It's not that he wants to calculate Xiao Jingtang's anything, but it's a habit, a habit that has been cultivated in five years, and when he goes to a place, he will subconsciously lay down his eyeliner, so that no matter what happens, even if it has nothing to do with her, she can know it.

The first person in this yard to find out that the second young grandmother had changed, it may be her, but it didn't hinder her interests, and she didn't have to do anything. The previous Du Wenrou was stupid, she used some small means, she could crack it without much effort, and she could also get a considerable amount of appeasement silver taels from Xiao Jingtang.

But now, Du Wenrou has changed, and she is not a person at all from before, even if everyone thinks that she is still Du Wenrou, she will not think so.

You can treat it as if it were two people.

The aroma of wine entered her throat, and the smile on Ruan Miaomeng's face became stronger, her eyes were full of water and gentleness, and she smiled: "Sometimes I really envy you, I like a person, it's a good thing to be able to let go of it so quickly." ”

"Can't you put it down?" asked Gentle in a low voice.

"Me?" Laughing twice, Ruan Miaomeng burst into tears of laughter: "How am I going to put it down?" Do you know that the more force you use to lift something, the more difficult it is to put it down? The best five years have been spent with him to carry that thing, and now I am asked to put it down, I am reluctant and unwilling. ”

Gentle was stunned for a moment, and subconsciously reached out and patted her back.

As a result, Ruan Miaomeng cried out with a "wow", just like a child, and trembled gently.

This kind of crying can only occur when I was a child, opening my mouth wide and squinting my eyes, and crying loudly. When girls grow up, they generally know that they have to maintain their image when they cry, and they will restrain themselves more. But when it's really sad, it's still the same as it is.

Wen Rou felt a little distressed, but she didn't know what she had experienced, so she could only gently follow her back and whisper, "Good, don't cry." ”

"If only I could be ...... I must... must become a girl who doesn't understand anything, just stand beside him and be coquettish, and it won't take years of hard work to send a husband for someone else. Choked up, Ruan Miaomeng said: "What's the use of a woman's ability? Men still like to be weak after all." ”

He patted her hand on the back, frowned gently, held her shoulders and made her look at herself, and said seriously: "Who told you that women have to live for men all their lives?

Slightly stunned, Ruan Miaomeng's eyes were red and swollen, and she looked at her quite aggrievedly: "It's not for this, it's for what?"

Gently pouted: "Naturally, it's for yourself, everyone is born by your parents, why do your parents have to live for others all their lives? In that case, why don't we think more about ourselves?"

"I want to plan for myself, too. Tears came up again, Ruan Miaomeng said: "But what can a woman do in the world? A woman who leaves a man will be poked in the back, and what the sage said is that a woman must obey a man all her life to be considered the right way." ”

Rolling his eyes, he asked her gently, "Are you talking about a man or a woman?"

"Naturally, it's a man. ”

"That's it. He snorted coldly and said gently: "If the saint is a chicken, he will also say that people obey the chicken all their lives to be considered right." People dug pits for women to jump in, and you really jumped in and buried yourself honestly?"

"But ......"

"There's nothing to do, listen to you, you've worked hard for five years to help your husband find a marquis, but he married a more docile woman, right?"

That's probably the case, Ruan Miaomeng nodded.

"That's stupid. He pouted and said gently: "If you look for a marquis for your husband, it will definitely cost a lot of relationships and money in the middle, and it is difficult for you to not ask your man to settle accounts? Even if you don't settle accounts, then his network and finances should also be in your hands, right? So that even if he abandons you in the future, you will have the opportunity to re-employ yourself." ”

"I ......" Du Furui stopped crying, tilted her head and thought: "It's true, when I came here with him in anger, I didn't ask for anything, thinking that he would miss me well." ”

"Bah, if a man would repay your kindness, then there wouldn't be so many bad wives who went down to court. Gentle and unhappily said: "No matter how angry a smart woman is, she shouldn't leave without anything, he is the one who did wrong, and he should be the one who leaves the house!"

Ruan Miaomeng sighed: "I met you earlier, I heard you say this, maybe it's better now." ”

pinched her hand and said gently: "It's not too late to wake up now, I see that you love silver now, are you planning for the future?"

Smiled a little awkwardly, Ruan Miaomeng blushed and said, "I'm just used to it, I like to dig up silver and save it, so that when he needs anything, I can still help......"

Gentleness: "......"

Such a good girl, who looks beautiful and beautiful, how much can't her man think about it to want her?

