Chapter XI

Whether Jiang Mingchuan will help or not, Jin Xiuzhu doesn't know, anyway, she has already put her words here, and he will definitely not drag himself back.

In the next few days, Jin Xiuzhu waited quietly, and before she could hear from Chef Zhang, she heard a commotion next door.

Although Jin Xiuzhu was curious, it was not good to inquire blatantly, or He Yan told her when she was eating in the morning that it was the eldest sister who wanted to study, but Aunt Qian and Grandma Wu disagreed, and the eldest sister cried at home, saying that they knew that they were partial to their younger brother, and Aunt Qian was so angry that she beat her with a stick.

He Yan has eaten well recently, his face has grown meat, and his chin is a little rounder, he frowned and said: "Sister Da Ya has always wanted to read, and I have seen her reading Xiaojun's books several times, and asked him how to read those words?" Xiaojun was impatient and murdered her, and she was sad for a long time. ”

At that time, he lived in the Wu family and felt that the eldest sister was so pitiful. But he was also pitiful, he didn't dare to say anything, he only thought that if he went to school in the future, he would come to teach the eldest sister, but now he doesn't live in Grandma Wu's house, so he can't teach.

Jin Xiuzhu nodded, whether it is Dajingchao or here, it is more difficult for girls.

When she was a child, in order to support her younger brother, the family sold her and the second sister to Renyazi together, the second sister died of illness on the road, Renyazi was afraid of losing money, and deliberately kept her to prepare to sell into the Qinglou, or the second lady of the Hou Mansion took a fancy to her and bought her, and also used means to send her to the Shizi Courtyard.

She instructed: "Let's just listen to other people's affairs, and if someone asks, you will say you don't know." ”

He Yan nodded obediently, and then asked, "What if Wu Xiaojun takes the initiative to tell me?" ”

Wu Xiaojun has a big mouth and always likes to talk about his family.

"It depends on what he says? If he says that his family is not good, you say that he must think too much, you think that his family is very good, his parents are very hard, his grandmother is charitable, and his sister is sensible, but every family has its own difficulties, and he needs to be considerate of them. If he says he's not good, you praise him for being filial and sensible enough to think like that. When talking outside, we must be cautious, let's try to say some good things to others, and the words are contrary to the ear, but not everyone can listen to the advice. And you're not sure if you'll always be good friends, and if you turn your face one day, the bad things you once said will become your crime. Of course, you can't keep boasting about others, it would be a bit hypocritical, and you need to handle the degree yourself. ”

He Yan nodded vigorously, no one had ever taught him this.

felt a little empty in his heart, when Wu Xiaojun complained to him about who was not good, he was afraid that he would not take him to play, so he echoed.

Fu Yanyan next to her tightly held the chopsticks in her hand, no matter who Jin Xiuzhu used to be, as soon as she opened her mouth, she denied the other party and accused the other party of various shortcomings, as if only in this way did she seem to be amazing.

Jiang Mingchuan has always done this, but he didn't think as much as Jin Xiuzhu thought, it was completely due to his personality.

Glancing up at Kim so-joo, he found that there were many things about her that surprised him.

Kim so-joo didn't think that these words had much impact on the two children, it was just a trivial aspect of her way of survival. Now He Yan and Yanyan are her children, and it is normal for her to teach them this.

Not only did she ask her two children to do this, she did it herself.

In the morning, Qian Yufeng came to the house as a guest with red eyes, and Jin Xiuzhu took out the freshly made shortbread, cut it into small pieces and put them on the plate.

