At this time, the sedan chair slowly moved forward in a quiet place, but Ye Ruyan's heart in the sedan chair was not very calm. The center of her brain was full of Shen Qianxing's figure, lingering. That's right, it's her second senior brother, Shen Qianxing, one of the [Four Masters of Qiushui].

In fact, how much she hopes in her heart that this time she is really married. It's just a pity that this is fake, it is a plan formulated by Yun Fan to lure the snake out of the hole, and it is a big net they cast in order to lure the mountain demon to appear, and a big situation is laid out.

Throughout the ages, it is believed that every woman has a dream of being a bride. They all fantasized that one day in their lives, the prince charming who belonged to them would come to her from the sky wearing golden armor and stepping on colorful auspicious clouds, and tell her in person that they wanted to marry her and hoped that she would marry him. Then three books and six ceremonies, three media and six appointments, eight sedan chairs, ten miles of red makeup, and the scenery married her through the door.

Of course, as a woman, Ye Ruyan is no exception!

Just now, when Qin Mengyao asked her if she had a crush, Ye Ruyan's answer was "yes".

However, she didn't tell Qin Mengyao who that person was, probably because the two of them hadn't known each other for a long time. Out of prudence, Ye Ruyan still has reservations about her. Besides, this also belongs to Ye Ruyan's own privacy, and it is inconvenient for her to say more.

She had a bad fate, she lost her mother since she was a child, and her father left her forever in the rebellion that year. Fortunately, she later met Lin Haoran and his wife, and brought her to Qiushui Villa, and later, she naturally worshiped her master Lin Haoran in Qiushui Villa.

She and Shen Qianxing entered almost at the same time, and they worshiped Lin Haoran at the same time. She is a few years younger than Shen Qianxing, and Shen Qianxing is a few years older than her, so whether it is in her daily life or cultivation, Shen Qianxing does her best to care for her, care for her, and help her.

When Shen Qianxing became one of the four heroes of Qiushui, Ye Ruyan also secretly vowed in her heart to try to catch up with him. Finally, the hard work paid off, and she finally got her wish and caught up with Shen Qianxing, one of the "Four Masters of Qiushui" with him.

The two are both four heroes of Qiushui, Ye Ruyan has admired Shen Qianxing since she was a child, but her relationship has been based on a very unequal foundation from the beginning.

As the saying goes, the body of the five grains can be immortal, and the pain of lovesickness is the most erosive. What's more, there may be Ye Ruyan's unrequited love. Therefore, the results of the two of them are predictable.

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Speaking of which, I will say some digressions about the relationship between men and women.

The so-called, lick the dog lick the dog, lick until the last is left.

Men chase women, separated by heavy mountains, women chase men, interlayer yarn.

It is instinctive for men to become interested in women. When a woman becomes interested in a man, that is success. Those who lick the dog, who circle around the woman's ass all day long, will only end up being beaten with chickens and eggs, and they will be ruined and have nothing. lost his wife and soldiers, lost money and was angry, and he didn't fall well.

There are several factors that make a man and a woman want to live a long and happy life.

First of all, the three views should be compatible, which is the first place. If two people have completely different views, one is in the south, one is in the north, one is in the east, and the other is in the west, and they are forced to get together, then they are chickens and eggs, don't think about having a peaceful birthday.

Secondly, the position relationship between the first and foremost must be equal, at least at the same level. The relationship here does not refer to the equality of social status, background and wealth between men and women, but to an equality in the soul and subconscious.

If those who pursue success through stalking are now commonly known as "licking dogs", or the spare tire has been turned positive for many years, this relationship between one side of the high and one side of the low has been in a very unequal position from the beginning.

In a short period of time, the side that may be in a low and weak position will compromise and be weak. But over time, the sense of grievance caused by this imbalance will gradually accumulate over time, and there will always be a day when it is unbearable and completely explodes. At that time, the man and woman will either have a crack in their marriage and live a life in anger. Either one party can't stand the other, and in the end, they just break up and go their separate ways.

In real life, there are countless examples of this. I won't list them all.

Last, and most importantly.

Marriage is a scale. A man's status, wealth, fame, knowledge, and a series of advantages are all chips, placed on this side of the scale. And the advantages of women's beauty, intimacy, family care, filial piety and other advantages are also bargaining chips, placed on the other side of the scale.

When the weight of one party's chips increases, so does the weight of the other's chips, and the man and woman must always maintain a general balance, so that the marriage can last.

Let's use an analogy, over time, the weight of knowledge, wealth, status, and so on on the man's side slowly accumulates. A woman's beauty, on the other hand, slowly degrades over time and becomes lighter.

At this time, women need to be more family-oriented, more intimate, and more filial to maintain the balance of this scale. If a woman's appearance or filial piety to her elders is getting worse and worse, and other aspects are not good enough, then what awaits a woman may be a nightmare. And vice versa, so do men.

In Jin Yong's novel, there is a love story between a man and a woman, which once puzzled me.

