misery

"Although the world is full of suffering, there are also cases of overcoming suffering. This was said by the famous orator Helen Keller. When I first read this sentence, the first thing that made me feel was that the world is indeed full of possibilities, but not everyone can create miracles.

We will always encounter some troubles and difficulties, maybe like Helen, it may be a physical disability, maybe it is from the misfortune of the family itself, or it may be from the outside world. We always encounter things that we don't know what to do for a while, but how many people are confident enough to change the situation?

Maybe in the past, we also had times when we wanted to struggle, we told ourselves that there are difficulties to overcome, so I tried to move forward, constantly trying to defeat the weight on our heads, to be a winner. However, things are often not as simple as we think, and even if we really try, whether we can overcome it is another answer. We succeeded, and we may have gotten better for a while, but our failure brought more uncertainty.

But, no matter what, we always have to live to go on. Whether it is success or failure, it is necessary to move forward. In the anime movie "Spirited Away", there is such a sentence - "No matter how bumpy the road ahead is, as long as the direction is right, it is closer to happiness than standing still." Therefore, when we encounter difficulties and feel at a loss, we should strengthen our beliefs, regardless of whether we can succeed or not, we must work hard to see if we can grow, know our own shortcomings, and be able to take a good road in the future.

It's like you've been preparing for a test for a long time, and you've spent a lot of energy and time on it, but you haven't had a satisfactory result. Maybe it seems that the effort is useless, which is a more sad thing. But in fact, the unsatisfactory result does not mean that your efforts are useless, which can even reflect more problems, such as what you are lacking, whether you are not working hard enough, or whether your mentality is not adjusted well, this is what we should think about, rather than blindly thinking about how humiliating it is to fail. There is no shame in failure, there will always be people who will fail, and life without failure is not necessarily perfect. And hard work can always make people gain.

We work hard, not because we will be able to succeed, but because if we don't work hard, we are not qualified to succeed. We can't guarantee that we can do a good job 100%, but we can make ourselves better, starting by believing in ourselves.

We all have our own sufferings in our lives. You don't have to be happy because your suffering is not as bad as others, but because you can face life well, and be happy. Because life is your own, you don't need to live for others to see, and you don't have to care about others, rude harm to your life. By facing life well and facing the hardships of life, we can be happier.

Tempering can make people mature; Tempering can make people calm; Tempering can make people grow even more! Tempering, it feels so good!

I remember that the essay contest was held when I was in the sixth grade. In order to make the middle school better, I took a chance and paid 30 yuan for the preliminary round and resolutely participated in the competition.

"Fantasy Rising Clouds"

On the day of the competition, I came to the class happily and participated in the competition. Due to the relatively thorough preparation a few days ago, I did not feel the slightest nervousness before getting the test paper, and even had a hint of pride. However, when the test paper came down, the originally sweet smile froze, and was replaced by a solemn expression. After I skimmed through it, I found that some of the questions were more difficult than I had imagined! So, I changed my previous style and began to examine the questions carefully, and started to do the questions seriously.

When I racked my brains to complete all the questions, checked the test papers, and corrected typos, I began to "think about what is wrong". I fantasized about "what a pride it must be when I finish the test paper, after the test paper is corrected, the results come out, the teacher announces that I can participate in the finals, I stand up with honor, the applause of my classmates surrounds me, and the eyes of my classmates show admiration······ At this time, it was time to hand in the test papers, and the noise pulled me out of my fantasies, and I handed in the test papers, and at the same time handed in my own hopes.

"Tempest"

After a few weeks, the results finally came out, and I was very excited and wanted my name to be there, but when the teacher reported that my name was not among all the award-winning students, I suddenly felt that the world was spinning and my head was slapped. I had mixed feelings, including disappointment, gloom, and endless grief.

"Clear after the rain"

The teacher may have seen my loss, and after class, he came to comfort me: "Wang Rui, why are you sad? Although you failed this exam, you have gained something more valuable. I looked at her blankly and asked her, "What? Why don't I know?" and the teacher said calmly, "That's the trial." When you are frustrated, you will grow and you will hone a strong heart. "The teacher's words have served me for the rest of my life.

As long as there is success, there is bound to failure, and the lesson behind failure is also a valuable gain. So, let's be thankful for the tempering and be glad that there is an opportunity to temper. It feels so good to be tempered!

