Chapter 274 Only one party pays, it is called self-moving
Shuo Shuo was afraid that Mommy would be angry, so she kissed her on the face first, then drilled into her arms, and then said, "To be honest, I didn't sleep well, my godmother's place is her home, not our home." ”
"I still think this is our home."
The little one wasn't lying.
When he lived in his godmother Bai Qing's house, he was really not used to it.
The godmother's room is not as big as his children's room, not only is it smaller than his children's room, but there are no toys that he can easily reach.
Although he brought some toys with him, there were still many things he wanted to play with, and he couldn't fit them in his bag, so he couldn't bring them all at once.
In addition to these, he can't see his father, and he can't play with the children he usually plays with.
But he also knows very well that Mommy and Dad quarreled, and may never reconcile, if he opens his mouth to tell Mommy that he doesn't like Godmother here, he likes Daddy's house, Mommy will be sad.
Therefore......
When he lived at his godmother's house, he showed happiness on his face, but he was actually unhappy.
At this time, when I was coquettish in Mommy's arms, I told the truth.
Childlike words.
Children, innocent, what they say, what they say is the truest thoughts in their hearts.
After listening to his son's words, Su Yunnuan was stunned.
She didn't expect her son to be unhappy living in Bai Qing's house, she always thought he was happy.
I only found out today that my son was only happy in order to accommodate himself.
Su Yunnuan's first reaction was to criticize her son, but after seeing her son's clear and innocent eyes, she swallowed back the words she wanted to criticize him.
I put myself in my son's shoes and thought about it.
Suddenly I felt: the child is right, he just told the truth.
Suppressing the displeasure in his heart, he sat up, took the child into his arms, and asked him softly: "Then if you choose to live with your godmother or with your father, how do you choose?" ”
The divorce is a matter between her and Huo Yibei, and it has nothing to do with Shuo Shuo.
She didn't want to get Shimmer involved in these messy relationships between adults, but after hearing her child say that she was unhappy living in the Rose Community, she began to revisit the issue.
Shimmer thought for a moment, and her eyes avoided Mommy's.
grabbed a strand of Su Yunnuan's hair, wrapped it around his fingers, and whispered: "I still like to live here." ”
"I've been living for so long, I'm used to it."
As he spoke, the little one's voice fell silent.
He also realized that it would hurt Mommy to say this, so he shut up and stopped making a sound.
looked at Mommy cautiously out of the corner of her eye, afraid that she would be angry.
Su Yunnuan said that it was false not to be angry.
But she also knew that what the child said was the truth.
The environment of the Rose Community cannot be compared with the Wutong Courtyard, whether it is hardware or software, there is a world of difference.
People are material, and children are no exception.
This place is indeed much better than the Rose Community, even Bai Qing said: The rich area of Wutong Courtyard is a place I dare not think of in my life, okay! It's stupid that you're still moving out.
After silently counting to three in his heart and calming down completely, he said to the child: "Okay, you said what was in your heart, Mommy is not angry, but Mommy wants to tell you one thing: if you insist on living here, Mommy will not be able to accompany you every day, Dad is very busy and usually has no time to take care of you, if you are sure that you want to live here, you need to take care of yourself." ”
When Shuo Shuo heard this, he immediately put his arms around her neck, and put his little face on her neck: "No! I want Mommy! I'm going to be with Mommy! ”
In the face of his son's coquettishness, Su Yunnuan did not relent, but calmly analyzed him: "Baby, you can't be coquettish when you encounter something, you need to solve the problem." ”
"Mommy doesn't love Daddy, so we're not destined to live together, and we're going to be separated."
"If you insist on living here, Mommy can't live here with you, you can only live with Dad."
Although she really wanted to say the sentence "Huo Yibei is not your father", when the words came to her mouth, it was really difficult to speak.
In the end, I decided not to talk about it first, but to let the child understand it by reasoning.
Shuo Shuo looked puzzled: "Why don't you love Dad anymore?" Didn't you love him the most before? I often see you staring at his pictures in a daze, how can you not love it? ”
The child's world is very simple, in his opinion: he used to love his father, why don't he love it now?
Huo Yibei got up very early, because he had been thinking about the woman in the children's room, and came to the door of the children's room after getting up.
Just as he was about to knock on the door, he heard Shimmer's words.
The hand raised in mid-air stopped, did not knock on the door, and just hid outside the door and eavesdropped.
He is a righteous man and a gentleman, and he never does such a tasteless thing as eavesdropping.
But......
He wanted to know Su Yunnuan's answer too much.
Su Yunnuan didn't know that someone was eavesdropping outside, and was still reasoning with the child and analyzing him: "Baby, love this thing, it's mutual, how should Mommy tell you?" ”
"Let me tell you this, your best friend at school is Xiaohua, right?"
Shimmer's eyes immediately lit up: "Yes, I like Xiaohua the most, she is the best for me." ”
Su Yunnuan nodded: "Okay, you like Xiaohua, Xiaohua likes you too, you give Xiaohua a candy today, Xiaohua gives you an apple tomorrow, you have been sharing your favorite things with each other like this, this is called mutual liking." ”
"Because you like each other, you're best friends, aren't you?"
Shimmer nodded heavily.
That's how he and Xiaohua are!
If someone bullied Xiaohua, he would be the first to rush out and speak for Xiaohua.
Similarly, if someone says something bad about him, Xiaohua will be the first to stand up and speak for him.
Su Yunnuan saw that her son had gotten his point, and continued: "However, I am different from my father. ”
"I like Dad, he doesn't like me, no matter how many pieces of candy I give him, he won't give me an apple back, do you think this kind of love should continue?"
Love is a thing that requires mutual consensual thinking.
Only one party pays is called self-touching, and it has nothing to do with love.
It's just a bright crush.
She was wishful thinking and self-moved to Huo Yibei.
I've never seen his response.
So......
This righteous and bright unrequited love can only bear bitter fruits, and she is the only one who swallows it.
Shimmer was stopped by Mommy's question and didn't speak for a long time.
Although he especially wants his dad and mommy to be together, he wants mommy to be happy even more.
If Mommy and Dad aren't happy together, he can live here.
"Mommy, if you're not happy, let's go, I don't like it that much here."
The man standing outside the door of the house suddenly felt a pain in his heart after hearing Su Yunnuan's answer.