The bystanders are clear, the neighbors saw that Sun Daoliang had nothing to do in three days and came to the door, so there must be a picture!

It's a pity that Li Junfang and Zitong Yin didn't care. Sun Daoliang changed his flower head to buy some fruits, vegetables and meat products, which were all foods that their girls liked to eat, and the old couple should not think about it. Probably, it is because of Sun Daoliang's polite appearance that attracts Li Junfang and Zitong Yin.

At their age, at most, they finished elementary school and graduated.

Some even read for only a few days, especially girls in those days, most of their parents were patriarchal.

thinks that girls are useless in reading, and I don't know how many heroes among girls have been buried. Zitong Yin was deeply bound by the feudal ideology of patriarchy, and as a result, he was dropped out of school by his parents after only studying in the third grade. let her two younger brothers go to school, and she could only obey her parents' orders, and married Li Junfang as his wife at the age of sixteen.

The concept of a girl marrying a girl is the same for all the elderly.

Passing on the family line seems to have become a man's business, and women are men's appendages. As everyone knows, this world does not become a family without women. A woman's familyA woman's family has no woman's family, that is, there is no fireworks in the world. What Li Junfang and Zitong Yin didn't expect was that the two of them got married, just in time for the national policy of family planning.

Originally, Zitong Yin wanted to give birth to a lot of men for Li Junfang.

Anyway, as soon as Zitong Yin was pregnant, she was targeted. On the first day of Li Xiangyi's birth, the director of family planning took the initiative to find maternal and child health care and asked the two of them to apply for an only child certificate. Fearing that they would be in conflict with the family planning policy, the couple had no choice but to get an one-child certificate.

With the one-child certificate, the family planning director seems to have a heart hanging in his heart and finally put it into practice.

After taking Li Junfang to follow him to the family planning office to get the one-child certificate, you didn't see the long sigh of the family planning director. I made a good deal, I really stepped on the iron shoes and found nowhere to go, she was relieved! Excitedly, he returned home late and invited Li Junfang to a big dinner. It can be seen that the position of director of the family planning office was an important position in those days.

gave birth to Li Xiangyi and also received an only child certificate, and did not stop there.

I am afraid that Zitong Yin will get pregnant with a birth control device like a very few people. Therefore, all married women, regardless of whether you are in Tiannan or Haibei, must rush to the place of household registration to go to the local family planning office to go through the registration procedures on the 15th of each month, and the family planning office will arrange for a unified arrangement to go to the township health center to check whether there are signs of pregnancy.

Li Junfang and Zitong Yin were doing some handiwork in the field at that time, and it was not easy to come back.

If you can't get back, the gynecological examination will be delayed, and your family members will have to be implicated. They are required to be in place within the allotted time. There are also very few people who really can't be in place. A family member must sign a letter of guarantee confirming that XX is not pregnant. In the event of an unplanned pregnancy, you must be held legally responsible.

As long as a family member signs the agreement, it is not only like socializing for the director of the family planning office, but also like putting a tight spell on the person who goes out to work.

Shifting responsibility to family members is a manifestation of the family planning office's set of risk-averse awareness. They transferred the potential risks to the close friends of the parties, and they had a justifiable explanation on their side; Next, attribute the potential risks to the parties' close friends.

It is a clever move to kill two birds with one stone, which is the so-called cunning rabbit three holes.

If the director of the family planning office does not have two brushes, then he is not called the director of the family planning office. Li Xiangyi often returns to Xinghua in northern Jiangsu from the far south of the Yangtze River to do the so-called gynecological physical examination. If she doesn't come back, her parents, parents-in-law and mother-in-law are all pinched by the director of the family planning office.

Farmers are based on farming, and if they don't give you farm work, I see that you are still in a hurry.

With this kind of posture, who else dares to give birth to a second child. Sensei said that the two of them had an one-child certificate, and even those who did not have an one-child certificate did not dare to disobey the policy. Whoever doesn't want to stay outside can go in and eat rations! Therefore, everyone has been disturbed by the policy, where is there anything to think about having a second child.

There are old and young, and they live three meals a day.

Li Xiangyi lived with her grandparents, and later because her grandparents died one after another, fourteen-year-old Li Xiangyi lived with her grandparents.