I don't remember that it was the first rain of spring, but it was raining so hard that God seemed to be angered by someone and wanted to punish people, and the rain kept falling so that my heart was moldy, and I felt a little unhappy. I'm faced with a cup of tea and don't know how to express how I'm feeling right now, maybe it has something to do with something that happened not so long ago. Although I know that some time has passed, as soon as I walk and see the hidden door, my heart cannot be calmed, just like this endless spring rain, stirring people's long and sad thoughts.

One day at work, a colleague talked about something, and everyone talked about it. But it seems to me that there is no value worth talking about, because another life has passed away in a hurry. He seems to be very young, in his forties, with the impression of wearing a pair of glasses, a medium body, and often helping his wife sell noodles. His family has a noodle shop, and in addition to selling some daily necessities, it sells noodles — noodles of various widths and narrows that his wife presses with a dough sheeter. I've been there a few times and I've been in the mood for him. People seem to be very polite, every time he buys something, he will greet him with a smile, giving people a very cordial feeling, unlike a photographer, as if he has hatred with everyone, he speaks loudly as soon as he goes, his attitude is blunt, and he is not polite, which makes people very annoying. He's very gentle, and it reminds me maybe of his family, and how well educated he was, at least that's how it should be, I think. It's just that this feeling passed away one morning, along with his life. It seems that I should express my sadness as well, because after all, we have had a few times of eye contact, including eye contact. Now that there is nothing left, I should express my sorrow for his departure, for I have heard that he left at work, and quietly. He had no relatives around him, not even a word left, his parents, his wife and his son, who was still in school. I also heard that his death was related to a heart attack, and he never woke up after falling asleep peacefully. It wasn't until a colleague went to call him the next morning that he found that he had quietly left. I wondered what the expression was on his face, whether he looked very painful and sad, whether he had a smile and a sense of tranquility. It's just that nothing exists, and even his appearance will slowly fade under the polish of time, and eventually there will be nothing.

When he went, he heard that his wife had dealt with his funeral, including talking to the insurance company about compensation and the factory about his mother's and son's pensions. It's just one thing, I didn't think of it, I heard that his wife didn't have a very sad expression after seeing him leave, everything seemed very natural, just like every day the sun rose and set as usual, it felt like nothing happened, it seemed that he went on a business trip or travel, and he would come back after a while, and he still went to work and got off work every day. I can't guess what his wife really thinks in her heart, but I think she should show sadness, even if it's not very real, just like many officials who obviously have a grudge against their superiors, but their faces are as sweet as honey. It's just that his wife didn't cry and grieve, which may be one of the reasons why people talk about it. If there is a reason to find out, I think it should be like this: if he had a heart attack at home and left, he could only win the sympathy of some people, but he had a heart attack at work and died, his wife and son would receive a very generous compensation because he was injured at work. I heard that the factory bought such personal accident insurance for many people, but it did not name anyone, and whoever left suddenly, even if it was on whose head, then wrote the name of the deceased and submitted it to the insurance company for compensation. His family got more than 500,000 yuan because of this, and many people began to talk about it, this money can support his family, and how "level" he goes, I clearly heard someone say this.

In the first few days of his departure, the door of his house was closed, and I looked closely, but it was not opened for several days. I think his wife is mourning him, very sad and in no mood to do business. These are all human nature, but after about four or five days, the door of the shop opened, and I clearly saw the figure of his wife coming in and out, but I no longer had the courage to go into his shop to buy noodles, my heart was timid, I was afraid to see him. Later, I saw his wife coming and going in and out of different colored clothes, and it was evident that there was no mortal sadness on her face that had lost his. I think she may have only planted him in her heart, maybe she has forgotten it a little, maybe he has become more than 500,000 yuan in her heart, maybe she must also forget, because the door of life cannot be closed, and the door of life cannot be closed.

