The words frightened Mother Xie's hands, and the money almost fell to the ground.

"Oh, you just listen to your son, let's not make our own decisions. Father Xie persuaded beside him.

"Aren't I just shocked, you also know that in our small place, only the daughter-in-law thinks that her mother-in-law's family can't pay for it, where is there anyone who wants to break up after hearing about giving money to spend?

It's no wonder that Xie's mother doesn't understand, the smaller the place, the more difficult it is for young men to marry a daughter-in-law, and they usually pay a lot of money to get married, and the higher the cost, the stronger the tolerance.

The son has nothing to do, and after the daughter-in-law gives birth to a child, the family expenses increase, so she naturally needs the old subsidy, either to contribute money or effort, otherwise the life will not go on, once the life cannot go on, then there will be no money to marry a daughter-in-law, it has become a vicious circle.

If you want to talk about the bitterness of old age, you have worked hard to raise your son as an adult, and you have to spend money to buy him a house, marry a daughter-in-law and bring grandchildren, and you will be disliked when you are old all your life.

But they are the ones who desperately spoil their sons, and they are the ones who are desperately urging marriage and giving birth, and they are the ones who are desperate to urge the second child after giving birth to the first child, patting their chests to ensure that they are responsible for giving birth to themselves, and when they are overwhelmed, they feel that they are not satisfied with the children they have paid for their lives, and they will be disliked by their sons and daughters-in-law if they don't do it.

Grievances, endure humiliation, and say that when you meet people, you will mobilize public opinion to condemn unworthy descendants.

But what about the daughter-in-law, even more aggrieved, it's not what people ask, all of this is what you are willing, originally a child was reluctant to have two, because other people's daughters-in-law gave birth to two, and the country let them have two, in short, if you don't give birth, you must give birth, don't have worries, they will give full support.

The child is born, but he can't manage it, the quality of life has fallen off a cliff, family conflicts are frequent, anyone can pick a child, but the mother can't, is there any resentment in my heart?

The role of the son, which was supposed to play a role in supporting the family, has now mostly become the grass in the family war.

Either slap your wife with your parents, or blame your parents with your wife.

In short, it was extremely embarrassing, and what was even more bizarre was that this dilemma was still full of innocence, as if he had no responsibility.

All in all, it's an unhealthy family model that doesn't like it, no one can do it, everyone has a point, but no one is innocent.

What Xie Zhiyan has to do is to first reverse the inherent impression of his parents and enhance Shen Bingbing's invisible influence in this family.

"Dad, Mom, don't always think about Bingbing with the concept of our hometown, the girls who are really well educated are not like that. Besides, in that case, it is the son of the family who has to support the elders, and now you look at your son, the nest?

What Bingbing likes is that I am practical and capable, and her family can rest assured because of this, even if the family background is average, but it is also above board, and she can start a business independently, without the slightest idea of relying on her parents to gnaw the old, you must be clear about this, in the future, your money should be eaten and drunk, and the down payment is a comfortable small apartment, doesn't my dad like to raise flowers, live a small life, you must not give me all the money to raise my girlfriend, this is a drag on my legs!"

Father and mother Xie glanced at each other, as if they had been shocked.

Happiness came too suddenly, and I couldn't feel it for a while.

But it's not a bad thing to not have to pay, it's just that when no one is there, they sigh to each other, they honestly have been honest all their lives, and they don't know what shit luck they stepped on, and it doesn't matter if they have a son to earn face, and finding a daughter-in-law is also first-class in character and appearance, and the two of them simply fell into the honey pot, and they are very energetic all day long, and they are several years younger.

Xie Zhiyan is not in a hurry, the concept must change slowly, the parents of the original owner are all people with real eyes, except for some small family spirits, there is no problem with their character.

The two of them tried their best to prepare a sumptuous dinner, and the small table at home was so full that it almost couldn't be put down.

Shen Bingbing couldn't refuse this enthusiasm, she couldn't hold back her food for a while, and after the meal, Xie Mu took the initiative to go for a walk in a small square not far away, which is also the biggest leisure of the day for people here.

So Xie Zhiyan saw that his father put on his watch, and her mother tied a silk scarf, if it wasn't for bird's nest, he would probably mention it, and the family went for a luxurious walk.

The small square is very lively, the municipal construction has also been done a little bit in the past two years, and the light fountains have also been arranged, although it cannot be compared with the luxurious large square, but it is second to none in this neighborhood as a leisure and entertainment place.

At this moment, there is a crowd of people, children playing roller skating, aunts dancing square dances, and grandfathers playing chess, all of which are very lively.

Father and Mother Xie greeted their familiar neighbors all the way, introduced their sons and daughters-in-law by the way, and then casually glanced at the time, and then showed the expensive silk scarves.

Those aunts and aunts who are about the same age, don't they pretend to be like this in their hearts, Hula suddenly surrounded Xie's mother, and they didn't care about their loud voices, and after learning about the gifts that the prospective daughter-in-law brought to them for the first time, their hearts were sour.

also saw other people's sons and daughters-in-law with their own eyes, and they complimented them one after another.

Until the end of the walk, Father Xie and Mother Xie's footsteps were floating, this is the most envy and jealousy I have received in my life, hahaha, I am so happy.

Xie Zhiyan took Shen Bingbing back home first, there were many villains in the place, and there was a queue for washing.

Looking at my parents' newly renovated bathroom, although the sparrows are small, the water heater and toilet are white and clean, needless to say, they are prepared for them to come back.

Everything was small and full of warm care, and Xie Zhiyan took Shen Bingbing to stay at home for a total of three days.

During the period, the relatives had a meal, and the uncle and aunt who had a lot of opinions about the eldest sister spending all the money on their son were naturally another eager face now, and Mother Xie was even happier to see the two in the same room, and she was sure that this daughter-in-law would not be able to fly away.

When leaving, he gave Shen Bingbing a red envelope according to local customs.

The meeting gift, that is to say, Ming is very satisfied with the woman, and then agreed to close the door to his son and daughter-in-law during the New Year, and the parents of both sides will formally meet to discuss their major affairs.

The man must naturally be sincere in this kind of thing, and Xie's mother also pulled her son to explain to him alone, he must treat other girls well, and he must not have any undeserved thoughts, making Xie Zhiyan cry and laugh.

Shen Bingbing's first visit to Xie's house was a successful ending, the point is that her boyfriend's parents are really very easy to get along with, whether it is eating fruits or daily necessities, they attach great importance to her preferences in any aspect, which at least expresses satisfaction with herself.