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At the end, he pretended to ask Ning He: "Do you remember where you put those hundreds of books?"

Ning He shook his head and said, "I don't remember." ”

After all, the friends who have broken through the secret realm together and fought together have carved together, in terms of tacit understanding, Ning He can still guess what Lu Duhuan wants to do.

It has been said that the good or bad of the world depends largely on your heart.

People who are full of sunshine in their hearts will have a warm world;

Those whose hearts are full of clouds will make the world rainy.

Things turn with the heart, the environment is created by the heart, and all the troubles are born from the heart.

Calm down, communicate patiently, only if you are calm enough, you will be rational enough, so as not to let things get worse.

In fact, friction between people is rarely so big that it can be solved. But sometimes, we are prone to make fatal mistakes on impulse.

Between people, don't think about changing others, but cultivate yourself more.

Tranquility is the premise of cultivating the mind, and only by calming down can we better grasp the temper and then grasp life. Even if life really falls to the bottom, don't let yourself feel sorry for yourself and give up on yourself, because no matter what attitude you face, the ups and downs will not subside.

Let yourself calm down, take one step at a time, your state of mind determines your life!

Crossing people is a kind of tolerance for others, but also a pattern of forgiveness for others.

Walking on the journey of life, everyone has their own difficulties, rather than having to compare, it is better to be more tolerant.

I once watched a short film of "We'veallbeenthere" in the circle of friends.

An old woman's car had a flat tire on the highway and was anxiously waiting for someone to come to fix it.

At this time, a strange man passing by helped her fix the car.

The old woman was grateful and gave the man a sum of money, and although the man had just lost his job, he refused the old woman's money and said, "We all have times like this." ”

Later, the old woman went to a restaurant and saw a pregnant woman who was still working as a waitress for a living.

So when the old woman left, she gave her a large sum of money in an envelope, hoping to help her through the trouble, and the envelope read, "We all have times like this." ”

Coincidentally, the pregnant woman in the story happens to be the man's wife. On the last day of the holiday, I went to the theater to watch a movie.

Halfway through the sight, a couple in the front row broke out into an argument.

The boy got up angrily and strode out of the theater, leaving the girl alone to wipe her tears.

I looked down at the time, it was exactly eleven o'clock in the evening.

In an hour, the movie is coming to an end, and the day is coming to an end.

I thought they might not be reconciled until the next day.

As a result, the boy suddenly came back, holding popcorn and Coke in his arms, and smiled silly at the girl.

I suddenly felt that this scene was sweeter than the scenes in many love movies.

Because between emotion and reason, he didn't let his girlfriend cry alone until tomorrow.

One of the most gentle phrases I've heard is:

"I'm not going to let you spend the night with your emotions in mind;

Your so-called self-regulation is slowly moving away from me, and I don't want you to be like this. ”

Many people like to keep each other calm and calm after a fight.

As everyone knows, the good night that can't wait, the long night that can't sleep, will infinitely magnify the damage.

Not loving is three points of indifference and seven points of coldness.

Love is three points gentle, seven points warm;

It's me who is willing to put down the bottom and the shelf, and reconcile with you;

I am reluctant to leave you alone with cranky thoughts and sleeplessness.

As the saying goes: Be kind to others!

But a lot of good people don't get good returns.

In the Analects there is such a passage -

Said: How can you repay grievances with virtue?

Zi said: How to repay virtue? Repay grievances with directness, and repay virtue with virtue.

What this passage says is that it is right for someone to ask Confucius for advice, and when he is harmed, he does not care about it, but responds with kindness?

Confucius asked rhetorically, if kindness is used to repay revenge, then what will be used to repay the favor received by others?

Whether or not to care about the aggressor is nothing more than three attitudes towards a gentleman:

The first is to ignore it;

the second is to fight back, to repay grievances directly, and to fight back with the "straight" of fairness and justice;

The third is not to fight back, but to repay grievances with virtue.

How to deal with it, the answer in everyone's mind may be different. What kind of people get more points the more they socialize?

The answer is, detail-oriented.

can notice whether the emotions of the people around you are happy or sad;

Be able to remember other people's preferences, personalities, and rituals;

Don't embarrass other people, don't let the atmosphere become dull.

Don't leave your temper to others, and don't impose your three views on others.

No matter what the occasion, it is particularly comfortable, like a spring breeze.

Recently, I saw a video on Weibo:

A middle-aged couple, who bought coffee and sat opposite each other, were playing with their mobile phones in silence.

After a while, the middle-aged man found that there was a vacant seat far away from his wife, so he picked up his mobile phone, left his wife, and walked straight over.

is obviously a husband and wife, but it looks more like a stranger deliberately keeping a distance.

Some people say that the dilemma of middle-aged people is that women are quarreling and men are silent.

As everyone knows, in marriage, the most terrible thing is not that "the man is silent and the woman is crying", but that both people have nothing to say.

"In a sense, everything in the world is an encounter.

Just like cold meets warmth, there is rain, spring meets winter, there are years, heaven meets earth, there is eternity, people meet people, there is life.

If you don't owe each other, how can you meet. Everyone I meet in my life is no accident and has a mission. "We often say that a person must have a "pattern" in order to succeed. Among them, "grid" is personality, and "bureau" is vision and mind.

A man's personality, vision and mind not only determine how far he can go and how high he can stand on the road of life, but also affect his next generation.

A man without a pattern will never be able to support a family.

still remembers that in the popular TV series "It's All Good", there is a character who makes all the audience hate to grit their teeth - Su Daqiang.

As a husband, he avoids the big and small things in the family, is cowardly and does not take responsibility, and puts the responsibility of the family on his strong wife.

And as a father, he is even more unqualified.

His wife was patriarchal and very indifferent to her youngest daughter, and even did not let her continue to go to school with excellent grades. And his father, Su Daqiang, didn't even say a word of justice for his daughter. Caigen Tan has a saying: "The king of virtue and talent, and the slave of virtue." ”

In this life, the most valuable wealth is not gold, silver and jewelry, not a house store, nor a stock fund, but a good character.

Choose friends, character first.

I've heard a story like this:

A girl falls out with her parents and calls her friend, hoping to stay with her friend for a while.