There are thousands of life encounters, and there must be hope for life. Life has to go on when people are gone, and when a loved one has passed away, we can't lose the thought of life because of it. After all, her son is still there, and she wants to live seriously for her son, for her mother-in-law, and for a better tomorrow. Thinking about it this way, it is completely understandable that she has no sad expression, after all, everything still depends on her thin body. Later, when I read Zhuangzi's drum and song, I seemed to understand her heart better. Maybe she can't reach the level of Zhuangzi, but the optimism she shows about life and death still impresses me. After all, they are relatives who have lived together for many years, after all, there has been happiness and warmth, after all, they are in the same boat through thick and thin, share weal and woe, and do not show sadness, they are to be poked and scolded by some people. But I can understand her heart, she wants to carry the hope of life on her thin shoulders, and give herself and her family new hope. In this regard, I should express my admiration for her.

Flowers bloom and fall, spring goes to autumn. Slowly the road of life, wind and rain. I vaguely saw the open door of her house in the continuous spring rain tonight, the door of hope, I want to truly express my blessings, for him, but also for her, they all make me sympathize and moved, but also let me understand that sadness is temporary, happiness will come forever, just like the warm sun will bloom a brilliant spring.

The door of life is always open, and we will all have a happy life!

Youth, we dream, youth, we are chic, youth, we are sentimental. We know how to be strong in our youth, and our dreamy youth is more exciting; in our chic youth, we are unrestrained and emotionally flying. The laughter left in the wind is the imagination of our youth. A dreamy youth, obsessed with Hans Christian Andersen's fairy tales. The self in the dream is the beautiful and moving princess who has gone through hardships, the self in the dream is the pure and kind angel who gives happiness and warmth to the world, and everything in the dream is perfect.

A gust of wind can wake up a season, a young bud can invigorate a wasteland, a trickle is enough to moisten a mountain, a bitter taste can activate a hundred flavors of life, a bitter taste can arouse a sleeping heart, a bitter taste is enough to create a miracle of life, bitterness, is the sweetest taste in life.

Find the sweetness in the bitter and create miracles

The world-famous inspirational master John. When Kutis was born, he was asserted by doctors that he would not survive the day, underwent amputation at the age of 20, and suffered from cancer at the age of 30.

Embrace the unfortunate fate with firm faith, create the miracle of life with pain, when the wings of the years draw the painful scars in the palm of your hand, please cherish this bitterness, then when you look back, you will see that at the intersection of life pain, there is your confident smile and tenacious figure.

Turning bitterness into sweetness is man-made

Lincoln, who was born poor, faced setbacks and bitterness all his life, and lost eight times in eight elections, but he did not become depressed, but became more and more courageous, and finally turned bitterness into sweetness and became one of the greatest presidents in American history.

He not only turned bitterness into sweetness that he tasted himself, but also into sweetness that could be tasted by tens of millions of people; black slaves were freed, the Civil War ended, and the American economy took off! This shocked the people of the world: The "bitterness" that he had tasted countless times was actually to accumulate strength for the "sweetness," and finally won the applause of the house and was remembered through the ages.

Bitter, sweet, all for people.

Awaken in bitterness, and sweetness after dawn

The clouds are long. Cuihua shook and opened the curtain of history, and I saw that he was in a hurry to write a book, and his mouth was reading, "I also want to study the changes of heaven and man, through the changes of the past and the present, and become a family!" What a Sima Qian! The pain of humiliation awakened him, and he wrote an inspirational book, who said that I was a bad seed? Lifting the heavy pen, casting a swan song for the ages! Heaven and earth are vast, and a bone is brilliant Sima Qian! Who said that he could not get up after suffering, who said that he was destined to be ashamed for a lifetime, and he was willing to enjoy the grand occasion of the literary world!

Not for fame, writing books to inspire future generations.

Humiliated and unyielding, ambition writes thousands of miles of rivers and mountains.

Taste the bitterness and bitterness, go through the cold and summer, get used to watching the sunrise and sunset, and observe the hundred flavors of life, only then do you understand that turning bitterness into sweetness, life is brilliant, bitterness can create miracles in bitterness, bittersweet and sweet, I am also happy, bitter in sweetness, "taste" in artificial, you might as well try, turn the bitter sea into honey, support the boat of bitterness, and sail to the shore of sweetness!

Life is a gorgeous sunset, grand but sad, ordinary and shocking. Some people think it's vigorous because it's God's meticulous masterpiece, while others think it's prosaic because it's a cycle of unexplained reincarnation.