At her grandparents' house, Li Xiangyi finished the sixth grade of primary school and went to junior high school. is quite competitive, Li Xiangyi was admitted to the county key middle school with excellent results in the high school entrance examination. At that time, Xinghua No. 1 Middle School was a well-known key middle school in the local area, but it was almost a foregone conclusion that 20 or 30 percent of the children who were admitted to the county No. 1 Middle School would enter the first and second class universities.

It's a pity that Li Xiangyi failed in the college entrance examination.

According to Li Xiangyi's recollection, it was because of the few days of the college entrance examination, she was mentally depressed and a little dizzy.

She didn't tell her grandparents, she just endured it herself. Knowing what caused it, even telling my grandparents didn't have much effect. Because it was a few days before her high school entrance examination, she had a period. Headaches caused by excessive blood loss, she told her grandparents what else she could do to help her besides causing her grandparents to take her to the doctor in a fuss.

Since you know that the result is not something that your grandparents can do, why bother your grandparents.

Although she got the admission notice from Yancheng Normal University, the arrogant Li Xiangyi directly tore the admission notice to shreds.

Because, her first choice is Peking University Tsinghua University, her second choice is Jiaotong University and Southeast University, as well as Nanjing Institute of Technology. I couldn't get the results of the first and second choices, so I simply helped my parents to breed. There are thousands of roads out of the house, and all roads lead to Beijing, so why bother to study at Yancheng Normal College, which I am extremely reluctant to do just in case.

She hid it from her parents and told the two of them directly and secretly, saying that she didn't get in.

Li Junfang and Zitongyin had already come to Majiadang at that time, and she used her mobile phone to tell her parents the news. The old couple couldn't believe that she hadn't been admitted to any school, completely unaware that it was a lie that Li Xiangyi deliberately told them that was not true. It is not so much that Li Xiangyi is reluctant to let her parents work hard for herself, but rather that Li Xiangyi's selfishness is controlling her to tell a white lie to her parents.

So, what was Li Xiangyi's idea at that time, was she really not wanting to study, or was she really reluctant to let her parents work hard outside for many years?

We say, maybe it's both.

Li Xiangyi may also be because she is a far ahead student in the class, but in the days of the college entrance examination, she had an accident due to physiological reasons. And for reasons like this, she can only talk to herself, and if she says it, not only will her classmates laugh at her, but even the teacher will not think that her explanation is reasonable.

Only you know how big shoes you wear on your feet.

Explanation is tantamount to covering up, she is a smart child, how can she do something that will be recognized by others?

So, she endured.

But he knew that no one who was particularly sad than her teachers and classmates, including herself, when she heard that she was not admitted to college, was her own parents and grandparents. Therefore, she made an excuse to leave her grandparents as soon as possible every day and asked: "Xiao Xiangyi, have you gone to see the score line?" Why hasn't the admission letter come down yet? ”

Facing the expectant eyes of her grandparents and grandparents, Li Xiangyi's heart was dripping blood.

She wanted to cry, but she didn't dare to cry in front of her grandparents.

She wanted to tell her grandparents about her hardships, lest her grandparents would be like others and would not believe the excuses she had found. Faced with a dilemma, she chose the least costly lie. Because when she talked to her parents on the phone, she said that she had not been admitted to any school, and the process of tearing up her admission notice to Yancheng Normal University was omitted and deleted by him.

But I was surprised to find that my parents didn't ask me why!

Another successful precedent of lying, and then Li Xiangyi used it by inference.

Oh my God, she found that she was not only a top student in her studies, but she also lied and was unexpected, and no one questioned her. As a result, Li Xiangyi used the same set of dealing with her parents to continue to repeat the old trick. "My grandparents don't need the admission letter anymore, and I forgot to fill in the application form."

My grandparents exclaimed in unison with wide-eyed eyes, "What? What does it mean to forget to fill in the application form! ”

Because I didn't understand, in addition to being surprised, my grandparents saw Li Xiangyi's face depressed and didn't dare to ask again. It is said that girls are pampered and have very strong self-esteem. Every year during the college entrance examination, I always hear that someone suffers from depression because of failing the list; There are also people who choose to cut themselves off in order to take care of their own faces, or because of social pressure from all sides......

