According to the law of attraction, if one is always mourning the past, one will be trapped in the old reality that one wants to change and cannot be freed from guilt and regret, and if one is always worried about the future, one's worries will draw into reality what one does not want to happen. The correct mindset should be that no matter whether fate is good or bad, just actively focus on adjusting the current thoughts, words and behaviors of the present, and then fate will unconsciously develop for good.

Ordinary people with strong energy, in the case of a little blow, will become a little unhappy, after the energy fades and is hit again, there will be suicidal emotions, emotions are weakened with the energy, and slowly escalated, as long as you still have energy in your heart, even if there is only one person left in the world to listen to you, you will not produce suicidal emotions, this is very strange energy.

Pearl said: "Is this the emotion of human beings, it turns out that human beings are still so strange, big brother, tell me what else." The elf princess on the side also said happily: "Yes, yes, say it quickly, it feels so beautiful and strange." ”

Zhang Xuanchu said: "The current state of human beings, by the energy in the body at the moment, the energy has become higher, the current state does not want to change, and the emotions will also make you change." For example, when you are full, you don't want to move, when you are hungry, you will be weak, others will praise you, you will be happy, and others will hit you, and you will be sad. When you are sad, you will feel comfortable when others soothe you, and if others hit you again, your negativity will escalate further. All this is the increase and decrease of energy in the human body, not the brain controlling the change of emotions, the generator of energy is the human heart, so the things that increase the energy and decrease the energy are the things that can touch the hearts of people, and it is useless for a person who others don't like to appease others.

This is a very important law among the people who achieve the goal time and the hard work, many people in the pursuit of the goal, because they can not see obvious results for a long time, so they lose confidence and give up the results of the beginning.

It is necessary to know that the cultivation of destiny is a long-term thing, you must have enough patience, and you will expect great gains from the previous efforts, as long as you do not give up, the final efforts will make great and essential progress. Quantitative change can reach qualitative change, why are there always a few successful people, because there are always a few people who can persevere.

Panda Man Tiemu said: "Zhang Xuanchu, I have never heard you say anything about your perception of people, I didn't expect you to say so richly, which makes people feel a lot of emotion, and I have also gained a lot." ”

Zhang Xuanchu said: "What I said is just what I accidentally realized from my thoughts, which is like the law of deserving, people get everything they deserve, not everything they want to get." Those who have a thousand gold are worth a thousand gold, and those who should starve to death should starve to death, this is the truth. But there is a law of fate, and although the law cannot be changed, the source of blessing can be repaired.

Therefore, the cultivator of destiny must improve his self-worth, and if his self-worth increases, the quality and quantity of what he deserves will be greatly improved, so that there are immortal cultivators, all kinds of cultivators.

In order to improve one's self-worth, both material and spiritual, one's own value must be realized indirectly by improving the value of others.

For example, if you want to improve your own self-esteem, you must do so indirectly by first raising the self-esteem of others. If you want to achieve something, you must first achieve your own achievement indirectly by achieving others, and this is merit.

Another example is that some people who were founded only to pursue maximum profits are often short-lived and disappear in a short time, while those who are committed to providing quality services and good deeds for the society and the people are often long-lasting and getting bigger and bigger. That's where the law of indirection comes into play. ”

Zhang Xuanchu said: "I'm very happy, I don't know why, after coming here, I have a lot of thoughts I want to say, so that everyone can share the life I just realized."

It is worth mentioning that in the law of indirectness, improving self-worth and improving the value of others often occur at the same time, that is, when you are improving the value of others, your self-worth will increase immediately. ”

The Maiden said: "I only know that merit is difficult to say, and the accumulation of virtue is also a law of doing good deeds. ”

Everyone stopped and listened to Zhang Xuanchu very quietly, which made them feel a lot better when they listened. Zhang Xuanchu continued: "What you are talking about is the law of giving, and giving is the meaning of giving. This law means that whatever you give will be rewarded to you exponentially, and there is a lot of giving.

For example, if you give money or material things, you will receive money or material rewards exponentially, which is a good deed with the expected result, but it is only for your own future good deeds, and if you give joy to others and make others happy, you will receive double the joy that others reciprocate for you, and if you give peace of mind to others, you will get happiness multiplied.