Qian Yufeng tasted it, it was salty, it was wrapped in shredded radish and pickles, but it tasted very fragrant, she couldn't help but eat two more, and looked at Jin Xiuzhu with some embarrassment after eating, "My sister is so skillful, she can always make all kinds of delicious food, my Xiaojun is arguing every day for me to do it, when will I make these things?" ”

Speaking of this, he sighed, "None of the two children is sensible and caring, I used to think that the eldest girl was quiet and well-behaved, but now I am not well-behaved, clamoring to go to school, saying that I am biased." What am I biased? It's really a blessing in the blessing, she went to the brigade to see, who is as comfortable as her? Eat enough and dress warmly, and you don't have to work in the fields. ”

"What's the use of girls studying? In the end, don't you still get married and have children, isn't that a waste of money? Sister, who do you see still running to their parents' house every day after getting married? Don't laugh at me, I just want to save two bucks. ”

Jin Xiuzhu comforted her, "It's all the same, I also want to save money, but the two children are too thin, so I thought that the family has no money anyway, and I can't save a name, so it's better to eat and drink and give them a good health." ”

Qian Yufeng shook his head, "You don't understand, our family is different from yours, more than half of my man's monthly salary is taken back to his hometown, I get angry when I talk about this, I was thinking about marrying him and living a good life, who knew that there was such a mess, my dead father-in-law still has a mother-in-law in front of him, and the son who gave birth is my man's eldest brother, who fell while working in the field a few years ago, and his head just hit the stone, and the person was paralyzed, and sent money back twice, and his good sister-in-law simply didn't go to work, Take care of the paralyzed man and child at home, pointing to the pillar to feed. It's not that I said, even if she eats meat every other day in the countryside, it won't cost fifty yuan, I told Zhuzi, he said that his eldest brother still needs to take medicine, what medicine to take, what medicine to take if he is paralyzed and can't move? In the past, I was expecting his brother to be well, but now that I look at it, it's difficult. ”

"If the child and his father take all the money home, can I not read to the eldest girl? She also has a younger brother, and she will get married in a few years, so I have to save money to marry Xiaojun's daughter-in-law, and it's not easy for me. ”

As he spoke, his eyes turned red again, and he scolded himself for his miserable life.

Jin Xiuzhu looked at her with a distressed face, patted her back lightly and coaxed: "I didn't expect my sister-in-law to hide so many things in her heart, don't blame the eldest girl, she has done better than many children, otherwise she wouldn't have made trouble until now, in fact, it's good to say it, you think, you usually say that she is boring, now tell you her own thoughts, it means that it is progress, and when you go to your in-law's house, you are not afraid that she will be wronged." ”

After a pause, he comforted: "Moreover, after listening to your words, I feel that Uncle Xiaojun's family may have some places worth scrutinizing, Xiaojun's father and grandmother may not know, but they don't care about family affection, and it's really a little difficult for you to be caught in the middle as a daughter-in-law, but this time the big girl may be an opportunity." ”

Hearing this, Qian Yufeng, who was originally anxious, gradually calmed down and felt a little reasonable. Listening to the latter words again, his eyes lit up, "What do you mean?" You continue. ”

"Looking at the food and clothing of the eldest girl, it can be seen that Xiaojun's father and grandmother still love her very much."

Qian Yufeng nodded vigorously, "No, when she was a child, her father had to hug her as soon as she came home, and her grandmother was reluctant to let her do heavy work." ”

"No matter how good an outsider is, it can't compare to his own child. My sister-in-law went back to coax the eldest girl, thinking that when we were daughters, it was not that we didn't love our younger brothers and sisters, but we just wanted to make sure that our parents loved us. But when you are a parent, you can't think of so much, sometimes no matter how good you do, it can't compare to a good word, the children are still young, they can only look at the surface, and they don't understand what you are talking about. ”

This is simply to Qian Yufeng's heart, and I feel that the eldest girl doesn't see how much she thinks about her in her heart.

Thinking about Jin Xiuzhu's words carefully, the more I think about it, the more I feel that it makes sense, indeed, she, as a daughter-in-law, is an outsider, and no matter how much she says, she can't match a word from a child.

But she is an outsider, and the child's uncle is even more of an outsider.

After figuring out this truth, Qian Yufeng couldn't sit still, she got up and was about to leave, she wanted to go home and talk to the eldest girl.

Kim so-joo specially took two shortbreads to send her out.

Back in the house, Fu Yanyan looked at her and suddenly asked, "Does Mom really think that Aunt Qian loves Sister Sister very much?" ”

Jin Xiuzhu subconsciously replied to her, "Why do you ask that?" ”

"Because if Aunt Qian really loves the eldest sister, she won't come to you to complain."

