Chapter 486: Self-reliance
Knowing that the woman in the backyard became restless because of her actions, Wanxi's mood instantly improved a lot. These women in the backyard actually united together to stab her, why did she bother to talk to these women about benevolence and morality.
Other people's concubines are only favored by some rewards in private, and if they raise their living standards a little, they are not favored, and they are really poor in that day, and they have not enough meals. In the past, she felt that they were all women, so why bother to be favored and embarrassed women, but some people don't deserve sympathy at all, and if they don't teach them a lesson, they still think that all this is what they deserve.
To put it bluntly, luck accounts for most of it, after all, the eye edge is a natural thing, and it is pure luck to be able to see the right eye, and even I don't know how to explain the reason, let alone other people. Since you have lost your eyes and lost your luck, you can't hate if you want to play tricks, but if you want to take advantage of others and take others as stepping stones as a matter of course, then you can't complain that others will show you a knife.
In addition, Wanxi has also readjusted the parenting style of her daughters. If in the past, she just hoped that they would be cheerful and open-minded, then now she hopes to exercise their hearts, such as being able to deal with things on their own, rather than crying or complaining.
Helplessly, several little girls in front of her were spoiled by her, and her personality was cheerful and cheerful, but she was not tough enough, nor strong enough, so she could think about it in case of trouble, but once she got into the tip of the horns, I am afraid it will be more difficult to let go than ordinary people. In order not to let them become their previous lives, and not to let them become those complaining women in the backyard, she has a long way to go.
These days, in addition to Mama Dou, Mama Ping was also pulled back by Wanxi, in addition to explaining the private affairs in the palace and the backyard, she also had to explain to them how to prevent people's hearts. Sometimes, being stabbed by an unrelated person and being stabbed by someone close to you are completely different things. Wanxi herself is okay, the people around her have been tested in the previous life, and in this life, because she has a good arrangement, it can be regarded as harmonious, and there is no unbalanced mentality or white-eyed wolf or anything, everything can be regarded as complete. It's just that every time she sees listening to the rain and listening to the piano, she feels a headache.
It's not that there are no self-combing maids, and Mama Dou and Mama Ping are the best examples. But Wanxi didn't want to hear the rain like this. Every time I see Tingzhu and their happy appearance, I hope that other people around me can also be happy. After all, she had a very satisfactory life in the previous life, and none of the people who followed her had a good end, so in this life, whether she had followed her in the previous life or not, she hoped to have a good home.
This is a kind of guilt, an obsession with the imperfection of the previous life, an obsession with happiness. Can't erase it, can't forget it, the only way to solve it is probably to bring the people around you to be happy together!
Wanxi, who came to Qingfeng Courtyard with Tingyu and Tingqin, originally wanted to see the progress of a few children, after all, listening to Mama Dou, these children would be afraid that it would be difficult for them to reach the point she wanted for a while. Although she was a little disappointed, Wanxi knew in her heart that this kind of thing rote memorization was actually not very useful, and only by learning and using it could it be taken as a matter of time.
Walking outside the study, she heard the voice of Mama Dou and Mama Ping's explanation, she stopped inexplicably, listened quietly, and by the way, also paid attention to the reactions of several children, after all, they have different temperaments, different ideas, and different tolerances to accept things. In this regard, she must make different arrangements, so as not to take advantage of the loopholes and harm these children.
"Fujin, don't you want to go in?" Hearing Yu, she saw that Wanxi had been standing outside the door, looking like she wasn't going to go in at all, and she was inexplicably a little puzzled, after all, they came here to see Da Gege!
"Nope. Mama Dou and Mama Ping taught her very well, but these children are afraid that it will be difficult to digest such a cruel fact in a short time. Wanxi glanced at the study before turning around, and saw that the expressions of several children were not very good-looking, and they were obviously a little unacceptable. Anyway, these things can't be practiced all at once.
Listening to the rain listened to her words, she laughed dryly twice, encountering this kind of thing at an innocent age, it is difficult for everyone to digest. What's more, they don't just have to listen, they also have to study seriously, even if they don't harm others in the future, they must at least know how to prevent others from harming themselves.
"What Fu Jin said is that Gege is innocent, and it is normal for them to be difficult to accept for a while. Tingyu smiled and replied in a low voice.
This kind of thing is difficult for everyone to accept, but people's circumstances are different, and their thoughts are naturally different. Sometimes, if there is no one to protect them, they will not want to grow up, and Mo Yaqi and they will naively think that the world is bright because of the protection of the Lord and Ben Fujin, but where is there only light in this world!" Wanxi glanced at Tingyu, with a look of emotion, thinking that she knew her thoughts very well in her heart, but she didn't specifically point it out.
When Hearing Yu hear her words, she was startled at first, and then couldn't help lowering her head, "Fujin is right, you don't want to grow up if you are protected." "And these people don't even have relatives to protect them, how can they not grow up by themselves.