That is the protagonist Ling Hu Chong and his little sister Yue Lingshan in "Smiling Proud Jianghu".

Linghu Chong was an orphan since he was a child, and later had the honor to worship under the Huashan faction, and since then, he has formed an indissoluble bond with the Huashan faction. He has an excellent relationship with his little sister Yue Lingshan, who has played since he was a child, and he is a childhood sweetheart with no guesses, and his feelings are very good.

I once thought that they would be a pair made in heaven, but I am afraid that they must have thought so in their hearts at that time.

But unexpectedly, things took a turn for the worse later, and with the halfway of Lin Pingzhi, who was due to family changes, the relationship between the two began to crack.

In the end, Lin Pingzhi, driven by hatred, tried his best to get close to Yue Lingshan, launched a crazy pursuit of him, and finally snatched love with a knife, successfully captured Yue Lingshan's heart, and made her empathize with her from then on.

The little junior sister Yue Lingshan's empathy and farewell love so quickly is something I haven't figured out for a long time. But it wasn't until later that I began to understand why.

After all, the deep relationship between her and Ling Hu Chong for more than ten years could not withstand Lin Pingzhi's crazy pursuit in just a few months. This makes me wonder.

It stands to reason that if Yue Lingshan really only has Ling Hu Chong in her heart, if she really likes Ling Hu Chong and loves him, then no matter what means Lin Pingzhi uses, her heart for Ling Hu Chong will be unswerving, consistent, and unswerving.

But things are just the opposite, there is only one explanation that can lead to such a result, that is, in the past ten years, the deep affection of the little junior sister Yue Lingshan for Ling Hu Chong is actually not the real love between men and women, but more similar to the love between brother and sister. In Yue Lingshan's heart, when she didn't meet Lin Pingzhi, maybe she didn't really see what kind of feelings she had for Ling Hu Chong. In the end, there is more love between brothers and sisters, or more love between men and women.

It wasn't until she met Lin Ping that she really figured out her relationship with Ling Huchong, which was a brother and sister relationship. Therefore, in the face of Lin Pingzhi's fierce offensive, she finally fell.

But their final outcome is destined to be a tragedy. As mentioned above, first of all, neither of them meets the first condition, first of all, the three views do not match, Lin Pingzhi's existence is to avenge his parents, which is the meaning of his existence. And Yue Lingshan is different, she has been the pearl of the head of Huashan since she was a child, Miss Qianjin, brocade clothes and jade food, how can the three views of such two people fit.

Secondly, the relationship between the positions of the characters is not equal, one is the eldest lady with fine clothes and food, and the other is the queen of the official eunuch who has nothing and is in distress. One in the sky and one underground, even if such two people are temporarily dragged together and barely together, there will be no good results in the end, not to mention, Lin Pingzhi himself is still shouldering the family's blood and revenge.

And people like Lin Pingzhi, in terms of now, are like licking dog men. Lick the dog lick the dog and lick it until there is nothing left!

Therefore, the final ending of Lin Pingzhi and Yue Lingshan must end in tragedy. Perhaps from the moment they met, it was doomed to a tragic end.

Only a person with extremely rich emotional experience like Jin Yong can write such a thing!

All in all, marriage requires the joint efforts of both men and women to maintain and operate, and neither party can do without it.

It's no wonder that some people say that marriage is the grave of love!

The above are purely some personal opinions on the relationship between men and women, and it is not surprising.

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Less gossip, back to business.

Escorted by Yun Fan and the others, Ye Ruyan came to the Red River Valley smoothly.

This Red River Valley is where Yun Fan guessed before that the mountain demon lives. Moreover, the mountain demons have always attacked here without exception, and all the brides before have disappeared here. Therefore, Yun Fan asked the wedding team to go straight to the Red River Valley.

Everyone in the team was apprehensive, solemn, and walked forward with heavy steps.

Before you know it, the sedan chair has come to the boundary of the Red River Valley.

Yun Fan, Sikong Jiu and the three of them tightly surrounded the sedan chair, their eyes were also wandering around, their eyes were condensed, they were on alert, and they were waiting to move forward slowly, not daring to relax in the slightest.

At this moment, at the front of the line, as before, a gust of wind suddenly howled. The wind was blowing on their bodies and faces, so that each of them had a misty eye and could not open it.

The corners of Yun Fan's mouth grinned slightly, and he squinted: You are finally here. I want to see, what kind of sacredness is you, the so-called "mountain demon" who has been rumored to be divine and mysterious by everyone!?

He stood in place, his black eyes were as dark as a deep pool of ten thousand years, shining with light, his eyes were like electricity, and his momentum was overwhelming, always watching the movements around him.

The vision protruded, and everyone's footsteps suddenly stopped. They all knew that this was the sign before the arrival of the mountain demon.

As this gale hit without warning, an unusually thick white smoke swept and raged, like a flood beast bursting the embankment, and in a few breaths, it drowned and swallowed them all!