257 Broken
The two of them were best friends a long time ago, and it can be seen from the content of this person's conversation that this woman is actually a very soft-hearted person.
Although the two of them are now separated from each other, whenever this boss is mentioned, the tone of the girlfriend opposite is full of tenderness, so it can be judged from now that one thing is not giving up this marriage at all.
"You say that you always pretend to be like this in front of me, is this interesting? I think you still haven't come out of that relationship, I think the two of you are the best time to remarry now."
And you also know that this person has never forgotten you, in the process of small talk between the two of us, he always says that what your wife does is very good, but if it weren't for his lack of success, the marriage would not have gone down such a path.
"At first, I thought that this person must be to show a man's responsibility in front of me, so he said this, but then I found out that he didn't give up on you from the bottom of his heart, so let me see, you better take your son and live well with him. ”
A person's life is actually a very long process, but no one can guarantee it, what kind of things will be encountered in this life, and besides, your most difficult moments have come over, and now life is getting better and better, you can't give up at this time.
"I wanted to tell you about this for a long time, but I never had this opportunity, you see that you always say that you want to find a rich person in the future, but you can really get into your eyes, I think there is only such a husband, I have said almost everything I should say, and then I will see what kind of performance you have"
You don't have to worry about that matter with your brother-in-law anymore, although the two of us are still friends, but maybe one day if I'm in a bad mood, I won't let him see me in this life.
"When the two of us are together, I really don't know why we always can't think of going together, and this person never beats around the bush when he speaks, you say that as a man, how can such a person marry a daughter-in-law?"
I sometimes think about a question, in a marriage like that, I guess he must be a particularly failed husband, otherwise, how could that sister of yours just abandon him and choose to divorce him without even looking back.
"When I first met this person, I also thought that we were two people with the same fate, but after a long time, I found out that those shortcomings in him were not looked down upon by everyone, I said this, maybe you will be unhappy in your heart, but you also know that I don't like to hide this relationship between us."
Do you think it's so easy to find another person to marry and have children? I also want to live a life of two, but now that I think about it, I feel like my head is getting bigger.
"Anyway, don't persuade me like this in the face of this kind of thing, I always feel that my true destiny has never appeared, so I am not in a hurry to find it, and now that I have found my own child, as long as I can bring him up safely, this is my life's goal, you know?"
This kind of explanation really makes people have a state of speechlessness, what kind of thoughts are these, this kind of society still wants to pull a child to grow up, which simply makes people feel that it must be blocked, otherwise it is impossible to have this kind of thought.
At the beginning, I felt that the two of them were very perfect together, so I moved such a thought, but I didn't expect to say so much, people just didn't take it to heart, and after looking back at the child, he turned his head and continued to his girlfriend.
"I said that you are really strong enough, if this matter were changed to my head, I would never have made this choice of yours, what age are you now, and it is not normal to go out of a family and enter a family?
If you don't lose your child, maybe the two of you won't be able to go the road of divorce, but from another point of view, if you say that if there is really no one outside, can the relationship between you break down?
"As for what kind of state I am in now, I know best in my heart, I just didn't react for a while, so I opened my mouth to care about that person, and called my husband, if I am like you and can't get out of this marriage, then I will remarry him today, I heard it"
Everything you see is superficial, you say that people get along with each other without intrigue? If it weren't for my children's face, I wouldn't bother to deal with such a person, after all, when I got divorced, I didn't take into account my children's feelings.
"After half a year, I found out that this kind of fatherly love is indispensable, although the two of us are not living together now, but we should also get along like friends, at least in the minds of the children, I think that our relationship has not broken to a certain extent."
"As for what kind of husband I want to find in the future, then I've thought about it, anyway, this society is so realistic, everyone should look forward, although I'm not like those young girls, but I still have a little talent."
If there is such a man in the future, then I will marry without hesitation, I have never doubted this, after you are my best friend, don't persuade me to take the road of remarriage.
"Oh, by the way, after all that, I actually forgot the most important thing, you said that you are like this now, so in the future, if your husband knows that the child has come back early, how should you deal with all this?
"Now that I think about it, I may not really do it one day, you said that this is the child's biological father after all, if you don't know where the child is at this time, then as a father, I will definitely feel a little ashamed of this child."
Although the two of you haven't been together for several years, a truth can also be reflected from such a thing, after all, two people are related by blood, and they were cut off by a woman like you at this time, so sooner or later one day will be the same thing.
"I know that every time you mention this kind of person, you must have some sadness in your heart, but now you really can't think about these useless things anymore, you still listen to me, and it's better for you to tell him this in person after seeing him one day."
I feel that although I can't give the child a complete home at this time, at least I should let him feel this kind of fatherly love.
I thought that such a dissuasion could make this woman calm down a little and accept this kind of fact, but what I didn't expect was that she suddenly became very serious, and then said to her best friend.
"Don't mention this person's name to me in the future, when my child was lost, what kind of approach did he do, didn't you see that from now on, this child of mine has no father, and a mother is enough to raise him"
I also know that what you just said is from my heart, but as a friend, I advise you, although we are both college classmates, this is true, but you have to make a difficult choice in this relationship between me and him, if one day I want to know that you are talking nonsense, then in an instant we will have more of this connection.
"Since I have chosen this path in this life, then I will bear this loneliness and difficulties alone, if I can't even do this, I will not leave such a person without hesitation"
Besides, the two of us haven't had any contact for so many years, so for that reason, this affection between us has slowly degraded over time, so you don't have to worry about it here.
"All the things about my son have nothing to do with him, and I have to remind you of this, if he is really going to be a responsible father for so many years, then why don't you come with me to find the child?"
So from this point of view, I think what can he do even if he sees my son, but it just means that the two of them are biological fathers and sons, and nothing else can be counted on him.
"It's good that I'm living alone now, I can't have anything to do with him because of this matter, when I think back to his face now, I really can't bear it, if it weren't for our divorce, I guess I would have been tortured by him by now."
I admit that if I hadn't been impulsive, he would never have broken up with me to the point of breaking up, but did he put himself in my shoes?
"This child was born to me, just like a piece of meat that fell from my body, at the moment of loss, I felt more guilty than anyone else, but he didn't have any good words to persuade him, but instead put all the blame on me"
Such a result is always unacceptable to this person, others say that husband and wife should understand and tolerate each other, but this husband really did not do this.