Sometimes, we feel that life is a small existence, when materialism and greed are rampant among the ant-like crowd, and sometimes we feel that life is a great crystallization, when it shows the tragedy of sacrifice in the midst of suffering and disaster. Most of the time, we have an instinct to cherish life, after all, life belongs to this one person and only once. Just because each flower can only bloom once, it is extremely careful to take a good step, and none of the flowers in the tree bloom wrong, they are so careful and serious to welcome the only spring. There are very few times when we also long for tragic sacrifices, because stealing life has seriously desecrated the divine life, when death becomes admirable, and life is perpetuated by death, and eternal life is born by destruction.

Life belongs to us only once, don't be ashamed of doing nothing, don't regret wasting your time.

Anything that goes beyond substance is a confrontation.

Confirm that the essence of life is the confrontation between life and self.

Romain Rolland said: "There is only one true heroism in the world, and that is to know the truth of life and still love life." “

To live, we must endure suffering, only to be born again at the moment of relief from suffering. For this moment, we began to wander the world in misery.

Job's faith was shaken by constant suffering, and he questioned God: As a devout believer, why did he suffer so much, but God still did not give him the promise of the gospel. God showed Job his great creation, saying, "This is the all-you-accepting, powerful reality, this is the whole world from which you can't take the suffering alone!" Job woke up.

For the chic of wandering, we can only carry the ups and downs along the way and move forward;

For the morning light of winter, we can only endure the cold of the night and be strong;

For the beauty of breaking out of the cocoon, we can only endure the struggle of breaking the cocoon without regrets.

The child asks the billionaire, "How did you become a billionaire?"

"Earn a dollar for a dollar, and when you repeat it 100 million times, you automatically become a billionaire. ”

"It's not difficult to earn a dollar, but how do you stick to it 100 million times?"

"You don't have to think about it 100 million times, thinking too much will put psychological baggage on your back, making you feel that earning a dollar is so unattainable. When you make money, you only think that this is the only time, and since it is the only time, you must earn it. After earning this dollar, go and earn another dollar. After a long time, you will find that the wealth you have is many 'one yuan', and you will get confidence from your past achievements, and then your wealth will not increase by one dollar, but by ten thousand, or even by millions. ”

What the rich man said is indeed the true meaning of making money, but also the true meaning of doing things, all the great undertakings in the world are not accumulated by a series of inconspicuous little things?

It is not difficult to do things, but it is difficult to persevere, and it is not difficult to persevere, but it is difficult to break the whole into parts.

Success inspirational: Success depends on small details

When Lin Ying came to the company for an interview, I was also with my colleagues from the human resources department, and we were looking for a product manager, mainly responsible for the overall sales planning of a product line and the management of retailers. Lin Ying answered the questions very clearly during the interview, and she also had some sales experience before, so she passed the interview quickly.

Our department has the habit of holding weekly meetings, Lin Ying participated in our weekly meeting for the first time, and her performance was not ordinary. And Lin Ying's speech was particularly detailed, she came last week, she communicated with customers several times, what was the content, how many times she went to the store, what problems she encountered, how to solve them, what work she was going to do next week, how to do it, one by one, clearly. I saw that she was also neatly recorded in her notebook, and it made people feel very neat when they looked at it. I praised Lin Ying, who can arrange her work in such an orderly manner, and she will be very efficient in doing it herself.

Lin Ying's neatness is really attractive, and the desk is also very neatly organized every day, without a trace of clutter, which makes people comfortable when they see it. I often call a few other product managers to Lin Ying's desk for them to visit and learn, and those old product managers are a little unconvinced, they think that this is all superficial articles, no big deal.

Later, an incident happened, in which Lin Ying played a key role. When Lin Ying first arrived, she took over a product, and later I asked her to be in charge of the development of another new product with another product manager, Xiao Wang. The problem is that in this new product, one of the components in the product is provided by a manufacturer from outside. There are not many manufacturers that can produce this part, and this one is very famous, so it is also bullish in cooperation. Xiao Wang and Lin Ying went to talk a few times, and finally negotiated the general intentions, and the two sides were about to sign the final contract. Our product launch process is moving forward with this timeline.

Who would have thought that the co-manufacturer suddenly said that they could not submit that part on time. Privately, we found out that the manufacturer regretted it because our list was not big, and the order they were taking was very profitable, so they wanted to eat the big fish. We're all in tension, what are they going to do if they want to pick a son?