Wanxi didn't speak again, just strode forward, every step was very firm, obviously she also knew in her heart that the children were not small, and it was time to learn to grow up by themselves, after all, she couldn't protect them for a lifetime. Like this time, Da Gege did a good job, although many places were unsatisfactory, but at least it was vigilant enough.
Listening to the rain and listening to the qin looked at the back of Wanxi, and sighed in their hearts, Fu Jin also did this for the good of a few little masters, after all, the master has never had a lot of enemies, they can prevent it once or twice, who can guarantee that they can prevent it every time! It is better to let the little masters stand on their own feet, so that everyone can feel at ease.
Mama Dou and Mama Ping naturally got the news, although it was not clear what Wanxi said, but from the retelling of the maids outside, it could be guessed that Fu Jin was still very satisfied with their upbringing of Gege. As long as they are satisfied, after all, the importance of the master is their ultimate destination, and since the two of them entered the county king's mansion, the support of this life is all on Wanxi.
Mo Yaqi and the others didn't know what Wanxi had come halfway through, and everything that Mama Dou and Mama Ping described had too much impact on them, making them a little incompetent to accept. However, after listening to Mama Dou's explanation, several little girls suddenly had a sense of crisis. In particular, Mo Yaqi's feelings were even deeper, and she couldn't help but shudder whenever she thought of what kind of result she didn't find out. I didn't find out what kind of result could it be? It must be that she can't be saved, and Eniang is also implicated, in the words of Mama Ping, the county king's mansion is almost wiped out. She can no longer be the target of others without knowing it, she has to stand up on her own, and she has to share some of it for Eniang.
Thinking of this, Mo Yaqi not only studied seriously, but also privately urged several younger sisters to study and discuss together, and it seemed that she was ready to teach Mama Ping and Mama Dou to eat these things thoroughly.
Mama Ping and Mama Dou privately noticed the changes in several Gege, and they were also quite pleased. In this world, if a woman wants to live a better life, in addition to the support of her family, father and brother, she has to rely on herself. It can be said that he can stand up, which is more real than the previous ones, which can be understood by looking at Fujin himself. Thinking about the Queen Mother back then, she had the support of her family, and even the support of the Queen Mother, but the emperor was unwilling, so she had more bargaining chips, and in the end, even if she did not become an outcast, she was inseparable, and she was a widow for a lifetime.
"Gege can face this squarely, and Fujin must be a little more relieved. Mama Dou glanced at a few Gege who were sitting around and discussing, and said with a sigh.
"Definitely. Sometimes, instead of pinning your hopes on others, it is better to stand up yourself, after all, there are some things that are more hopeful on your own than on others. Mama Ping looked in the direction of the Forbidden City, and her eyes were faintly shining with tears.
Mama Dou glanced at the direction of the Forbidden City along Mama Ping's line of sight, reached out and patted her shoulder, and said with a serious face: "Since you have left that place, don't think about the past, do the things that the Queen Mother explained, and the rest is to be loyal to Fujin." This is the Queen Mother's explanation, and it is also what we should do. ”
Mama Ping took a deep breath, and then nodded at Mama Dou, obviously she did not resist the new master of Wanxi, on the contrary, she was sincerely grateful to Wanxi, "I understand, although one servant does not serve the two masters, but as long as it is the master approved by the Queen Mother, it is also our master, so no matter what the master commands, even if I fight for this old life, I have to help the master get things done." ”
Mama Ping taught them attentively, and Mo Yaqi and they also learned seriously, even if they couldn't see the depth in a short time, they could detect the changes in several children from subtle points.
Compared with the good atmosphere of Qingfeng Courtyard, the small pleasure of Qingyi Courtyard, the life of other people in the backyard seems to be a little difficult. Although these people have thought about it for a long time, it is true that they have found a way to contact each other behind their backs, but these people have always been greedy for life and afraid of death. You want me to rush in front, she wants her to rush in front, so that no one refuses to come out of this, since nearly half a month, the backyard of the grumbling continues, but some people impulsively want to make a move, but when it comes to shooting, and inexplicably withdraw.
Every time Wanxi got the news, she sighed for a while why these people couldn't be neat and shoot directly, so that she could finish it directly, after all, if this kind of thing dragged on, it would not be a good phenomenon for them.
Seeing that a few girls have changed a lot, it can be seen that her arrangement is still useful, as for Hongmin and the boys, because of Yinyu's arrangement, Wanxi specially told and cared about it, and did not interfere. I'm just afraid that the children will think too much, so I asked them to talk about it together.
Wanxi didn't know if the children really understood the meaning of her words, but after that, her children seemed to slowly shed their naïve coats and became more and more precocious. She looked sad, but she could only watch, after all, she couldn't guarantee that those people with ulterior motives would no longer attack them, let alone that her future self would be able to protect them like now.