Jin Xiuzhu was stunned for a moment, then smiled, and didn't think there was anything wrong with her three-year-old daughter saying this, some children are just precocious.

She thought about it seriously and then considered: "Love can be felt, if you suspect that someone doesn't love you, then he just doesn't love you." Mom said those words just because Aunt Qian wanted to hear those words. ”

Fu Yanyan lowered her head and didn't speak, does that mean that Jin Xiuzhu in her previous life didn't love her at all.

Jin Xiuzhu saw that she was depressed, and comforted: "But you don't have to feel sorry for the eldest sister, sometimes it's actually a good thing to recognize that your parents don't love you." ”

Fu Yanyan looked up at her again.

Jin Xiuzhu said with a smile: "There will be a lot less trouble, and getting along with people is actually mixed with a lot of things." Therefore, no matter who you meet in the future, the other party doesn't like you, you don't have to like him, you don't have to please and accommodate, just be yourself, there are thousands of people in the world, there are always people who hate or like you for no reason. ”

Fu Yanyan didn't expect to hear these words from Jin Xiuzhu's mouth one day, but she had to say that these words were like a pair of hands, pushing open the long-sealed door in her heart little by little.

The light from outside shone in for a moment.

——

When Jiang Mingchuan came back in the afternoon, Jin Xiuzhu happily shared with him, "I think our Yanyan may be a genius." ”

Jiang Mingchuan stuffed a bundle of firewood into the stove hole, and smiled when he heard this, "What do you say?" ”

Jin Xiuzhu told Jiang Mingchuan about the morning, she was not afraid that Jiang Mingchuan would think she was bad-eyed, anyway, he already knew what she was like in front of him, "She is only three years old, she understands the twists and turns inside, and she also tells the truth to the point, she is very smart." ”

Although Jiang Mingchuan was also surprised that Yan Yan would say such a thing, it was more of a headache for Jin Xiuzhu's dangerous thoughts, "You can't teach a child like this, she is only three years old, how can you tell her these words, what should I do if I grow crooked in the future?" ”

Jin Xiuzhu glanced at him, "What I said is a real truth, how can it be crooked?" Could it be that she is taught to be kind and sensible, and to endure and hold back when she is wronged? That's what leads her to the crooked path, ordinary children just have to have more eyes, just look at it, the big girl's character will not change, and the days of hardship are still ahead. ”

Jiang Mingchuan knew that he couldn't make sense of her, so he had to talk to his daughter alone after eating, telling her that her mother had some things to listen to, but some things couldn't be taken too seriously, "The most important thing to be a man is to be kind and sincere, there are always many good people in the world, you are still a child, don't think too complicated about people." ”

Fu Yanyan looked up at him and suddenly said, "But Dad is not sincere." ”

Jiang Mingchuan laughed, "Why is Dad not sincere?" ”

Fu Yanyan said: "I heard it all, my father used to lend money to Uncle Wu, and Uncle Wu said that he couldn't pay it back for the time being, and his father said he didn't want to, but my mother didn't know." ”

“……”

Jiang Mingchuan subconsciously looked back and was relieved to see that no one was talented.

A little smile appeared in Fu Yanyan's eyes.

Jiang Mingchuan's face was a little embarrassed, "Then you have to divide things, you are still young, you don't need to think too much." Huiji will hurt, let's not be too tired of ourselves. ”

Fu Yanyan stopped talking, her heart was sour.

Whether it was in the previous life or now, Dad Jiang is thinking about her.

Jiang Mingchuan went out, and it didn't take long for the sound of talking to come from the kitchen.

He Yan, who was writing next to him, waited for his father to leave, and couldn't help but stick his head over and ask his sister, "What are you talking about?" I don't understand. ”

The smile on Fu Yanyan's face disappeared, and she glanced at him lightly, "Stupid." ”

He Yan looked aggrieved, "Why are you scolding?" ”

I feel that my sister is the same as others before and after.