When she greeted her grandparents and said that she was going to live with her parents for a while, her grandparents just thought to herself: she should be with her parents for a while. Otherwise, the child said that school would start school. Therefore, this secret was not until my grandparents passed away three years later, and I didn't know that Li Xiangyi chose to drop out of school because she was not admitted to Tsinghua University and Peking University.

Li Xiangyi, who came to Majiadang, initially locked herself in a container house in a fish pond and crab pond.

In addition to watching TV, it is to play games on the computer. What League of Legends, wolf killing, 3D martial arts fighting, martial arts side-scrolling fighting mobile games, etc., Li Xiangyi is crazy. Li Xiangyi, who is addicted to games all day long, doesn't know how to dress up. I don't care about my image, and I spend almost every night in pajamas.

Li Junfang and Zitong Yin Shen were awakened by Li Xiangyi's screams in the middle of the night, and the footage that completely entered the characters in the game scared Li Junfang and Zitong Yin secretly watched, but they didn't dare to alarm her. Zitong Yin couldn't help it: "Son and father, will our Li Xiangyi be addicted to playing games?" It is said that once you become addicted to this thing, you will not eat or drink until you starve to death. You say, will our girl ......?"

Speaking of this, Zitong Yin shivered unnaturally.

She was really scared, just such a girl, if something went wrong with her, what would the old couple do in the future?

A very realistic problem was in front of Li Junfang, although the old couple peeked at Li Xiangyi from the crack in the door, Li Junfang still covered Zitong Yin's mouth, he pushed Zi Tongyin away, blew his beard and glared at Zi Tongyin and scolded: "You stinky woman, I don't allow you to say that your daughter will be the same as those three rotten." ”

Faced with her husband's reprimand, Zitong Yin was full of grievances.

She pointed to Li Xiangyi's room and asked Li Junfang: "It's not that I have a bad mouth, whose children don't feel distressed!" Look at what your daughter has become, how she has gotten it for a long time, how she has got! ”

After speaking, Zitong Yin hit his chest continuously. "It's all because I was reluctant to let you work outside alone, so I had to leave my children to accompany you. If I choose to stay at home with my children, how can a girl become what she is now? It's all my fault, it's all my ......."

Only then did Li Junfang realize that his tone of reprimand for his wife was too heavy.

Li Xiangyi is his daughter Li Junfang, and she is the child born in Zitong Yin's belly? It is said that her daughter is her mother's little cotton demon and her father's lover in her last life, how can she be willing to curse the person she gave birth to with words! Didn't she say this out of concern when she heard the rumors outside!

Li Junfang went up and grabbed Zitong Yin's hands that slapped his chest, and comforted: "Okay, okay!" The way our daughter looks like this is not the result of us not paying attention to her. Left-behind elderly people and left-behind children have gone to many places across the country. Besides, our daughter's academic performance is among the best! Perhaps, it was because she fell off the list, and the gap in her heart was very large, so she let go of her hands and feet and let her come to us as she wanted.

It's probably because we didn't care enough for her, so we'll have to give her some tight shoes to wear from now on. You don't have to be nervous, starting tomorrow, you mobilize her to work with you in the fish pond and crab pond. She's grown up, and we've got to teach her how to make a living. Instead of just giving money as before. At what age and what kind of guidance we should give her. Moreover, it should be in line with her psychological capacity, including her favorite interests and hobbies. ”

Since then, Li Xiangyi, who is sloppy and careless and has no sense of rhythm in life, has been taken to work by her mother Zitongyin all day long.

Gradually, Li Xiangyi came out of the decadence and depravity, and the smile on her face resurfaced. Li Xiangyi returned to normal until their family bought Sun Yuqing's old house. In the process of decoration, she came into contact with Sun Daoliang. After meeting Sun Daoliang, Li Xiangyi's mental outlook amazed Li Junfang and Zitong Yin.

It turned out that the two of them remembered what they thought when they were the same age as their girl. Daigo empowerment, it turned out that his own girl couldn't communicate with her peers, so she locked herself in the house alone, so it turned out to be like this......

