Chapter 105: A suffocating approach to education
The Jiang family's Jiang father wants to go to work, Yang Yuemei is soft-hearted, and the children are all free-range.
Those who love to learn or don't love to learn all depend on self-consciousness.
At most, it is to buy them a badminton racket, a table tennis racket or a basketball or soccer ball, and play around by themselves.
Piano, guzheng, violin, dance, calligraphy, which require extra money to hire teachers, the Jiang family is not in a position to provide these for children.
Fortunately, the four children of the Jiang family, except for the eldest Jiang Haibing, who does not like to study, the other three study without being said, and they are very conscious.
The Fan family is different.
The couple paid special attention to their children.
Fan Ailing has been in kindergarten since she was in kindergarten, and Fan Junshan has actively enrolled her in interest classes.
If other people's children want to learn, other children's children should also have it, and the beautiful name is that a girl should cultivate her ladylike temperament from an early age.
Fan Ailing grew up to nineteen years old, except for eating and playing silly before the age of five, from the age of five to the age of nineteen, she had no time of her own.
When Fan Ailing was ten years old, the Children's Palace had a piano class.
Fan Junshan heard that many girls from wealthy foreign families can learn piano, and he is also very active in enrolling Fan Ailing in piano classes.
But Fan Ailing likes to write and paint, and she doesn't like the piano, so she doesn't want to learn.
Fan Junshan said it well when he was outside, and if he didn't want to learn, he wouldn't learn.
When I got home, I took out the belt and beat Fan Ailing to open the skin, and scolded her for being ignorant, saying that Lao Tzu is not for your good, you see that your aunt's sister doesn't have this condition if she wants to learn, don't know what to do.
Fan Ailing can only obediently go to learn piano.
Later, Fan Junshan heard that the girl who learned dance had a good figure and good posture, and could practice words and deeds, so he went to report dance to Fan Ailing.
Fan Ailing had already learned calligraphy and Chinese painting piano at this time, and she was very tired and had no time, and she had to stay up late every day to write homework, so she really didn't want to learn.
After crying for several days, I was beaten again, so I had to go to school obediently.
Fan Ailing learned to dance until she went to high school, because she fell and fractured her lower leg and was no longer suitable for dancing, so she got rid of the nightmare of dancing.
If you don't learn, you will be beaten, and you will be deducted a bunch of hats that are disobedient and have no conscience for you, Fan Ailing is just an underage girl, what else can she do besides being obedient?
Yang Yuemei is another case.
She has no job, only two children at home, and her only task is to take care of her husband and two children.
The three fathers and daughters of the Fan family were all handled by Yang Yuemei from the inside out.
Fan Ailing is nineteen years old and has never bought clothes by herself, can you believe it?
Underwear, underwear, shoes and socks, clothes for spring, summer, autumn and winter, Yang Yuemei will prepare them for her.
Jiang Jiani remembers that when Fan Ailing was about sixteen or seventeen years old, she came back from the summer vacation and took Fan Ailing to go shopping.
Fan Ailing picked a skirt by herself for the first time, but when she went back, she was thrown away by Yang Yuemei, saying that the skirt she didn't pick was ugly and died.
In terms of eating, Yang Yuemei is very strict about what to eat at each meal every day.
Forget it, eat boiled corn, she will peel off the corn kernels and put them in a bowl, in the name of helping them reduce trouble.
When eating fish, she will help them pick out the spines, fearing that they will accidentally eat the spines.
Drinking water must be lukewarm, and taking a sip of cold water will say that they do not care for their bodies.
All in all, everything is for their good, and they have to listen to her.
The original body also envied his cousin for being favored at home, he didn't have to do anything, he would eat, drink, and wear everything he would bring to his mouth and hand.
The real clothes come to reach out and eat to open their mouths.
Jiang Jiani only felt horror when she thought about it.
It can't be said that they don't care about their children, or they wouldn't do it for them.
But this kind of care and love is really too suffocating.
Surrounded by this kind of love, the sister and brother could not resist at all.
Resistance is no conscience, it is a white-eyed wolf, it is not knowing what to do, and it is not filial.
Jiang Jiani has dressed herself more than once as Jiang Jiani instead of Fan Ailing.
If she dresses as Fan Ailing, she will probably live in this family environment for less than two months, and she will drag the family to the end.
Fan Ailing grew up in such an environment since she was a child, and she can still keep herself, think of resisting, and even resist.
Jiang Jiani admired her courage and wisdom.
Yang Yuemei was scolded by her daughter: "Really, why do you say that, your uncle-in-law is also for Ailing's good." ”
Jiang Jiani thanked Bumin: "Don't do it." ”
She sneered: "If they hadn't forced Ailing to marry an old man, or when she was about to take the college entrance examination, and she was still calculating that her husband would have a child, I really believed that they were for Ailing's good." ”
"It's a pity, their true colors are now exposed."
"What's for Ailing's good, it's obviously for their own good."
"If you want me to say, Ailing ran away from home this time."
Yang Yuemei: "Oh, how can you say that? Besides, your second aunt has already regretted it......"
Jiang Jiani: "Regret these two words, wait for Ailing to come back and let them tell Ailing." ”
"Let's see if Ailing will forgive them."
When Fan Ailing asked her about the situation in the third year of junior high school, Jiang Jiani subconsciously said a lot.
Including how to protect yourself when you go out, how to settle yourself and whatever.
Now she only hated herself for saying too little, and she should say more.
I just don't know if this girl will really find a way to go abroad.
I just hope that everything goes well for her, and she can get rid of her bad family and live the free life she wants.
Too lazy to think about the house price anymore, Jiang Jiani reached out and hugged her eldest nephew: "This kid eats really fat." ”
Yang Yuemei showed a smile on her face: "What's the matter?" ”
"This child is so easy to raise, much easier to feed than your brothers and sisters when they were four hours old."
"As long as the stomach is full and the bottom of the butt is dry, this child can sleep all the time."
When Jiang Jiani first came, the little guy was uncomfortable with peeing before he cried at the top of his throat, and stopped crying immediately after changing the diaper.
Lick it, lick it, and sleep sweetly with your little mouth.
Jiang Jiani: "I forgot to ask my brother, how old is this child?" ”
She has never given birth to a child, and she has not had much contact with other people's children, except for seeing that this child is very well raised, she can't tell how old she is at all.
Yang Yuemei said: "Your brother said that the child was born on November 28 of the solar calendar, and it has been three months. ”
She looked at her white and chubby eldest grandson with appreciation: "The child has raised the child very well, and it is a circle older than other children born in the same month." ”
Yang Yuemei didn't understand one thing:
"You said that the child has been raising the child for more than two months, and he has raised the child so well, it doesn't look like he hates the child."
"Why don't you want to marry your brother?"
"It's nothing for us to raise the child ourselves, anyway, I'm not too old with your father."
"But how can a child be made without a mother?"