"Don't think I'm unproductive, I've figured it out now. The wine was surging, Ruan Miaomeng giggled twice: "Don't wait for him, don't care about him, I save money for myself, and when I save enough, I will go out and buy a small shop, rent it out every month, and eat rent to live for the elderly." ”

"That's a good idea. Nodding gently, he looked at her and said, "A weak girl has the advantage of being weak, but it doesn't mean that a capable woman is wrong." You see, you are so powerful, you can live without a man. ”

"But ......" was still a little unwilling, Ruan Miaomeng bit her lip and asked: "As far as men are concerned, do they still prefer weak women?"

Gentle sigh: "Thousands of years of feudal thinking have made men have the idea that they are the pillars in their bones, they like to be relied on by women, and they also like to be needed by women, so there are too many examples of strong women and husbands cheating." It can't be said that capable women are not likable, it's just that the way you get along with men is not quite right. ”

"You can be strong in front of outsiders, but in front of your man, you still have to have needs, you have to be coquettish, and you have to rely on. Even if there is something you don't need and he gives it to you, remember to praise him so that he will remember to give you something next time. Be kind to him, remember to give him the steps, and use a suggestive tone instead of an order if you have ideas, so that there will be a lot less conflict between husband and wife. ”

"But there is another kind of man, you have to stay away when you meet you and you don't want to think about it - because you are too powerful, feel inferior, don't think about how to catch up with you or be proud of you, but blindly suppress the man who dislikes you and says that you are not doing it right. That's straight male cancer, I naturally think that women should be weak, and with this kind of person, capable girls will not be too happy. ”

Yang Tian let out a long sigh and muttered softly: "The reason why I am single until now is because I am surrounded by straight men with cancer. ”

Ruan Miaomeng was a little dazed: "Straight male cancer?

"It's not a simple accusation, but disrespect for women, feeling that women are inherently accessories of men, without dignity and autonomy, that is straight male cancer. Gently clenched his fists: "There used to be a fool around me, whose monthly salary was only half of mine, saying that I couldn't find a boyfriend anymore, so I could only find someone like him, and that it was useless for me to work well and I couldn't get married." For this kind of stupidity, I just fired him! I thought I was a little princess in my mother's arms!"

After half understanding, Ruan Miaomeng nodded: "That's good, Lou Dongfeng is not that kind of person." ”

Lou Dongfeng?Gentleness finally heard the name, but always felt that this name seemed to appear in Du Wenrou's memory.

Closed his eyes and rummaged in Du Wen's memory, and Wen Wen found it. When the emperor of the dynasty, the younger brother of Lou Guifei, surnamed Lou Dongfeng, was named the marquis because of his meritorious service and great military achievements, and the emperor attached great importance to it, and crowned it with the word "emperor", highlighting his identity.

Why did Du Wenrou know about it? Because the marriage that the Du family had planned for her was this Lou Dongfeng, but he stubbornly refused to marry a wife, so the marriage was abandoned.

"Wait. When he opened his eyes, he asked her gently: "Lou Dongfeng has a wife now?"

Ruan Miaomeng nodded, and said in a fluttering voice: "Yes, it is said that it was love at first sight on the street, that girl is gentle and considerate, and she is the daughter of a small businessman's family." Lou Dongfeng didn't say a word and welcomed her as the main room...... I really didn't say a word. ”

When he came to tell her, everyone had already entered the door, and he said to her seriously: "When you come back later, I will let her give up her position." ”

Isn't it ridiculous to give up her position? That was her place, and now it's like she's robbed someone else.

It's disgusting......

The most disgusting thing in a woman's life is that the man she trained herself and finally fell in love with someone else. Raising a pig is so good that you can eat meat by yourself if you kill it, and this thing for a man is really only a loss and no profit.

She suddenly felt that Du Wen's words were really reasonable, and she must listen to them.

sighed and said gently: "We don't care so much, now that you are Xiao Jingtang's aunt, you can't be cold or hungry, take care of the things in this courtyard for him, and he won't treat you badly." ”

"I know. Giggling twice, Ruan Miaomeng touched the account book next to him: "I'll take care of it for him, even if I can't take care of it, won't I still have you?"

"Me?" poured a sip of wine into his mouth and smiled softly, "I may not be able to stay long." ”

"Huh?" Looking at her half-open, Ruan Miaomeng asked, "Where are you going?"

"Naturally, I want to go where men don't care about me. Reaching out and pinching her face, he said gently: "When the Pei family and the Xiao family have a decisive battle and have a chance to leave, I plan to do some business, if you want, you can also come and help me." ”