In view of his mother's reminder, Wen Qingqing also thought a lot about himself.

I also checked some information to better understand the meaning behind the phenomena such as "urging marriage" and "giving birth" in today's society.

Often the more backward the area, the earlier the age of marriage, when the two people are not yet mentally mature, they get married early, and then have children early under the pressure of the elders to inherit the lineage.

In fact, he is still a child, has no economic foundation and no independent ability, and after giving birth, he can only throw the responsibility of raising children to his parents and elders.

The more I understand, the more I feel heavy about this responsibility, raising children is not about liking the cuteness of children, and there are still many problems to face.

So when Xie Zhiyan mentioned this, Wen Qingqing immediately reflexed.

She can't be "born", right?

Fortunately, Xie Zhiyan thought the same as she thought, which made her feel the importance of understanding even more.

"Then what if the hometown is going to give birth?"

After all, two people are rushing to get married, if they get married normally, isn't it normal not to plan to have children?

Although theoretically it is normal, public opinion is so.

Xie Zhiyan knocked on the steering wheel and responded calmly.

"It's good that they gave birth and said that I don't have the ability to have children," his brisk tone made Wen Qingqing think he was joking, "Anyway, I don't want to be a father much now, I've only been with you for a long time, the world of the two of them hasn't had enough, and I immediately fell into the milk powder diaper, it's too hard." ”

Although he agreed in his heart, Wen Qingqing still felt a little uncomfortable.

As if he didn't like their children......

This kind of emotion lasted until he returned to the home of the two, Xie Zhiyan pinched her face and lowered his head to tease her.

"Unhappy, so let's have a baby now?"

"you. ”

Wen Qing glanced at him innocently, turned around him and was about to leave, but he grabbed him.

"What the hell is going on? I think the two of us have any problems to communicate in time, so as not to cause a bloody misunderstanding of the plot in the drama you often chase, what is it that is unhappy, I said the wrong thing?"

Wen Qingqing didn't want to say it, but he couldn't match his frank eyes, so he had to open his mouth.

"I just think...... You don't seem to like our children very much. ”

Xie Zhiyan was stunned for a moment, then suddenly his shoulders trembled slightly, and he couldn't help but turn his head and laugh.

"Hey!"

Wen Qingqing didn't expect him to react like this, and his face turned red with anger.

"Okay, I'm sorry," Xie Zhiyan had no choice but to pull the person to the sofa and sit down, and explained to her properly.

"I admit that there is a problem with the way I express it, which has caused my little fairy to feel psychologically uncomfortable, and I want to apologize solemnly to you. ”

His expression became serious, and Wen Qingqing gave a look, secretly saying in his heart that this attitude was quite acceptable.

I just heard him continue, "Then let's assume that if you are unexpectedly pregnant now, what will happen to the studio? Wen Qingqing Studio, everyone is here for the name of your Wenda designer, and others will not be useful." And with your current workload, you will definitely not be able to achieve it after pregnancy, and you will be faced with career and life choices at that time. ”

Xie Zhiyan raised his hand in surrender, "Don't look at me like that, men and women are naturally structurally different, which determines that women have to bear most of the costs and consequences of childbirth." ”

"Then what should I choose a career?" Wen Qingqing said with some reluctance.

"You don't believe it yourself," Xie Zhiyan sighed, and reached out to touch her head distressedly, "My family is so kind and beautiful, and when I encounter anything, I will only take the responsibility on myself, how can I give up my child and choose a career?"

Wen Qingqing nodded silently.

Xie Zhiyan is right, she is impossible, no matter how much she wants to continue to fight for her career, if she really has an unplanned pregnancy, then she can only retreat into the background.

"Now it's just an assumption, I'm already about to drive myself to a dead end, how can I bear to have another possibility?"

I have to say that Wen Qingqing is really kind.

No matter which task it is, the heroine is really full of kindness to life, but it's a pity that life always fails them.

The kinder and more beautiful you are, the worse your end will be.

Because there are always people who want to use this kindness to achieve ulterior purposes, there are too many people with malicious intentions, and without the ability to protect herself, kindness and beauty will only drag her deeper into the quagmire.

"I'm sorry. Wen Qingqing suddenly spoke, "It's because I'm too hypocritical, and I can't turn around for a while." ”

If she really followed that assumption, she would have lost a lot of what made her happy now, and she would have fewer possibilities for the rest of her life.

"No, I'm not right. Therefore, I also have to take responsibility and take safety measures to prevent uncontrollable accidents from happening. ”

Xie Zhiyan had a serious face, and the assurance he made made Wen Qingqing laugh out loud.

He breathed a sigh of relief, and his handsome face was full of indulgent smiles.

"If we can't handle life well, then the children should only be more busy, and when we both feel that the time comes, whether it is financially or psychologically capable of raising children, we can plan to add a wonderful little life to this world, okay?"

Xie Zhiyan hugged her gently, and his gentle voice depicted the future.

"Okay, there's no pressure on my parents' side, after all, there is still a brother in front of them, and their own old age has been planned enough to make room for us at all. ”

Wen Qingqing thought that her mother's plan was already thick.

Scenic spots around the world are involved, including extreme sports......

"My parents are expected to have some pressure on their side, but I am an independent individual, not bound by any constraints and pressures, I can earn a little more money to meet their material needs in life, as for living independently of each other, if it doesn't work, just use the trick I said at the beginning. When they find out that there are more beautiful things in life, they probably won't have time to stare at me, no problem. ”

He shrugged and said lightly.

Wen Qingqing breathed a sigh of relief, the corners of his lips rose, and two shallow pear vortices appeared.

"Zhiyan, thank you. I know that my family who loves me so much will say something excessive in front of you, thank you for your tolerance, I will try to make you happy. ”

"Don't care, I should be happy that someone loves you unreservedly, and I will try to make you happy. ”

The two of them pressed their foreheads against each other, and their eyes were reflected in each other.

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