In the face of Sun Daoliang's frequent movements, you said that Li Xiangyi and their family of three don't want to think about it, Sun Daoliang is also a person in his early thirties, and he always runs to their house when he has nothing to do, if he doesn't have a plan, or something to sustenance, how can he be willing to put in such a big effort?

I have pots and pans at home, why do I want to buy vegetables to Li Xiangyi's house? Is it really troublesome to cook at home alone, and going to Li Xiangyi's house belongs to killing two birds with one stone, which is beneficial to both parties?

Perhaps, Sun Daoliang's plan is only understood by himself in his heart, and others are incomprehensible.

If you want me to say, it should be Li Xiangyi's parents who also see a little sign. It's just that I don't want my daughter Li Xiangyi to notice that the two of them have already discovered before her daughter takes the initiative to talk to their second elder. Pretending not to see, and pretending not to know, to see how long her daughter can hide from them.

For Li Xiangyi's parents, Sun Daoliang is not the most ideal son-in-law in their minds, and Li Xiangyi herself knows it.

However, how can I be selective when I am lonely and lonely and cold in the shrimp pond and crab pond that no one relies on in Ma's house?

If it is in a big city, a big factory, or a place where people are concentrated, perhaps, their family Li Xiangyi will not lose to anyone. Compared with movie stars, their girls are slightly inferior. Although there is no shy beauty in the closed moon, the appearance of sinking fish and geese, Ah is ten miles and eight towns near Majiadang, their family Li Xiangyi is definitely a beauty, everyone knows it!

You said that you picked and picked, and finally picked a person like Sun Daoliang, who was sloppy and full of running trains, how could he accept a man who was more than ten years older than him? Mom and Dad are honest people, Li Xiangyi hasn't thought about it! It's difficult, I want to find a wishful man, stay in the fish pond and crab pond with my parents, and don't think about finding the right person in this life.

However, in order to find Ruyi Langjun for herself, Li Xiangyi was reluctant to make her relatives and herself far away.

Because, he is not absolutely sure that he can find the prince charming in his heart when he goes out alone.

At least, even if she finds the Prince Charming in her mind, people may not agree to her coming to Majiadang to raise fish and shrimp with his parents. Most of them are only children, regardless of men and women, and no one is willing to give up their native land. It is said that the fallen leaves return to the roots, and although people no longer worship them, there are still endless people who return to their hometowns at a certain age.

Li Xiangyi began to be with her parents at the beginning, and there was a kind of moral kidnapping, and public opinion was immersed in the hardship of not fulfilling filial piety to her parents.

After a long time, I think that in addition to food, clothing, housing and transportation for myself, my parents will spend their whole lives on creating a happy life ideal for her Li Xiangyi. From this, what reason does she Li Xiangyi have to think that her parents brought her to Ma's house to raise fish and shrimp in order to make her return in the future?

Raising a child to the end and raising a daughter to be filial seems to have become a consensus in people's minds.

She doesn't want to ruin the 5,000-year-old traditional filial piety of the Chinese nation for the sake of her own happy life. Although Mom and Dad entrusted relatives and friends to find themselves a son-in-law who they thought was good. At least, the incense to the old Li family can't be cut off in her generation. Cutting off children and grandchildren is a traditional concept that is difficult for the old family of Xinghua to accept. Alas! How many places are there in life?

You know, all the living people are not living for themselves, but for themselves.

You are not contradicting yourself when you say this, although Chicken Soup for the Soul tells people to live without heart and lungs. Living for oneself seems to have become the consensus of real life.

In fact, there are a few people in reality who can live for themselves! Either as children or as parents, while changing social roles, in addition to thinking about a small part of ourselves, we spend more time pretending to be our children, parents, brothers and sisters, and family care.

It's like Li Xiangyi's parents, for Li Xiangyi's future, came to Majiadang from their hometown Xinghua to contract fish ponds and crab ponds.

And they sent away their parents, fulfilled their filial piety, and fulfilled their responsibilities as parents for Li Xiangyi non-stop. is even thinking about bringing up Li Xiangyi's children, so that the two of them can die and drive west. Despite this, we have reason to believe that the two of them will remain in the world after a hundred years, and they will not be able to avoid the concern for their children.

Li Xiangyi, who can't stand the loneliness, is probably because of the lack of love.

