Li Xue ran in front of the child, and then slowly squatted in front of the child.

Because only by talking in this way can you communicate better with your child.

Li Xue looked at the moon and said to the child very carefully, "Why did you suddenly think of coming here to see the moon? If you want to see the moon, in fact, you can say to the aunt next to you, and she can find a better position for you, and it can be a little warmer.

Besides, you are the only one here, don't you feel very scared? If it were other children, I guess they would not have the courage to come here to see the moon, but your courage is really very big, and you dare to come here alone, do you think of something?

Or if there is something sad in your heart, if you really think of something sad, you can talk to me, if you say it, you won't feel so uncomfortable in your heart, at least no matter what happens, you should learn to share, don't think that the aunt next to you is just a nanny I came over, and in fact, I can see her care for you, so if you really have something sad in your heart, in fact, you can tell him.

Don't come here again, because you come here alone for an interview, I don't know that everyone is very anxious about you, especially the aunt next to you, she is really going to be anxious, he is already at a loss, so next time don't make such a mistake again, can you? ”

When the child heard Li Xue say this, his mother went down to look at Li Xue, but this time the child's subconscious actually regarded Li Xue as his mother, because before, Lixue and the child's mother were very good friends, so there will definitely be some more imaginary characteristics and some habits.

When the child saw Li Xue, tears suddenly swirled in his eyes and he was very aggrieved. I was already very scared, and I was so scared, but I thought that if I kept looking at the moon, you should be able to find me, but I didn't expect that it would take so long for you to find me, I was really scared, next time I would definitely not run around again, I will be waiting for you at home.

And I haven't seen you in a long time, and I really miss you, so next time, no matter how busy you are, be sure to come back and see me, okay?"

When Li Xue heard this, he knew that the child at this time would definitely not be as clear as before, because he had now mistaken himself for his own current income effect, and when he said this kind of thing, sometimes when the child was more emotional, he would mistake himself for his own mother and say some true thoughts in his heart.

But at this time, you really should want to argue, after all, you are not the mother of the child, if you always let the child mistake himself for his own mother, I always feel that this is a little impolite, after all, he is just a child.

"Are you misremembered? I'm not your mother, I'm your aunt, don't you remember me?" but I'm your dearest and most beloved master, I came to see you again today, but I didn't expect you to come here, I really feel very worried. ”

No matter how Rigaku explains his identity as her aunt, the child will still regard himself as his own mother, probably because he has not heard his mother's voice for too long, and sometimes the child will inexplicably think of his parents, no matter what others say, he will not pay attention.

Li Xue looked at the child in front of him quietly, and suddenly felt that he was really pitiful, and he had no parents since he was very young, and other children were in the arms of his parents, which meant that when he was coquettish, he could only stay with the aunt around him.

So sometimes, it's not that the child becomes very withdrawn, it's because no one can talk to him about what is in his heart, so he will close himself as a whole person, and even close his heart completely, because he is in a state of self-preservation.

No matter how good he is with him, no matter how happy the communication between the two people is, but in the end, he will still close himself, because he also knows that even if everyone is good to him, they can't replace their father, and of course, his mother is an exception, because he only thinks of himself as her mother when he is not clear, even if he is conscious, he will know how important he is to him.

When I saw the child like this, I was really pitiful.

Li Xue couldn't bear to continue to prove his identity, even if he regarded himself as her own mother, he could only let it go wrong, because when he saw that this was still the same in front of him, he really couldn't bear it in his heart.

And after giving himself so much time, even if he calls himself alone, it shouldn't be an exaggeration, after all, his mother and father are no longer here, and he has been taking care of him for so long, no matter how much he pays for his daily life, so even if he calls himself a mother, it shouldn't be too much.

At this time, Li Xue would not continue to quibble about anything, this was holding the child in his arms, and said very warmly.

"Yes, it's all my fault, I found you so late, it's really all my fault, I was too negligent, so now let's hurry home, okay? It's too cold here, but don't come here next time, if you want to come out to see the moon, or miss it, you can call me, don't come here alone, do you know that you come alone, everyone will feel very worried about you, especially I am really worried about you, if you are alone in this and get hurt in here, do you know how sad I am in my heart?

So don't do this again, you know? I know that you will definitely miss me very much, and this time I can also really assure you that when I have time or opportunity in the future, I will definitely rush back as soon as possible, and see that you will definitely not let you down, but because my work has been busy recently, so I ignored you, but I have never forgotten your existence, which you can rest assured, and during this period, I actually called my aunt a lot, asking about your situation. ”

When the child heard these words, he did not say anything more, but laughed happily, because the child's mind is very simple, and his mind is very simple.

In the child's brain, as long as he can get what he likes or cares about, he will not think about other problems, and there will be no more troubles, so the child's mind is a very simple thing.

When I heard Li Xue say such things in front of me and made such a guarantee, I still felt how happy I was at this time, and I felt that I was simply the happiest person, although the state of the child was not particularly clear at this time, but when I saw Li Xue treating herself like this, it was like seeing my mother treat her.

Obviously he has made a very serious mistake, but he didn't blame himself, but he is still comforting himself, the child's heart is like a happy flower, and he always feels that he is still the very happy child, although he is not particularly good at communicating with others, but he feels that he can still rely on some situations.

Li Xue was still comforting the child at this time, and with some warm words, she always felt that the occurrence of this incident was inseparable from herself, because she had not come back for a long time, and she had not accompanied the child and had not communicated with him well, so she would let him do such an extreme thing.

I will never do this next time, no matter how important work is to me, I must make some time to spend with my children. Because the child's growth is only so slight, because he no longer has the company of his parents, so he must rush well, the role of mother, even if she is not her real mother, also let herself realize in advance how difficult it is to be a mother.

And this child can be regarded as a kind of dependence for himself, if there is no existence of this child, it is estimated that he will not work so hard, and he will not be so motivated.

Therefore, it can be regarded as a kind of fate between two people, sometimes it is not that the child needs him much, but that he has some dependence on the child, and the child has become an indispensable part of his life.