When I told the general manager about this, the general manager began to deny it, saying that they had never promised us to deliver at that time. Anyway, it was just a pretext, so I had no idea for a while, so I was so anxious that I reprimanded Xiao Wang and Lin Ying, saying that the two of them were not effective, and if they had signed the contract earlier, they would not have been so passive.

Lin Ying saw that I was angry, and told me very calmly that she had a meeting summary here every time they had a consultation, and both parties agreed to it, and all the details of the discussion, including the emails exchanged and exchanged, and even the time and content of each telephone communication, she has a detailed record here, and we will talk to them again with these, they can't even rely on these, right? I took the materials in Lin Ying's hand, and the records were really detailed.

I took the two of them to negotiate with this evidence, and sure enough, when it was spread out, they were very surprised to see that we had come up with such a detailed record. After all, the manufacturer is not a small workshop, and the rules in the mall are still clear, and their general manager did not say a word, but promised to sign the contract the next day.

At noon, everyone ate together, and the atmosphere was relaxed, and the general manager said to me: Gege, this time I have a long experience, has anyone in your company done any intelligence work, how can everything be recorded so clearly?

After the triumph, I made a rule in front of everyone, including me, in the future, I have to learn from Lin Ying's example, write a good work log for each job, although this is a small detail, but it is a good work habit, not too troublesome. If it weren't for Lin Ying's tireless recording this time, our new product might have been delayed.

Several product managers were convinced this time, nodded again and again, and cast approving glances at Lin Ying. A simple sentence can bring warmth and hope to people, and can make people see the light.

Encouragement is like a lighthouse, guiding the ship to move forward, encouragement is like sunshine, which can bring inexhaustible organic matter to flowers, and encouragement is like a pen, writing one warmth after another.

"Come on!" a simple sentence makes you full of strength and stubbornly rush to the finish line; "Child, the teacher said that you are doing well, you can definitely do better!" A simple sentence makes a child with learning difficulties step by step to the university hall; "Threesome must have my teacher." A simple sentence made him realize that "there are mountains outside the mountains, and there are people outside the people." Why is a simple phrase so powerful? Yes, it is the encouragement that leads with love.

"Only kung fu is deep, and the iron rod is sharpened into a needle. In modern times, there is a cleaner in a Korean company, who is looked down upon by others, but because of the encouragement of her boss, she finally achieved great success.

"I am born to be useful" Not everyone is born very smart. A simple word of encouragement can make oneself study hard, give others hope, and make others have new ideas.

You have given happiness and wealth to others. Perhaps, have you ever thought that all others want is a word of encouragement?

Usually, the loudness of applause is decorated with the words "like thunder". The applause under such embellishment came to our faces, bringing us an unstoppable momentum.

The thunder in the sky was so loud that a thunderbolt shook everyone's hearts as if the sky was bursting. However, sometimes the shock brought to us by applause is also incomparable, it is a shock of the heart, a kind of recognition of everyone.

At the award ceremony of a campus sports meeting, I will always remember that moment, when the teacher announced the championship of the campus sports long-distance running competition in front of all the teachers and students of the school, and when I walked towards the podium step by step, the applause in my ears was so loud. I stood on the podium with the medal in one hand, and at that moment, the applause in the school playground was so shocking. I know that these applause are the recognition and praise of the teachers and my classmates. It was also a final exclamation for the wonderful game before.

I smiled at the crowd, tears glistening in my eyes, tears of excitement. The applause at this moment was very burning, and it reminded me of the thunder in the summer sky. The thunderclap rang out in the sky, causing the earth to tremble. At this moment, standing on the podium, I felt the thunderous applause below, and my heart was also shocked. I felt like I was in the middle of the applause, and the applause that came at me will be hard to forget for years to come.

I slowly walked off the podium in front of everyone's eyes, and when I returned to the team, the shock of that moment still lingered in my heart. In the years to come, these applause will be the motivation to encourage me to move forward, and whenever I want to give up, this series of applause from the bottom of my heart will encourage me. As I listened to the applause, I knew that there were many people behind me who were looking forward to my future and my future success.

I will always stick to my long-distance running, and I will run my own new world in the future. vc