Or maybe it's because I'm at the age when I should get married, and after puberty, I enter the adult world, and the desire for the opposite sex can't hold back the loneliness of being alone in the boudoir in the dead of night. On the night of the twenty-first day of the lunar month, she braved the cold wind alone, shivering and trotting, and came to Sun Daoliang's house and knocked on the door......

Sun Daoliang in the house, as if he had already calculated it, didn't ask anything, and directly opened the door of his house lightly, and a figure fell from the sky into her arms......

Now, Li Xiangyi holds the steering wheel in her hand, and whenever she recalls that she took the initiative to send Sun Daoliang to the door of their house, she is always indignant towards herself.

She never thought it was her own impulse, but blamed all the blame on Sun Daoliang's dishonesty. The two had a quarrel, and Li Xiangyi's first sentence was: "You liar in human skin, eighty-five pounds, what kind of shot are you pretending." Slap a swollen face and become fat, I was fooled by your superficial appearance......"

Sun Daoliang heard Li Xiangyi's hysterical anger, and of course he acquiesced!

I thought that at the beginning, I didn't use my little brain, where did the current pair of children come from?

He is not ashamed but proud, it is he who won Li Xiangyi's heart, so he has today's family happiness. Any kind of white lie is not judged within the scope of moral turpitude, although he is in Shenzhen, and Li Xiangyi continues to stay in his hometown to accompany him. As for whether he has another home in Shenzhen, as he told his sister now, this question cannot be said yet......

Outside, street lights flickered. The dark night sky has fallen.

Pedestrians are still visible on both sides of the road, but they are definitely becoming less and less. Leng Buding saw a battery car in the shade on the side of the road, and in the grove not far away, a man and a woman were hugging each other, like glue. When Li Xiangyi saw them, she hurriedly looked away. Alas, love is heaven and marriage is the grave, which sounds a little crazy, but in fact, all of us are not married.

Just like himself, in order to get the position of dormitory manager, he asked for a gift to Principal Li.

You can also choose not to send it, at least to prove that you don't care about the job of a housekeeper!

I care about the work of the dormitory staff, but I don't want to give gifts and treats, and some of the principals are male and female parents who are accompanied by their parents begging to line up in the back and wait for the principal to speak! I may not believe it to you, but there are many young and beautiful young ladies who are preparing to give gifts to the principal, at the cost of self-sacrifice, in exchange for a job in the school, because it is a win-win situation, you know?

As a dormitory manager, you can not only take care of your children, but also get an economic reward, why not.

Hongqi cars shuttle on the township road, to be honest, it doesn't matter what brand of car the people see.

They don't know how much Hongqi cars are worth, and they don't care what the role of the driver is. Even if you ride a battery car back to your hometown, as long as your status is prominent, no one will not praise you. There is no weaker human weakness than to submit to power and force. succumb to force because of fear of death; Because he worships the powerful, he is servile.

Although the Hongqi car driven by Li Xiangyi is worth more than one million, no one has taken a look at it when it is running on the township road.

Ordinary people pay attention to whether you are a high-ranking official and generous, and they don't care about how much money you have. If you sit in Lincoln for a long time, they won't applaud you for driving a luxury car that costs tens of millions. Because they don't know how precious your car is. A car is a car, and he can't replace the prominent status of the prince and general.

As long as there is a police car in front of you and a convoy behind you to escort your trip, even the old farmers working in the fields will straighten up and cheer for you!

If you are riding a tricycle in an agricultural tricycle, as long as there is a police car to clear the way for you, I can guarantee that people on both sides of the road along the road will stop and watch 100%. kept exclamating in his mouth: "Obediently, it's just that the descendants of which family are so promising, they actually use a police car to open the way for him?" ”

Therefore, man is the worst kind of advanced animal in this society.

Judging people by their appearance, looking at people with dog eyes, all people have a habit that cannot be changed: they would rather trust others than choose to believe in themselves. Whether they are self-confident or evil, no one knows when they began to succumb to the powerful and powerful. Instead of choosing to believe in yourself, you will become bigger and stronger. Kneeling and licking is a manifestation of weakness and incompetence in human nature, blind obedience, Luf's lazy thinking, and a depravity that does not want to make progress......