On the other hand, if what you inflict on others is uneasiness, hatred, anger, sorrow, you will get these corresponding retributions exponentially, and this is the opposite effect. ”

The elf girl said: "Big brother, you human beings are so difficult, and what you said is so profound and difficult to understand, but I still know a little bit, but do human beings have no intention of reciprocating?" After finishing speaking, all the people also looked at him and nodded, and the underworld girl also smiled, and wanted to know how Zhang Xuanchu answered.

Zhang Xuanchu said: "The principle of not expecting anything in return is a supplement to the law of generosity. This principle is that when you give, you should never expect to get something in return, and some people don't want to give anything in return, and the less you want to give back, the greater your return. As the saying goes, "good will be rewarded with good, and evil will be rewarded with evil, it is not that it will not be rewarded, but the time has not yet come" is what it means.

For example, I don't know if anyone has ever encountered a similar situation: one day you are in a hurry to meet someone important, and you see an elderly couple on the road whose car is broken. You don't want to take care of it because you're in a hurry, but you feel that it has to be managed, and respecting the elderly is a virtue of the Chinese people, so you stop and help them fix it. When you have done your job, the old man wants to pay you a sum of gold and silver to show your gratitude, you politely refuse the old man and wish them good luck walking, and then you continue on your way. Isn't it strange that when you arrive at the location of the person you have made an appointment, you find that your important person has arrived later than you, and that person has happily agreed with you to do something. ”

The elf girl applauded, and everyone applauded in approval.

Zhang Xuanchu continued: "For example, do you sometimes feel very lucky? But this is not luck, but an invisible law. So remember: giving is more blessed than receiving, and giving is a great blessing in itself, without having to reciprocate from the recipient. Weigh the elephant, everyone said that if you add a silk scarf to the elephant (return), how much will the elephant's weight increase?

Everyone said, "It makes sense, it's really a rare learning." ”

Zhang Xuanchu said: "Not only these alms, but also our own principles, self-interest, and altruism. The beginning of all altruistic thoughts, words, and actions is to accept yourself for what you have and truly love yourself. Only in this way can you love others, can you love the world, can you have true joy, stability and fearlessness, and can you have a broader mind.

If you don't like yourself and don't like yourself, then you can't really like others. This is very important. There is a misconception that some people equate loving themselves with selfishness. If you carefully appreciate the true meaning of love, you will find that if you don't like or are dissatisfied with yourself, you will easily develop jealousy and resentment.

I am also a member of all sentient beings, so why exclude myself while loving sentient beings? So please get to know yourself well, be friends with yourself first, and then talk about loving other sentient beings, etc. ”

The Maiden said: "That's right, each of us must also have the principle of forgiveness, if negative thoughts are compared to a tree, then its root is "resentment", and if this root is cut off, the tree will not live long. To cut off the roots, one must know how to forgive. The first person who needs to be forgiven and forgiven is your own parents, and no matter what bad things your parents have done or are doing to you, you must completely and completely forgive them.

The second thing that needs to be forgiven is all the people who have hurt or are hurting you in any way, of course, not forbearance, remember that you don't have to be smiling with them, you don't need to be good friends with them, you can simply and completely forgive them and you can cut off the roots of the tree of negativity.

No matter what bad things you have done in the past, please sincerely repent and promise not to do it again, and then please forgive yourself. The heavy mental shackles of guilt will not allow you to make a difference, but will hinder you from becoming a new person. All things in the past, such as yesterday's death, and all things that will follow, such as today's birth. So the records of hell are true. ”

Zhang Xuanchu said: "This is the principle of being responsible for oneself, people must be responsible for everything they do, when people take a responsible attitude towards themselves, people will look forward to see what they can do; when people are very dependent, they will look backwards, staring at the facts that have happened in the past and can no longer be changed.

In fact, you can only be responsible for yourself. Always remind yourself that I am fully responsible for everything I say, do, circumstances, and live.

Every serious sentence is simple and true, maybe this text does not explain the truth, there is a reason or principle, but please believe that the sun will rise every day, will set, people will sleep and get up every day, then we firmly believe in these laws and beliefs, even if you do not know these reasons, but it still exists, just believe and do a good job! Knowing what fortune is, what good luck is, and what good fortune is, merit is such a simple truth. ”

When he finished speaking, he only heard a happy 'hahahahaha' laughing and flying over, with a spring breeze on his face.