Senior sister, do you know what is the most taboo for my generation of monks?" Bu Rugui looked at Li Dai and asked.

Li Dai was silent for a while, frowned, and said uncertainly: "Taboo...... Taboo is proud of himself after getting a little achievement, and he doesn't want to forge ahead. "If there is anything else to say, then she should be proud to have achieved such an achievement at her age, so it is very normal for Master and Senior Brother to have this worry.

In Li Dai's view, it is also very important for a person to have goals and enterprising, if he has not seen a more magical and powerful world, and has not seen a more powerful person, then Li Dai is indeed easy to be complacent if he is short-sighted, but with those experiences and those insights, Li Dai knows that he is just a little cabbage in front of the real strong, the kind that can be ravaged at any time.

So where will she have any pride, eager to use one day as two days, strong and stronger.

"No!" Bu Rugui shook his head, "Senior sister, you are very good, you can be a little proud of this achievement, as long as you are not blinded by the glitz, and then continue to stick to your goals, then there is nothing you can't do." ”

"The most terrible thing about a monk is not having a proud heart!" Bu Rugui concluded, and then looked at Li Dai and the other senior brothers and sisters in a very heavy tone, and said: "My generation of monks, the most terrible thing is to have a heart that is too stubborn, too competitive and competitive, and too concerned about self-esteem!"

When the senior brother said this, Li Dai was really stunned.

"From ancient times to the present, those who can go long and live to the end are thick-skinned, don't care about what others say, can endure it, and can not put dignity first at any time. ”

"Senior sister, there are three things wrong with you agreeing to Gu Tianyu's sword!"

In the face of other people's provocations, you feel that you can deal with it, powerful, but you don't know that you are too impulsive to decide so, you don't understand the opponent, only look at the cultivation on the surface, follow the feeling, this is very bad, if it is a person with unlimited hole cards, a ruthless person, then your response is likely to capsize in the gutter, be seriously injured, and die! Therefore, it is very bad not to act impulsively, to be indifferent to other people's provocations, not to respond because of dignity or face, or whatever, without being completely sure. ”

"In this way, if someone provokes you and you are too rigid to deal with it, then on the path of cultivation in the future, such things will be endless. ”

"So your choice is wrong!"

"Two inappropriate occasions!"

At the moment when Li Dai was stunned when she heard this, she continued:

"In this world, except for Master, except for Senior Brother, except for those who are really close to you, no one wants you to be too strong, and you directly take on Gu Tianyu's challenge, and also give others a chance to watch, although this can make you famous, it brings endless hidden dangers. ”

"In front of everyone, the more you shoot, the more battles you have, the easier it is to expose your hole cards, and if you become the target of an old monster, then fighting again and again for others to observe and summarize and fully grasp your weaknesses, that will only make you more dangerous. ”

"Therefore, the competition, unless there is a formal competition between the relevant sects, can be avoided at other times. ”

"And the person who has fought with you, either you kill him or don't fight him, otherwise you don't kill every enemy you face to fight, and all your information may be sold to Wantong Building, which is a place dedicated to collecting all kinds of intelligence. ”

"So junior sister, no matter how strong you are, try not to fight when there are many people, not the necessary fight, not the person you need to trust, this is the most basic thing to kill after the battle, junior sister, you don't realize this, you are still too young. ”

"What about the third?" asked Li Dai with a pursed mouth.

Knowing that the senior brother was right, with her intelligence and spirituality, she figured it out at once when she was raised, but she never thought about it, a small battle has so many sequelae and disadvantages.

"The third is for the teacher!" Chen Qiansuan suddenly got up, walked over to Li Dai, looked at her, his eyes were full of love, and sighed and said:

"Xiao Qi, do you know what is the biggest problem with yourself?"

Li Dai shook her head blankly.

Chen Qiansuan looked at her with a gaze that Li Dai couldn't understand, and said:

"Although you haven't been with your teacher and all your brothers and sisters for a long time, judging from some of your behaviors, some habits, and fighting Gu Tianyu, there is a big problem with your character, that is, you are too rigid. ”

"Rigidity is easy to break! You should understand this truth, right?"

"Usually see you are smooth and gentle, but for the things you identify, the reason you identify, if you don't experience it yourself, and wake up to the painful understanding, then it's useless for others to say more, you think it's right, with mortal words, I'm afraid ten cows can't pull it back, if there is no accident, it's easy to go all the way to the black. ”

"Don't be in a hurry to refute as a teacher!"

"Think about it yourself, after listening to the words of the senior brother, do you think that although what he said is reasonable, you feel that you have your own principles, you have your own personality, your personality is to face provocations, especially hostile provocations, retreat is not your style, even if you get hurt, you should fight, right?"

Li Dai's eyes widened, she didn't expect this master to be so clear about her thoughts.

"That's why the teacher called you over today!"

"You participated in the competition, and the sword woke up, even if there are some sequelae this time, it will not have much impact on you, but your character of being too stubborn and rigid is a huge stone for you to walk on the road of immortality in the future!"

"Maybe your ideas are correct, your theories are correct, you insist, not to be shaken, this is your advantage, but if there is one out of 10,000 insistences, only one is wrong, then you still go all the way to the black, it will be a catastrophe!"

"As a teacher, I hope you will remember today's words, remember to be flexible, when you choose a way to persist for ten years, a hundred years, a thousand years or even ten thousand years, and there is still no way out, then you might as well try to start from other angles and try to change!"

"I don't want you to fall in front of me!"

Li Dai was suddenly shocked when Chen Qianshu said it, and only then did she feel that she really had a problem in this regard.

Just like in the face of Xiaorui's attitude, she always has her own set of ideas, she let her have an independent mind, she educated her by herself, and she didn't educate her too well, and then in her heart, she is always entangled in contradictions, and she will subconsciously bear a responsibility for Xiaorui, as if she is her responsibility.

If it weren't for the fact that Xiaorui had moved in vain and Jiuyin, she might have tolerated her until one day she was irreparably wrong and made a bigger mistake.

Xiaorui's stubble is because she moved her own bottom line, and she woke up by mistake, and ruthlessly let her experience growth by herself, so what about facing other people or things in the future?

Is she still so stubborn?

If it is recognized, it will be recognized.

Wrong is wrong, right is right.

Is there necessarily no problem with her identification?

Li Dai was confused.

But if she doesn't insist on anything, and doesn't have a firm set of principles for doing things, where should she go?

"It's a good thing to stick to the goal and be stubborn, but don't go too far, where there are two sides and multiple sides, you can consider the problem from more angles, there will be more roads, and it is not easy to go to a dead end. ”

"Yes, Master!" Li Dai nodded respectfully, "Thank you Master for your teachings!"

Chen Qiansuan nodded with satisfaction, "You guys retreat!" Xiao Qi stayed, and asked her alone for the teacher. ”

Seeing this, the senior brother did not hesitate, and took the second senior brother, the third senior sister, the fourth senior sister, the sixth senior brother, and the eighth senior brother all retreated, leaving Li Dai alone.

It's just that Chen Qiansuan opened his mouth again, but Li Dai was taken aback.

"You just moved my memory?"

Li Dai pursed her lips, subconsciously wanting to deny it, but seeing Chen Qian's look of knowing everything, she couldn't say anything about denial.