On the "Didi" country road, there is occasionally the sound of car horns. That's a reminder to the rider of the battery bike to pay attention to avoid.

Four lanes have become two lanes, and people who ride electric bikes always like to ride in the middle of the main road. People who can avoid it by pressing the horn can be regarded as knowing some rules. When riding in the middle of the road, no matter how many times you honk your horn, he still does the same. You are angry, he and she laugh and nod at you, so angry that your teeth are itchy and you don't negotiate.

I don't know if it's because I pretended not to hear, or because I was wearing a helmet on my head, I couldn't hear the horn.

In short, even if you stop him, he tells you: Oh, I'm sorry, I didn't hear you, he's a good guy. When he encounters an unreasonable person, he just hates that no one quarrels with him. He was in a panic, blushing and thick-necked, and gave you a sentence: The main road was bought by your family? If you didn't buy it, why didn't you just allow you to drive in the middle of the road, and not allow me to ride in the middle of the road?

Oh, rightly so!

It sounds like it's not unreasonable. You can't think of anything to prevaricate, so you have to wave your hand, because you ran into a thorn, so Xiucai ran into Bing and couldn't explain it clearly. Driving on a country road, you have to be prepared to avoid or brake at all times.

Because, adults and children, a hula comes out of where you can't see, you chase after me, scaring you into a cold sweat, they turn around and smile at you, this is definitely not made up out of thin air.

When I met such a person, I really wanted to get out of the car and kick him twice. However, when you encounter a scoundrel, needless to say kick him twice, you use your fingers to flick him, and immediately fall to the ground and pretend to be dead, 110 again, 120 again, then you are in trouble, and you are in a big deal!

Therefore, every time Li Xiangyi holds the steering wheel, she always reminds herself in her brain: I am not a road slave, I don't drive a gambling car, I would rather wait for a minute, and never grab a second more. You see, the old woman was riding in the middle of the road. Honked the horn "Dididi" several times, but she just wouldn't let her, do you dare to hit her?

Of course not, only when she rides steadily, as long as she is not walking in an S-shape, there is always a chance to throw her to the rear of the car with one foot of the accelerator.

Crossing the old woman riding in the middle of the road, in the reflector, watching her gradually being left behind, Li Xiangyi's mind turned over.

Every time on the way home, she always thinks of a lot of interesting and uninteresting things.

Some things happen to you, some things happen to your neighbors, and some things happen to your co-workers. Perhaps, until this moment, she did not have time to think about the wrong things that belonged to her family. Alas! Li Xiangyi looked at the two children in the rearview mirror, one older and one younger, all closing their eyes and recuperating.

She turned on her headlights and went uphill, and the Hongqi car slipped into the middle of the bridge, and she wanted to stop and see more of the scenery under the torrent bridge.

There is no fleet, more than a dozen large ships are connected together, and the bow of a steamer in front is used as the driving power, dragging dozens of houses, and the boat is loaded with goods and driving on the river under the torrent bridge. Anyway, parking on the bridge is illegal, let alone at night. The car glides downward, and it is said that fuel consumption can be reduced at this time.

After getting off the torrent bridge, Li Xiangyi's shadow of his man Sun Daoliang suddenly appeared in his mind.

If you want to say that Sun Daoliang is a person, it is indeed true that he is a high-achieving student of the Second Army.

Although Sun Daoliang explained to her that during her work, some female nurses often went to her department to talk to her. After work, they went to their dormitory in twos and threes. There are also people who take advantage of the silence alone to walk to their dormitory and knock on the door. His explanation to Li Xiangyi has only one meaning: he is innocent! Despite this, Li Xiangyi would rather choose to believe that he is like that.

has a bad political record, learns to be rich and has five cars, and no one cares about him.

It is really difficult to deal with a person with no family background and come to the local government to find him a position as a civil servant. Due to the information on Sun Daoliang's dismissal from the military, he was transferred to the local people's armed forces department in advance, and there was no pressure on the local government at all. With this alone, there is no need to make arrangements for Sun Daoliang.

Finding a way out on his own is Sun Daoliang's only choice.

Sun Daoliang, who knew that he had little hope of returning to his hometown, did not despair after receiving the decision to be expelled from the army. He was also prepared for the consequences of returning to his hometown, .......