these streets and houses in a daily mode.

But ~~ I really can't put it down!! alas~~ Forget it~~

Along the dark and cold stone road, passing through the narrow streets with sparse street lamps and hazy magical light, and taverns and spell shops with different smells, I gradually walked to the edge of a small park on the mountainside, looking at the dim and weak magic lights here, slowly scanning the light and shadow of the grass and trees, I suddenly felt dazed and powerless, I don't know where the future road is, I don't know what the future will be and people ~~ will~~ Well? The person sitting on the bench under the tree ~~ The figure seems to be his girlfriend? Yes, the weak figure, The beautiful dress and smooth skin are her. I was here when I kissed her for the first time, and in this dark night, I was really tender and happy at that time. It's just ~~Alas~~ Now that people are wrong, there is no longer the ambition of Lingyun back then, and even the excitement with love seems to be slowly dissipating. Alas~~

Thinking of this, what happened just now and the irritability in my heart soared again, and I immediately felt a little resentful and didn't want to move forward, and then I wanted to suppress this feeling, but the more I suppressed it, the more irritable I became, and the more irritable I was, the more I didn't want to suppress it. But I really can't get stiff with my girlfriend. Caught in the middle, you can't enter or retreat. It's really painful~~

So he began to say to himself as if he were chanting a mantra, "There is no place to live, nothing to live, nothing to live, you cannot 'live' in this kind of thinking, you cannot 'live' in this kind of thinking." I want to return an idea, I want to return an idea!~~ but~~ But it's still annoying to think about it!"

"Okay!" he struggled to turn the three lines of thought of 'Pastor Elilou' several times, and finally reluctantly came up with a solution: "Just assume that nothing happened to scold me, and then what kind of feelings and ideas should I use to deal with it now?"

"Let's go back. He stretched out his hand to his girlfriend on the bench and said lightly: "Today I was scolded by those mages above, they seemed to be dissatisfied with me, and even had the intention of kicking me out of the object system. I was very anxious and tired these days, so ~~ I didn't want to see anyone at that time, and I didn't want to face anything. So~~"

The girlfriend sitting on the cool bench turned her head away and said with a little temper: "So you are angry with me?!Then what will you do if you get married in the future? You will not be able to use me as a punching bag?! I don't want to be a resentful woman!" The angry tone suddenly raised the anger of the opposite Falymouth again! In his irritation, he was about to throw a sentence: You should not be pulled down! But he remembered the 'life that has nothing to live in'. Okay, okay, as if nothing happened to me that happened to me, what would I probably do under normal circumstances?

After being awkward and silent for a long time, he finally reluctantly changed his love, sat quietly beside his girlfriend, and said with some sadness: "I'm worried that we won't get married at all." Your parents have long been dissatisfied with me, and they reluctantly agreed when they saw that I was working in the Spell Item Crafting Department and had some money. If I really get kicked out of the system~~ then there will be no money. Maybe they'll marry you to someone else~~" As he spoke, he hid his face and wept slightly as his eyes turned red.

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